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Anthony Mitchell40 Anthony Mitchell40 NewcomerOP
2 messages
joined May 2009
#1 ·
There are moments in life when everything feels like it's spiraling out of control, and honestly, sometimes a simple hug is the only thing that can ground you. It isn't about some grand, sweeping gesture or a profound speech; it’s just that basic, human connection that reminds you you're not navigating the chaos alone. (:

I’m curious if any of you have actually heard about this movement—if you can even call it that—going by the name Free hugs.

If you aren't familiar with the backstory, we actually stumbled upon a website that explains exactly why that man, Juan Mann, decided to start the whole thing in the first place.

Imagine this: you’ve just touched down in New York City after a long flight from the United Kingdom, feeling absolutely hollowed out because you were traveling back to deal with the passing of your grandfather. You step out into the terminal, and the atmosphere is thick with emotion—you see families reuniting, people throwing their arms around one another in these massive, spontaneous welcome embraces. And there you are, standing in the middle of it all, completely alone, without a single soul waiting to greet you or offer even a shred of comfort. It was that profound sense of isolation that triggered a moment of pure, unscripted desperation. He grabbed a scrap of cardboard, scrawled "FREE HUGS" on it in big letters, and started walking through the terminal. It sounds almost absurd, like something out of a movie, but as he moved through the crowd, the world actually responded. Strangers began approaching him, offering nothing but genuine, unsolicited embraces. Sometimes, when the weight of the world feels too heavy, a little bit of human connection is the only thing that can bridge the gap.

He lays out the whole philosophy on his own site, arguing that the entire movement is essentially a reaction to our modern epidemic of isolation and the total breakdown of genuine human connection.

There’s a significant wave of support for this movement gaining momentum across the country, and it isn't just happening in small pockets. In fact, we recently learned about a mother and daughter who have been dedicating their Sunday afternoons to carrying out this initiative right in the heart of Washington, D.C.
We actually loved the concept, but our main hesitation was that we wanted to gather a larger crowd. Besides, let's face it—we’re still just kids at heart, and I have my doubts that anyone would take us seriously if we showed up alone. That's exactly why we're trying to scout out more people to join us one day; it would be great to get a real group together for some free hugs in the middle of the city square, haha. 😉

If there’s already something officially in the works—since we clearly haven't struck gold searching on our own—I would sincerely appreciate any information you could share. Furthermore, if anyone out there is interested in getting involved, please feel free to shoot me a private message. I can provide my email address privately, or you can simply reach out to me right here in this thread.

I’m opening the floor to the community—feel free to drop your thoughts, critiques, insights, or whatever else is on your mind. All feedback is more than welcome! 🙂

Official website:
If you haven't stumbled upon the Free Hugs campaign yet, you really need to take a moment to look into it. It’s one of those rare, genuinely moving initiatives that cuts through all the cynicism we deal with every day. Think about it like this: in a world where everyone is constantly glued to their smartphones, rushing from one meeting to the next in cities like New York City, or just keeping their heads down to avoid eye contact on the subway, a simple gesture of human connection can be incredibly jarring—in the best way possible. It’s like a sudden burst of color in a grayscale landscape. The whole concept is built around the idea popularized by Juan Mann, who started this movement to combat the coldness of urban life. It’s a reminder that beneath all our titles, our busy schedules, and our social barriers, we’re all just people looking for a little bit of empathy. It isn't some grand, complicated political movement or a corporate PR stunt; it’s just pure, unadulterated kindness. In an era where most "movements" feel manufactured, there’s something profoundly refreshing about an idea that requires nothing more than a willing heart and a little bit of courage to approach a stranger. It’s worth checking out if you need a reminder that humanity isn't completely lost.

Free hugs in Washington, D.C. - video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lm3_gtfoP9Q
Brenda Jones7 Brenda Jones7 Newcomer
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joined May 2008
#2 ·
I heard 😍 (well, actually I caught a glimpse over in Washington, D.C. 😬)
it was way too 🙂
slywolf45 slywolf45 Regular
299 messages
joined Apr 2016
#3 ·
Haha, what a joke.😁

I caught that segment on TV a few months back—not the one they showed in Washington, D.C., mind you—and I remember thinking the whole thing looked staged.😕
So, it wasn’t, huh? Well, damn.🙂
feraltrucker5 feraltrucker5 Active Member
117 messages
joined Oct 2012
#4 ·
Look, call me a party pooper if you want, but I honestly don't get the hype 🤷 Getting a hug from someone close to you? Sure, that's sweet 😍 But running up to complete strangers on the sidewalk and trying to embrace them? 🤷 Honestly, to me, that feels way more creepy than it does heartwarming ☕
slywolf45 slywolf45 Regular
299 messages
joined Apr 2016
#5 ·
feraltrucker5 said:Look, call me a party pooper if you want, but I don't see the appeal here. 🤷 Getting a hug from someone close to you 😍 is one thing. But hunting down total strangers on the sidewalk just to embrace them? 🤷 Honestly, that strikes me as more creepy than heartwarming. ☕

