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I am actually going to lose my mind—and I mean completely lose it!!! I desperately need some urgent advice or if anyone has dealt with anything even remotely similar to this!
my story starts with...
On Monday, Oct 31, I started taking Doxycycline for 15 days, twice a day, because of some chronic small intestine inflammation (which, honestly, is kind of irrelevant right now)
By Wednesday, Nov 2—only the third day of the Doxycycline treatment—I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time (I hadn't been intimate with anyone in two and a half years). It hurt during intercourse, and it kept hurting every time we were together. At first, I just chalked it up to being out of practice—you know, thinking maybe things were just a bit too rough since it had been so long
Then came Wednesday, Nov 9, and Friday, Nov 11. Basically, about a week after the pain first started—during those two specific days when we had sex—it wasn't just "pain" anymore. It was this deathly, agonizing cramping. I couldn't move. Literally, I just collapsed into bed. That first Wednesday, it lasted about 15 minutes before dulling slightly, though it lingered for another two hours. But by Friday? It happened all over again, and this time the cramp lasted an hour and a half. I was in tears. I can't even describe the agony; I couldn't move a single millimeter. Once it subsided just enough to breathe, I rushed to the ER. Maybe it helped that I’d popped a heavy-duty painkiller an hour prior, but anyway, the staff there was so dismissive. They barely touched my abdomen—just one finger—even though it was rock hard, painful, and bloated, like I was six months pregnant. They gave me some Smazmex which did absolutely nothing. Things eased up a little after three or four hours, but I was in pain all weekend. By then, after those two days, I realized for certain that this had nothing to do with sex....
On Monday, Nov 14, I went to see my gynecologist. He did an exam and told me I have salpingitis (inflammation of the fallopian tubes). He ran an ultrasound just to be safe, but he said the ultrasound wouldn't show much unless there was an abscess, a cyst, a tumor, or a rupture—so he figured the inflammation wasn't at an advanced stage yet. He handed me a lab slip for blood work and told me to come back ASAP with the results so we could start treatment (though it still makes zero sense to me why he waited for blood work instead of just starting antibiotics immediately or taking swabs right then and there)
On Wednesday, Nov 16, I went back with my results. Everything was within the normal range. He also ordered a CRP test, which wasn't elevated, though he didn't order an ESR (sedimentation rate), which feels incredibly weird to me because my OBGYN textbook clearly states that CRP isn't the primary indicator—you look at the ESR to detect inflammation. Anyway, he prescribed Erythromycin for eight days since I'm allergic to penicillin and cephalosporins.... so I took it until Thursday, Nov 17, for the full eight days
On Friday, Nov 18, I had a clinical session with another gynecologist. I explained the whole situation to him, and he performed a 3D/4D ultrasound. He told me that, in his opinion, I don't have salpingitis because if I did, he would have seen it on the scan. He suggested it's more likely cervicitis and told me to get swabs done. It was nice of him, and he wrote it down in a way that my regular doctor couldn't just brush off
On Monday, Nov 21, I went back to my original gynecologist. He took the swabs, and the results came back on Friday, Nov 25. Everything was negative. Negative for Chlamydia, Mycoplasma, Ureaplasma, and aerobes... which made me realize—did he just forget to test for anaerobes?
I was planning to go see him this week to ask why he didn't test for anaerobes, but he ended up leaving early on Wednesday for a meeting, and he’s out again today and tomorrow. Honestly, on Monday and Tuesday, I just didn't have the mental energy to go because I'm so fed up. And truthfully, I had started to convince myself that maybe it was nothing and I had healed, since I hadn't felt pain all week. But then, I finally had sex with my boyfriend today, and the pain is back. I don't even know what to do anymore.... I can't even remember if it used to hurt like this before. I wondered if it's because I had an orgasm—could that be causing the cramping? I think I read somewhere that some women can't continue having sex after an orgasm because of the pain... It seems unbelievable that I could have salpingitis or cervicitis caused by anaerobes, especially since everything I read says cervicitis is frequently caused by them too......
