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I’ve been thinking a lot lately about this obsession we have with the "grind." You see it everywhere—in sports, in tech, even in how people talk about their side hustles. There’s this romanticized idea that if you aren't being pushed to your absolute breaking point, or if you aren't being "hard coached" every second of the day, you aren't actually growing.
I used to buy into this whole mentality when I was playing competitive soccer in college. I thought if my coach wasn't riding my back constantly, I was getting lazy. But looking back, I wonder how much of that was actually productive and how much was just unnecessary stress that led to burnout. There’s a fine line between being pushed to excel and just being broken down for the sake of it.
At what point does intense mentorship or high-pressure coaching stop being helpful and start becoming counterproductive?
I used to buy into this whole mentality when I was playing competitive soccer in college. I thought if my coach wasn't riding my back constantly, I was getting lazy. But looking back, I wonder how much of that was actually productive and how much was just unnecessary stress that led to burnout. There’s a fine line between being pushed to excel and just being broken down for the sake of it.
At what point does intense mentorship or high-pressure coaching stop being helpful and start becoming counterproductive?