Kimberly Robinson2
Active Member
67 messages
joined Dec 2011
I’ve been doing this for years—just helping out where I can. Mostly, I just send care packages to people who are actually struggling. I'm not one for bragging about it; I just want to show others that it isn't some monumental task. It bugs me when people claim they have absolutely nothing to give while they're sitting there working—if I'm not working, I always make sure to have a little extra sugar, flour, or some small thing to pass along. Sometimes it's just buying a slider or a sandwich for someone hungry who's out there begging on the street.
A lot of people ask, "What if they're just scamming you?" Honestly, let them. That's on their soul, not yours. Every lie and every theft weighs on the person committing it, not the person giving. I don't lose sleep over it—that warm feeling you get from doing something good is what matters to me.
I've been played before. I've been conned and handed empty promises, so I know exactly how that feels. Nothing cuts deeper than being robbed or deceived by someone who actually meant something to you—someone who then has the nerve to mock you or lie to your face afterward. It hurts. But those kinds of people don't realize they're doing the most damage to themselves. They think they're winning because they have money, but they're ignoring something much more powerful and permanent... and by then, it'll be too late.
It honestly baffles me why people—and there are plenty of them here in the States—will offer to help, make a big promise, and then just never follow through. Why bother with the fake gestures? Why has our society become so full of pretenders?
Don't these individuals realize they're mostly just lying to themselves? They're doing something wrong. They cause pain and disappointment to someone who actually valued them as a decent human being, only to turn out to be nothing more than a traitorous coward.
Does it really feel good to them? Do they actually find joy in flattering someone just to let them down?
Look, if you're going to tell someone you're going to help, just do it. Period.
If you have the means to help someone, then help them. You never know when the tables might turn and you'll be the one in need.
You might have everything today, but tomorrow could be a completely different story.
Karma catches up to everyone eventually. Everything comes back around.