Oh, and I forgot to mention—ever since that Friday, November 11th, when I ended up in the ER, I’ve been stuck with this low-grade fever hovering between 99°F and 99.5°F. I honestly thought it was just some lingering inflammation in my fallopian tubes or cervix, but now I’m wondering if it isn't actually something else... because I caught a nasty cold back on Sunday, November 23rd, and had a fever then too, which just wouldn't quit. I eventually needed to see a doctor for antibiotics, and at that point, I figured—why take two different antibiotic courses if I already have to take Doxycycline regardless?—so I just started the Doxycycline immediately. But even then, I had a fever for about ten days, which finally broke by the third day of the Doxycycline, only for the fever to come screaming back right when I finished up at the ER...
And now, to top it all off, my mom is looking at me—since I've still got this lingering cough from the 23rd—and she’s convinced I might have pneumonia and that's where the fever is coming from. Honestly, I am completely lost on what to do next...
For instance, it's been about an hour since I had sex, and I'm still feeling some pain—though it's mild—and I can't help but wonder if it's being triggered by the orgasm. It shouldn't last this long, right? Or would it?
Anyway, the real question is: has anyone here dealt with anything remotely similar? Did any of you experience cervicitis or salpingitis caused by anaerobes? Has anyone actually had anaerobes isolated in their tests? Does anyone deal with pelvic pain during intercourse even when nothing has been isolated yet? Or specifically, does it hurt after an orgasm?
Ugh, I feel like I'm losing my mind! I have clinical rotations tomorrow, and I'm planning to bring this up with the doctor at the hospital, though I have a sinking feeling he’ll just brush me off... I really don't know whether I should be aggressive with my gynecologist about running a swab for anaerobes or if I should just go get a chest X-ray to check my lungs. Good grief!
And as for how I've been obsessively researching all of this—looking into the Doxycycline and Erythromycin I've been taking—those aren't even effective against anaerobes! And since they haven't been isolated in my case yet (because, let's face it, I was being a bit manic and cross-referencing every single pathogen that causes salpingitis with my current prescription), I feel like I'm just spinning my wheels! I'm going to work myself into an early grave!😢
Sorry for dumping all this on you guys.😢
Medicine is such a headache sometimes—here I am, a sixth-year medical student, having to scour the internet and pester forum users for answers!😢
my story starts with...
On Monday, Oct 31, I started taking Doxycycline for 15 days, twice a day, because of some chronic small intestine inflammation (which, honestly, is kind of irrelevant right now)
By Wednesday, Nov 2—only the third day of the Doxycycline treatment—I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time (I hadn't been intimate with anyone in two and a half years). It hurt during intercourse, and it kept hurting every time we were together. At first, I just chalked it up to being out of practice—you know, thinking maybe things were just a bit too rough since it had been so long
Then came Wednesday, Nov 9, and Friday, Nov 11. Basically, about a week after the pain first started—during those two specific days when we had sex—it wasn't just "pain" anymore. It was this deathly, agonizing cramping. I couldn't move. Literally, I just collapsed into bed. That first Wednesday, it lasted about 15 minutes before dulling slightly, though it lingered for another two hours. But by Friday? It happened all over again, and this time the cramp lasted an hour and a half. I was in tears. I can't even describe the agony; I couldn't move a single millimeter. Once it subsided just enough to breathe, I rushed to the ER. Maybe it helped that I’d popped a heavy-duty painkiller an hour prior, but anyway, the staff there was so dismissive. They barely touched my abdomen—just one finger—even though it was rock hard, painful, and bloated, like I was six months pregnant. They gave me some Smazmex which did absolutely nothing. Things eased up a little after three or four hours, but I was in pain all weekend. By then, after those two days, I realized for certain that this had nothing to do with sex....
