Looking for my thread

So, I actually went ahead and started a whole new thread over on Reddit in the sex and erotica sub. I titled it "Hot Friend vs. Total Mess—to ask or not to ask?"
I’ve been scouring the site trying to find it, but it’s nowhere to be seen... It might have been merged into some other massive thread somewhere, so if anyone could help me track it down, I'd really appreciate it.
Thanks in advance

Do you happen to know when this thread was first started or when the very last post went up? I'm looking through your profile, but I just can't seem to find it listed there.

Why are you even acting surprised? This whole thing has been on my mind for a while now. 😲 🤣🤣🤣

Ronald Howard75 said:It’s not straightforward, and I honestly don't know which subforum this fits under. It touches on sexology, I guess, but I'll let the mods decide.
We're talking about something... let's just say, pretty complicated.

We have a solid group of friends. Maybe ten of us. We all get along pretty well. A mix of guys and girls. So, there's this one female friend in our circle—she's totally cool. Really attractive, too. Like, seriously hot.
And I should mention, we're all pretty broke. That's where the idea came from.
I feel kind of ashamed, maybe, having to lay this out like this, but I'm only here because I want to be real.
This hot friend of ours, she has a boyfriend, but he's a total jerk. She's with him because, well, everyone has someone.
But me and two other buddies hit on an idea to try and make some quick cash through something like OnlyFans. All of us, obviously. No exceptions.
The spark happened when we realized that, say, young American women have their own clips online. Like, they film some innocent sex tape and pull in a little cash. Nothing crazy.
What we want to do is organize something similar with our friend, but more like gang bang and bukkake stuff, and then try to sell the video.
I know, it sounds like a terrible idea, but it's better than—and I'm saying this tentatively—the idea we had about her trying to do something solo for money. We'd look out for her.
The hardest part is we have no clue how to pitch it to her. She needs the money too, so why not combine pleasure with profit?
I mean, I don't know how she'd react to gang bangs, bukkake, facial, or whatever else, if we're planning to put it on the web.
I know you guys probably think this is twisted, but it isn't. We're all just trying to survive.
I've been chewing on this.
If we don't ask, we'll regret it later. If we do ask, we risk her shutting us down. Either way, there's no malice here. It's just what works for us.

Aha, looks like my colleague decided to lock the thread.

rustydrifter10 said:Do you actually know when this thread was started or even when the last person posted here? I mean, I checked, and it’s just not showing up on your profile at all.

Look, here it is... this is the exact thread Basil found..

Taylor Cook96 said:I mean, why on earth are you acting surprised? This whole thing was already discussed 😲 🤣🤣🤣

Thanks a million, Basil, for digging up that thread... though I have no clue where it actually was.
But seriously, why is this even against the rules? Did I actually offend someone or something?

Matthew Anderson said:Oh, so my colleague decided to lock the thread.

Which colleague? Good grief, why on earth would they do that?

So, let me see if I have this straight: you’re actually approaching the community for advice on how to manipulate a sweet female friend—purely because you find her attractive—into participating in a group sex scenario involving multiple men, all while filming the encounter to sell online because "times are tough" and people need to make a buck?

Furthermore, you are implying that the plan involves coercing her into entering the sex work industry under your "protection," essentially acting as her pimp.

And now you’re wondering why we had to shut your thread down?

Please take a moment to actually read the subforum rules. Thank you.

Sarah Sanders34 said:So, wait... let me get this straight. You’re actually coming on here to ask the community for advice on how to convince some cute girl you hang out with—just because she’s attractive, mind you—to participate in a group sex scenario where a bunch of guys... well, finish all over her face? And then, apparently, you want to film the whole thing to sell online? Because, God forbid, times are tough and people need to make a buck? I mean, seriously? I guess I'm just wondering if anyone else is hearing this right. It's... it's a lot. It feels like we've crossed some kind of line here, doesn't it? Maybe I'm being too intense, but honestly, it sounds incredibly predatory. Like, you aren't even talking about a mutual decision or a shared fantasy; you're talking about manipulating a friend for a quick payday. I don't know, maybe I'm just old-fashioned or something, but that's... that's dark. Really dark. People need to earn money, sure, but there's a massive difference between working a side hustle and trying to exploit someone you know for adult content. It's just... wow. I'm almost speechless. Is this really what we're doing now? Asking for tips on how to turn a friendship into a filmed transaction? It's messed up, man. Just completely messed up.

