Issues with sex life

I wasn't entirely sure if this was the right spot for this, but I figure sexual health is just a subset of general wellness, right?

Anyway, since so many people seem to pop up here looking for advice or answers regarding sex, I thought I’d start a dedicated thread where anyone can drop questions and hunt for info. When I have some downtime, I'm happy to help out—feel free to reach out via forum PM, email, or honestly, probably just a quick DM is best. If you want to get a better sense of who I am, you can check my background here: http://www.edusex.org/imate-seksualn...jte-darka.html

When we talk about sexual issues, things like premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction are pretty much the standard hurdles for guys, while women often deal with anorgasmia. I won't bore you by listing and describing every single thing right here, but here’s a quick breakdown of the most common dysfunctions:
- for men -
- for women -

Also, please feel free to use this space to talk about anything related to sexual health issues.

Best to everyone,

Alright, let me throw a little bit of my own logic your way here. 😂Is it better to sit down for a massive, hearty meal, or should you just spend the evening living large and showing off?
I suppose that really depends on the setting. ☕

Grace Palmer22 said:Alright, let me throw a curveball at you guys for a second 😂 is it better to have a massive feast or just go out and live it up?
I guess that really depends on the vibe of the night. ☕

What are you even talking about? How does that even relate to this thread?

EDIT: Okay, I just took a look at the post count and the registration date... I'm guessing hitting 666 posts in barely two weeks isn't exactly a casual feat...

neonraven8 said:I wasn't sure if this was the right place to start a thread, but I figured sexual health pretty much falls under the umbrella of general wellness, didn't it?

The thing is, so many people come on here looking for advice or answers regarding sex, so I thought I'd just open up a space where anyone can ask for information. When I have some downtime, I’m happy to help—feel free to reach out via the forums, email, or maybe even an IM service if that's easier. If you want to know a bit more about my background, you can check it out here: http://www.edusex.org/imate-seksualn...jte-darka.html

When we talk about sexual issues, we're usually looking at things like premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction—the big ones for men—and anorgasmia for women. Rather than getting bogged down in a massive list here, I've put together some brief summaries of the most common dysfunctions:
- for men -
- for women -

Anyway, I want to encourage everyone to speak up here about anything related to sexual health problems.

Best to everyone,

Hey,
Take a look at my thread "Marriage Without Sex" over in the SOCIETY/"Love, Erotica, Sex" section, and then maybe you can give me some actual, sensible advice for what I'm dealing with.

Thanks,

Douglas Bailey4 said:Hey there,
do me a favor and go check out my thread "Sexless Marriage" over in the Society/Relationships section. Maybe once you've had a look, you can drop some actual wisdom on my situation.

Thanks,

Hit me up on MSN so we can really dig into this... It’s a bit too messy and complicated to just dump everything into one single post.

neonraven8 is back. 🎉

neonraven8 said she’d slide into your DMs with her drama

Aaron Lee said:neonraven8 would probably just DM you the details about her issue

Honestly, let's skip the announcements here about sending PMs. No need to broadcast that you're heading to the inbox🙂

The extra guest fee at the Hilton

velvetsailor6 said:penis bonus pax in domus

haha, wait, when you say "bonus," do you mean an extra one or just "bonum," like, actually good?

I really can't get behind the idea of a student, someone with zero clinical experience, handing out advice to people dealing with serious issues in their sex lives or relationships.

Do you honestly think attending a single workshop, reading a few books, and studying under Dr. Štulhofer makes you qualified for this?

Does Dr. Štulhofer even know what you're up to?

And why would anyone bother coming to a student when they could go to trained psychotherapists with actual clinical experience?

Are you even aware of how much damage you could do to someone who’s genuinely struggling and looking for help?

Don't take this personally; it's just my take.

stormyheron4 said:haha, do you mean a "bonus" like an extra thing, or "bonum," as in good?

I mean bonum, like good... but then the rhyme would be ruined. It really just depends on the situation. Sometimes you actually need a bonus. It all depends on the circumstances. This proverb is complicated to explain... but honestly, everything is written right there once you get it. It’s most applicable to people who are married... but for single people, it can be dangerous.

Lisa Adams said:I really can't get behind the idea of a student—someone with zero actual therapeutic experience—handing out advice to people dealing with serious issues in their sex lives or their relationships.

Do you honestly think sitting through a few workshops, reading a handful of books, and studying under Dr. Štulhofer qualifies you for what you're doing?

Does Dr. Štulhofer even know what you're up to?

And why on earth would anyone turn to you, a student, when there are trained psychotherapists with real clinical experience available?

Are you even aware of how much damage you could potentially cause to someone who’s genuinely struggling and reaches out to you for help?

Don't take this personally; it's just my take on things.

I live for messages like this... You don't have a clue what I actually do or how I go about it, but suddenly it's decided that nothing good can come from my involvement. Look, I don't feel the need to defend myself here, but just so we're clear: if something sounds heavy or serious, my role is basically just being a sounding board and passing along contact info for professionals who can actually handle it. That said, for a lot of everyday stuff, I actually can offer some pretty decent advice.

Look, you don't even know me or why I'm posting this.
I can tell you that I've seen Dr. Miller's work from both sides of the fence.
I know firsthand how hard it is to help someone dealing with these kinds of issues and still expect to see even the slightest bit of progress.
And that’s all while working with an experienced therapist who’s gone through countless workshops, seminars, and advanced training...
It isn't easy... it's incredibly tough to offer support, try to provide it, and actually start making a dent in the problem.

Look, I respect your drive, but at the end of the day, what matters is experience. You shouldn't mess around with stuff like this. It's too dangerous.