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Random acts of kindness?

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Participants John Boothurbanowl2steelheron53Dana Moore6Kimberly Robinson2Sam Lee2John Scott3fadedrider17Richard Sullivan4
John Booth John Booth MemberOP
46 messages
joined Apr 2004
#1 ·
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TmKKaf2F6uk
Watching this video really got me thinking about the last meaningful thing I did for someone else and how long ago that actually was.

It eventually occurred to me that a few weeks back, I picked up a kid who had pulled over on the side of the road and gave him a ride to school. It was pouring rain, and he didn't have a jacket or an umbrella; I just couldn't bear the thought of him getting soaked.

What about you all? What small kindnesses have you performed lately?
urbanowl2 urbanowl2 Newcomer
4 messages
joined Aug 2012
#2 ·
That was such an awesome video.

I ended up helping an elderly lady carry her groceries home earlier today, and while it was just a small gesture, it honestly left me feeling so uplifted, especially since we chatted the whole way and she kept wishing me the best and hoping I'd find myself a sweet, honest girl soon.🤣
John Booth John Booth MemberOP
46 messages
joined Apr 2004
#3 ·
I have to admit, I’m a bit surprised,
85 views and only one reply. 😲

Perhaps we could expand on this topic a little;
has anyone else experienced an unexpected act of kindness recently?

A few months ago, I went to pick up a background check from a local government office. A woman and I both handed over our paperwork and prepared to wait. Suddenly, the clerk looks at us and says, "I see neither of you are locals, so let me hand this to my colleague right now to expedite the process so you don't have to sit around."
I ended up receiving my clearance in just a few minutes, even though I could have easily been waiting for over three hours.
Kudos to that man. 👍
steelheron53 steelheron53 Newcomer
1 message
joined Oct 2013
#4 ·
For the past couple of weeks, every time I head into Walmart, I’ve noticed an older gentleman sitting right out front, asking for help. I find myself feeling for him, so I stop to give him a little something... Then I walk out, see him there again, and give him a little something once more. It’s hard to put into words, but honestly, it was such a profound sense of fulfillment. I can't quite describe it, but it was one of those rare, truly wonderful moments that I had never experienced before in that way.
Dana Moore6 Dana Moore6 Newcomer
1 message
joined Oct 2012
#5 ·
I try to step up whenever I see someone struggling, but I’ve realized I’m actually terrible at taking thanks. Especially when people go overboard with it... it just makes me want to turn bright red and run away 😁
Otherwise, I mostly just help out seniors who have mastered the art of overpacking grocery bags—or better yet, lugging heavy propane tanks 😲
Kimberly Robinson2 Kimberly Robinson2 Active Member
67 messages
joined Dec 2011
#6 ·
I’ve been doing this for years—just helping out where I can. Mostly, I just send care packages to people who are actually struggling. I'm not one for bragging about it; I just want to show others that it isn't some monumental task. It bugs me when people claim they have absolutely nothing to give while they're sitting there working—if I'm not working, I always make sure to have a little extra sugar, flour, or some small thing to pass along. Sometimes it's just buying a slider or a sandwich for someone hungry who's out there begging on the street.

A lot of people ask, "What if they're just scamming you?" Honestly, let them. That's on their soul, not yours. Every lie and every theft weighs on the person committing it, not the person giving. I don't lose sleep over it—that warm feeling you get from doing something good is what matters to me.

I've been played before. I've been conned and handed empty promises, so I know exactly how that feels. Nothing cuts deeper than being robbed or deceived by someone who actually meant something to you—someone who then has the nerve to mock you or lie to your face afterward. It hurts. But those kinds of people don't realize they're doing the most damage to themselves. They think they're winning because they have money, but they're ignoring something much more powerful and permanent... and by then, it'll be too late.

It honestly baffles me why people—and there are plenty of them here in the States—will offer to help, make a big promise, and then just never follow through. Why bother with the fake gestures? Why has our society become so full of pretenders?
Don't these individuals realize they're mostly just lying to themselves? They're doing something wrong. They cause pain and disappointment to someone who actually valued them as a decent human being, only to turn out to be nothing more than a traitorous coward.

Does it really feel good to them? Do they actually find joy in flattering someone just to let them down?

Look, if you're going to tell someone you're going to help, just do it. Period.
If you have the means to help someone, then help them. You never know when the tables might turn and you'll be the one in need.
You might have everything today, but tomorrow could be a completely different story.

Karma catches up to everyone eventually. Everything comes back around.
Sam Lee2 Sam Lee2 Newcomer
3 messages
joined Mar 2011
#7 ·
I try to lend a hand to someone every single day, mostly because it’s the only way I can actually stomach feeling good about myself.
It turns out, if you really sit down and peel back the layers, most of my "good deeds" are driven by nothing more than pure, unadulterated selfishness... 😢
But hey, what can you do? Everyone just does the best they can with the tools they've got, right? 🙂
John Scott3 John Scott3 Newcomer
1 message
joined Feb 2014
#8 ·
I make small donations to UNICEF and the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation.
I drop a few things in the donation bin here and there... As for cash, I only give to people with disabilities, and I make sure they see it happening.
fadedrider17 fadedrider17 Member
47 messages
joined Aug 2009
#9 ·
Those ninjas from downtown Chicago are officially my number one right now. 🙂 It’s pure altruism—no matter how you slice it.
Richard Sullivan4 Richard Sullivan4 Newcomer
1 message
joined Feb 2014
#10 ·
I’ve always helped out when I can, and honestly, I probably always will—even if my own bank account isn't exactly overflowing. It’s not about some ego trip or trying to feel like a saint, really. I just... I guess I just feel bad for people who are struggling, especially when you see how the system lets them get treated like garbage while everyone else just looks the other way.

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