#21 ·
Thought I’d chime in—I also have a bicornuate uterus, and my experience was pretty devastating...😢..
We started trying early on, but they didn't actually diagnose the uterus bicornis until I was 19. By then, I was young and hadn't done much reading on the subject—though I had a sinking feeling things wouldn't be perfect. When I decided to get married on July 19, 2008, we made the call to start trying for a baby five months prior. It just wasn't happening. Then, five months later, my doctor told me I was finally going to be a mother. 🙂
I was overjoyed, but he immediately put me on pelvic rest—which wasn't an issue for me. The problem was my doctor; he was incredibly irresponsible and rarely kept his appointments. Just as my baby hit the four-and-a-half-month mark, everything went wrong. The bleeding started. I ended up hospitalized and placed on strict bed rest. My doctor insisted the bleeding was "normal," but deep down, I knew it wasn't...😢...
A month later—at 25 weeks—labor kicked in. I had to go into delivery. I knew instinctively this wasn't going to end well. I gave birth to little Port, weighing only 800 grams. He only lived for four days...😢:...
They didn't offer much explanation. Once I felt somewhat human again, I went back to see the doctor—maybe a bit too soon, honestly, since it had only been a month. We’ve been trying for another baby for five months now, but nothing...🤷..If it isn't meant to be, it isn't meant to be. I'm still trying, but I truly wish you all the best. Oh, and a colleague of mine with the exact same condition is already pregnant for the second time without any issues...
Good luck...
We started trying early on, but they didn't actually diagnose the uterus bicornis until I was 19. By then, I was young and hadn't done much reading on the subject—though I had a sinking feeling things wouldn't be perfect. When I decided to get married on July 19, 2008, we made the call to start trying for a baby five months prior. It just wasn't happening. Then, five months later, my doctor told me I was finally going to be a mother. 🙂
I was overjoyed, but he immediately put me on pelvic rest—which wasn't an issue for me. The problem was my doctor; he was incredibly irresponsible and rarely kept his appointments. Just as my baby hit the four-and-a-half-month mark, everything went wrong. The bleeding started. I ended up hospitalized and placed on strict bed rest. My doctor insisted the bleeding was "normal," but deep down, I knew it wasn't...😢...
A month later—at 25 weeks—labor kicked in. I had to go into delivery. I knew instinctively this wasn't going to end well. I gave birth to little Port, weighing only 800 grams. He only lived for four days...😢:...
They didn't offer much explanation. Once I felt somewhat human again, I went back to see the doctor—maybe a bit too soon, honestly, since it had only been a month. We’ve been trying for another baby for five months now, but nothing...🤷..If it isn't meant to be, it isn't meant to be. I'm still trying, but I truly wish you all the best. Oh, and a colleague of mine with the exact same condition is already pregnant for the second time without any issues...
Good luck...