I actually think it's sweet.
I’m not exactly the hugging type—I rarely even go for it with my actual friends (unless I've had a few too many drinks🤣)—but there's something about this that works for me. It feels like a small way to break up the monotony of daily life and just... be human for a second.🙂
Brenda Jones7 Brenda Jones7 Newcomer
6 messages
joined May 2008
#6 ·
feraltrucker5 said:So, apparently, I'm some kind of party pooper now...

honestly, 😢 😬

But chasing down total strangers on the street just to hug them? Ugh, that feels way more creepy than sweet to me.🤷 Man, that sounds super unsettling.☕

It’s not even "chasing" them, you just offer and they can say yes or no.🤷
I mean, there was definitely a phase in my life where I would have absolutely jumped at something like that. Literally 😁

It's just that I probably shouldn't be out there doing it because, let's face it, the lines would be way too long and I actually have things to do, responsibilities and stuff, you know? 🥳 😬
Laura Booth6 Laura Booth6 Member
13 messages
joined May 2012
#7 ·
I actually saw that on Jackass once 😬

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MnR98_czUug

It looks pretty cool... honestly, we should start doing stuff like that in Washington, D.C.! 🙂
slywolf45 slywolf45 Regular
299 messages
joined Apr 2016
#8 ·
Brenda Jones7 said:It isn't about chasing them down; you make an offer, and they either take it or leave it.🤷

In reality, they’re just wearing a sign—if anyone wants to go over and give them a hug, they can.
feraltrucker5 is spiraling into a full-blown paranoia session here...😬
Matthew Anderson4 Matthew Anderson4 Regular
598 messages
joined Jun 2013
#9 ·
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vr3x_RRJdd4
Pretty cool promo video 🙏🙏.
wearydriver13 wearydriver13 Member
12 messages
joined Jul 2009
#10 ·
feraltrucker5 said:Call me a party pooper if you want, but I just don't see the appeal 🤷 Getting a hug from someone close to you 😍 is one thing, but chasing down total strangers on the sidewalk just to embrace them? 🤷 Honestly, that feels more creepy than fun to me.☕

I'm right there with you. Why would I want some random person grabbing me in the middle of the street? Thank God I have plenty of people in my life whose hugs I can count on every single day, and frankly, that’s more than enough for me.
feraltrucker5 feraltrucker5 Active Member
117 messages
joined Oct 2012
#11 ·
slywolf45 said:Honestly, they’re just wearing signs, so if anyone feels like being a warm person, they can just walk up and give them a hug.
feraltrucker5 is spiraling into full-blown paranoia here...😬

Look, feraltrucker5 might be a little paranoid, but honestly, that’s not even what this is about.😬

For me, getting hugged by a total stranger or having any kind of physical contact with someone I don't know doesn't mean anything at all—it's just skin touching skin, nothing more. 🤷 It’s actually kind of bizarre to me that some people find that to be such a big deal or a meaningful moment. 🤷 But hey, whatever, we’re all wired differently, so if someone gets a kick out of it, more power to them. 🙂
placidjackal36 placidjackal36 Active Member
183 messages
joined Jan 2008
#12 ·
feraltrucker5 said:Look, feraltrucker5 is a bit paranoid, but honestly, that’s not really the issue here. 😬

For me, getting a hug or any kind of physical contact from a total stranger doesn't mean a thing. 🤷 It actually feels a little weird to me that some people find it significant at all. 🤷 But whatever, we aren't all cut from the same cloth, so if it makes someone happy, more power to them. 🙂

Maybe you act that way on the surface, but deep down in your subconscious, you're dying for someone to grab you so hard your eyes and stomach contents pop out. 😛

Seriously though, there are plenty of people who act terrified of being touched in public, but once they're finally alone, they go absolutely wild for it... ☕
Arthur Kim74 Arthur Kim74 Active Member
91 messages
joined Jun 2010
#13 ·
I mean, why hasn't there been some kind of major movement here in America yet?🤷
It honestly feels like I’ve already seen news segments on TV about groups trying to take inspiration from those movements overseas and set up something similar right here in the States...
Henry Moore2 Henry Moore2 Active Member
69 messages
joined Feb 2009
#14 ·
You can find them right in the middle of Times Square and even over at the shopping mall in Manhattan
bluerider63 bluerider63 Regular
382 messages
joined Jan 2013
#15 ·
Man, I’d probably just spend my time hugging girls, especially when they're out in those summer dresses and flip-flops... honestly, where can you even find that anymore? I'm outta here. 😍
Bradley Walker8 Bradley Walker8 Newcomer
2 messages
joined Dec 2015
#16 ·
Honestly, I hadn't given it much thought, but then one day I was rushing through San Francisco, dodging crowds, when I ran right into this group of college kids. They were just so genuinely happy and open; I ended up throwing myself into a hug with this guy who had his arms wide open. There wasn't a hint of awkwardness—we just gave each other a few pats on the back, and I walked away feeling genuinely uplifted...😁 Basically, when you skip the weirdness, a good hug does wonders (especially when it's from those tall, curly-haired college students)

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