On Monday, Nov 14, I went to see my gynecologist. He did an exam and told me I have salpingitis (inflammation of the fallopian tubes). He ran an ultrasound just to be safe, but he said the ultrasound wouldn't show much unless there was an abscess, a cyst, a tumor, or a rupture—so he figured the inflammation wasn't at an advanced stage yet. He handed me a lab slip for blood work and told me to come back ASAP with the results so we could start treatment (though it still makes zero sense to me why he waited for blood work instead of just starting antibiotics immediately or taking swabs right then and there)
On Wednesday, Nov 16, I went back with my results. Everything was within the normal range. He also ordered a CRP test, which wasn't elevated, though he didn't order an ESR (sedimentation rate), which feels incredibly weird to me because my OBGYN textbook clearly states that CRP isn't the primary indicator—you look at the ESR to detect inflammation. Anyway, he prescribed Erythromycin for eight days since I'm allergic to penicillin and cephalosporins.... so I took it until Thursday, Nov 17, for the full eight days
On Friday, Nov 18, I had a clinical session with another gynecologist. I explained the whole situation to him, and he performed a 3D/4D ultrasound. He told me that, in his opinion, I don't have salpingitis because if I did, he would have seen it on the scan. He suggested it's more likely cervicitis and told me to get swabs done. It was nice of him, and he wrote it down in a way that my regular doctor couldn't just brush off
On Monday, Nov 21, I went back to my original gynecologist. He took the swabs, and the results came back on Friday, Nov 25. Everything was negative. Negative for Chlamydia, Mycoplasma, Ureaplasma, and aerobes... which made me realize—did he just forget to test for anaerobes?
I was planning to go see him this week to ask why he didn't test for anaerobes, but he ended up leaving early on Wednesday for a meeting, and he’s out again today and tomorrow. Honestly, on Monday and Tuesday, I just didn't have the mental energy to go because I'm so fed up. And truthfully, I had started to convince myself that maybe it was nothing and I had healed, since I hadn't felt pain all week. But then, I finally had sex with my boyfriend today, and the pain is back. I don't even know what to do anymore.... I can't even remember if it used to hurt like this before. I wondered if it's because I had an orgasm—could that be causing the cramping? I think I read somewhere that some women can't continue having sex after an orgasm because of the pain... It seems unbelievable that I could have salpingitis or cervicitis caused by anaerobes, especially since everything I read says cervicitis is frequently caused by them too......
Oh, and I forgot to mention—ever since that Friday, November 11th, when I ended up in the ER, I’ve been stuck with this low-grade fever hovering between 99°F and 99.5°F. I honestly thought it was just some lingering inflammation in my fallopian tubes or cervix, but now I’m wondering if it isn't actually something else... because I caught a nasty cold back on Sunday, November 23rd, and had a fever then too, which just wouldn't quit. I eventually needed to see a doctor for antibiotics, and at that point, I figured—why take two different antibiotic courses if I already have to take Doxycycline regardless?—so I just started the Doxycycline immediately. But even then, I had a fever for about ten days, which finally broke by the third day of the Doxycycline, only for the fever to come screaming back right when I finished up at the ER...
And now, to top it all off, my mom is looking at me—since I've still got this lingering cough from the 23rd—and she’s convinced I might have pneumonia and that's where the fever is coming from. Honestly, I am completely lost on what to do next...
For instance, it's been about an hour since I had sex, and I'm still feeling some pain—though it's mild—and I can't help but wonder if it's being triggered by the orgasm. It shouldn't last this long, right? Or would it?
Anyway, the real question is: has anyone here dealt with anything remotely similar? Did any of you experience cervicitis or salpingitis caused by anaerobes? Has anyone actually had anaerobes isolated in their tests? Does anyone deal with pelvic pain during intercourse even when nothing has been isolated yet? Or specifically, does it hurt after an orgasm?
Ugh, I feel like I'm losing my mind! I have clinical rotations tomorrow, and I'm planning to bring this up with the doctor at the hospital, though I have a sinking feeling he’ll just brush me off... I really don't know whether I should be aggressive with my gynecologist about running a swab for anaerobes or if I should just go get a chest X-ray to check my lungs. Good grief!
And as for how I've been obsessively researching all of this—looking into the Doxycycline and Erythromycin I've been taking—those aren't even effective against anaerobes! And since they haven't been isolated in my case yet (because, let's face it, I was being a bit manic and cross-referencing every single pathogen that causes salpingitis with my current prescription), I feel like I'm just spinning my wheels! I'm going to work myself into an early grave!😢
Sorry for dumping all this on you guys.😢
Medicine is such a headache sometimes—here I am, a sixth-year medical student, having to scour the internet and pester forum users for answers!😢