You really think it’s that simple? Honestly... I mean, do you? You can't just assume things work that way. It's never that straightforward. I guess some people just want to believe there's an easy answer, but life—and especially this whole situation—is rarely that kind. It's complicated. Much more complicated than anyone wants to admit, I suppose.
It’s like... I don't even know, is it some kind of sick joke? Like some twisted little game people play? Honestly, it’s not even funny. It actually makes me feel pretty lousy seeing things stuck in that state, you know? But, I guess... if we're being real, that kind of stuff is just out there floating around on those X video pages anyway. It exists. Whether we like it or not.
Look, what am I even supposed to say? Who am I to judge? Honestly, if people want to go digging through the internet to find those recordings and all that other garbage, they’re going to find it—it’s all out there anyway. But now, Sarah Sanders34, you’re actually coming after me? You're really calling me out just because I presented a legitimate offer? I guess I don't see how that's fair, maybe... but seriously, give me a break.
Look, nobody here is forcing anyone to do anything... seriously. So why did I even bother posting that on the forum in the first place? Well, I guess it’s because there’s this underlying, palpable awkwardness surrounding TGA, right? It just feels off. And honestly, bringing stuff like that up... it’s just not exactly conducive to, you know, maintaining healthy social vibes or whatever you want to call decent relationships. It's uncomfortable. Maybe I shouldn't have said anything, but someone had to.
Look, if she says no, then it’s a no. Period. End of story. There isn't any reason to get aggressive or start throwing insults around, I guess. It just is what it is.
I was merely throwing an idea out there, you know? Just posing a possibility. But you—well, you clearly went straight for the full-blown Inquisition approach. It’s like you just decided to go ahead and perform a total decapitation instead. Honestly.

Sarah Sanders34 said:So, you’re basically implying that they’d try to pressure her into selling sexual services, and then—get this—you all would just look the other way? Like you'd actually act as her handlers or something? I don't know, maybe I'm overthinking it, but it sounds incredibly shady.

That’s a pretty gross oversimplification... I mean, seriously, if you actually want to see who’s really involved in that kind of business, just go browse the classified ads or check out those escort sites. You'll see exactly what I'm talking about. But honestly? I don't even want to know. I refuse to look. Our proposal was strictly on a micro level—it wasn't even hinting at any kind of illegal trade, despite how much you seem to be trying to insinuate that it was. It just wasn't like that.

Sarah Sanders34 said:And you have the nerve to ask me why you guys shut this thread down? Seriously?

Look, I’m going to ask you—just once, please—to actually sit down and read the subforum rules. Seriously. It would save us all a massive headache if everyone just took a second to familiarize themselves with how things work around here. Thanks.

Look, I mean... honestly, do you even have a clue what the adult industry actually looks like? You clearly don't. It’s not some little side hustle, either. We’re talking about one of the fastest-growing sectors on the planet—we're talking tens of billions in revenue! It's massive. It's huge. I guess people just like to pretend it isn't, but the numbers don't lie. Seriously.
And honestly... what I’m trying to get at here is... you mean to tell me you actually don't know what adult sites are? Like, seriously? You've never even stumbled upon a porn site or anything of that nature? I mean, I guess I shouldn't be surprised, but still... it just seems... well, unlikely, I suppose.
Why on earth are you judging me? Just because I’m not some perfect, spotless saint, doesn't mean I'm the absolute disaster you're trying to paint me out to be... I mean, seriously. It's like you've already decided who I am without even bothering to look at the actual person standing right in front of you. It feels unfair, I guess. Maybe I could be cleaner, sure, but that doesn't give anyone the right to slap a label on me like I'm some kind of total wreck. It's just... it's exhausting, really.
Wait, so this isn't actually a forum? Is that not what this is supposed to be? I thought we were here to debate, to actually hash things out, you know? But apparently, if a topic gets even remotely spicy or touches a nerve, the whole thing just gets scrubbed away. Just deleted. Gone. I guess that’s just how it works now... maybe I misunderstood the whole point of being here.
Fine, do whatever you want. Look, I was just trying to explain myself here—I’m not some kind of sexual deviant or anything. It wasn't even like that. It was just... I don't know, an idea popped into my head to just mess around with the concept, play with the idea, you know? That's really all it was. Nothing more.
Look, I know... I really do know that it isn't exactly moral. It’s questionable, at best. But honestly? Who even cares what anyone else thinks? People love to sit on their high horses and judge, but frankly, let them talk. I guess I just don't see why their opinion matters so much.

Ronald Howard75 said:That’s a bit of an oversimplification... Honestly, just go check out Craigslist or some escort sites and you'll see exactly who is actually doing that kind of work. I have zero interest in knowing. Our suggestion was meant on a micro level; we weren't implying anything about trafficking, despite how much you're trying to insinuate...

Feel free to promote your little idea on Craigslist or wherever else—on Reddit, it's not welcome and it goes against the rules.

Ronald Howard75 said:Excuse me, but do you even know what the adult industry is? It's one of the fastest-growing sectors out there, pulling in tens of billions in revenue!

Reddit has nothing to do with the porn industry. Having a conversation about sex and eroticism is perfectly fine, but your specific topic and things like it? Not here.