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How much can you actually trust people online?

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Participants jadepuma6Amy Barrett2Benjamin Johnson23Karen Garcia5Susan Vaughn46Karen Young17AAmy SmithFrank KernAnthony Roberts2Laura MendozaMatthew Williams47Carl Martin41Elizabeth Howard5
jadepuma6 jadepuma6 NewcomerOP
4 messages
joined Feb 2008
#1 ·
Ever actually met someone from the internet? Like, gone as far as being in an actual relationship? And more importantly, can you even trust them? Honestly, I don't buy it. I think these internet freaks can't truly see how special you are as long as they've still got a bunch of unexplored virtual options out there... Or maybe, just maybe, someone finally found exactly what they were looking for online and decided the hunt was over.
Amy Barrett2 Amy Barrett2 Newcomer
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joined Dec 2014
#2 ·
It all just seems to be a roll of the dice. It’s the same in real life—you might stumble upon the love of your life, or you might just end up with an idiot. But my advice? Don't go trusting anyone completely right out of the gate. If they seem decent, push to meet up in person first. Personally, I've only ever met people from this forum, and honestly, everyone has turned out to be perfectly normal.😁
Benjamin Johnson23 Benjamin Johnson23 Newcomer
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joined Jul 2008
#3 ·
Personally, I find those online entities asking for my credit card details just so they can deposit $1,000,000 into my account to be the most trustworthy...😬
I always provide them with the number immediately.👍
Karen Garcia5 Karen Garcia5 Member
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joined Jan 2012
#4 ·
I've met a ton of people in real life who I first connected with online. In maybe 90% of cases, they were actually decent people, but then you've still got that other 10% who are just total idiots 😁
Susan Vaughn46 Susan Vaughn46 Newcomer
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joined Apr 2012
#5 ·
I met my current boyfriend online after dating for a year and a half, my ex from an eighteen-month relationship, and my best friend whom I’m always grabbing coffee with... Basically, I found my entire life on the internet 😁
Karen Young17 Karen Young17 Member
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joined Sep 2017
#6 ·
I’m currently living with a guy I met online 😍

and honestly, I’ve met quite a few people through the internet 🥳 my experiences have been more or less fine...

but you might be looking in the wrong place for an answer to that 😁 plenty of people actually meet in real life on this forum 🥳
A Anonymous Veteran
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joined May 2005
#7 ·
jadepuma6 said:Have you ever actually met someone online, maybe even dated them, and managed to really trust them? Honestly, I feel like someone who’s obsessed with the digital world can't truly see how special you are as long as there are still endless virtual possibilities out there... Or, on the flip side, maybe someone finally found exactly what they were looking for online, and now their search is over entirely....

Yes.
Yes. 😍
Yes. 😍😍

Maybe they're just lost in the woods. 🤷

And even if every single answer to your questions comes back as a "yes," that doesn't mean you haven't run into a total idiot. 😉 Anyway—good luck, it's worth a shot.
Amy Smith Amy Smith Member
33 messages
joined Nov 2011
#8 ·
I actually met one of my absolute best friends online—and as an awesome little bonus, I ended up becoming close friends with his sister, too. But then, of course, you also run into a massive crowd of total idiots along the way. It really just goes to show that the internet is exactly like real life... everything just depends on who you happen to cross paths with...
Frank Kern Frank Kern Newcomer
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joined Jan 2006
#9 ·
I’m genuinely curious here...
For those of you who have actually met someone from the internet in person—did they actually look like their profile pictures?😉🙂
Karen Young17 Karen Young17 Member
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joined Sep 2017
#10 ·
It’s a bit difficult to put into words 😁—it’s both true and not quite...

They are, because I’ve actually seen photos of them and everything...
But they aren't, because your mind builds its own version of someone, and when you finally see them in person, reality rarely matches the mental image...
Amy Barrett2 Amy Barrett2 Newcomer
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joined Dec 2014
#11 ·
They really are😉

That’s why my advice is simple—never lie. You never truly know how much someone is going to mean to you down the road, and then you look back realizing you lied to someone who became incredibly important to you😉
Anthony Roberts2 Anthony Roberts2 Member
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joined Jan 2008
#12 ·
I know a few people from Reddit... absolute lunatics, I’m telling you... total LUNATICS ☕

Personally, I find 😍 😕
Laura Mendoza Laura Mendoza Active Member
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joined Feb 2008
#13 ·
Susan Vaughn46 said:I met my current boyfriend online after dating for a year and a half, my ex from an eighteen-month relationship, and my best friend—who I’m constantly grabbing coffee with—all through the internet. To put it simply, I found my entire social circle online.

Karen Young17 said:I’m currently living with a guy I met online.

I’ve also met quite a few people online. 🥳 Less is more when it comes to experience... sometimes.

You’ve definitely picked the wrong place to ask that question on this Reddit thread. So many people here have ended up meeting in real life.

Anonymous said:Yes.
Yes. 😍
Yes. 😍😍

Maybe they're out in the woods.

Even if you get a "yes" to every single question you ask, that doesn't mean you haven't just run headfirst into an idiot. 😉 In any case—good luck. It’s definitely worth a shot.

And here I was, thinking I was the exception to the rule. 😁 To be honest, I met my partner online too, though we eventually had a proper introduction through a mutual friend who went to elementary school with him and high school with me. All in all, it was absolutely worth it. 😍😍😍
I’ve actually developed some genuine affection for certain people here on Reddit—folks like malena_1309, Daisy, and even the Mafia. Even if our paths never cross in the real world, I truly value having them in my life like this. 🙂
Matthew Williams47 Matthew Williams47 Newcomer
5 messages
joined Dec 2007
#14 ·
Just gotta trust your gut.
Carl Martin41 Carl Martin41 Newcomer
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joined Aug 2008
#15 ·
I just can't even believe this...
Karen Garcia5 Karen Garcia5 Member
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joined Jan 2012
#16 ·
Maybe shake off that paranoia... 🙂
Elizabeth Howard5 Elizabeth Howard5 Newcomer
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joined Mar 2008
#17 ·
I tend to steer clear of getting too deep into anyone's business through a screen.

Most of the time, you pretty much know what someone is about within the first few seconds of actually standing in front of them. You can't replicate that feeling with some long-term digital friendship, no matter how much you chat online.

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