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coppergardener coppergardener Active Member
137 messages
joined Jun 2006
#381 ·
My dad was diagnosed with lung cancer this week—it’s not good news at all. I don't have the exact diagnosis yet; I still need to go through the medical paperwork, but he actually started chemotherapy yesterday. The real struggle is that I feel completely lost when it comes to nutrition for cancer patients (what an irony, really, considering I always thought of myself as a bit of a nutrition expert!). Does the dietary approach depend heavily on the specific type of cancer? We went ahead and bought him some Noni juice, but if anyone knows anything more substantial about it, please, let me know. The prognosis isn't great, and frankly, I have my doubts about the effectiveness of this chemo—I just don't want to leave anything to chance. If you have any other supplement recommendations, please share them, along with a rough idea of the cost. I’d love for him to eat as naturally as possible, but his appetite has been incredibly low lately. What are your thoughts on Taheebo with inulin? It seems to be packed with antioxidants, Omega-3s, and so on, but I am honestly overwhelmed by the choices.

I’ve been reading that the diet needs to be high in protein—but without too much animal fat? Is it okay to offer fresh cheese with a lower fat content? Or maybe goat milk? What works?

BTW, I stumbled upon a specific diet online that was used by a man dealing with a brain tumor (Glioblastoma)—is this kind of regimen recommended for any type of tumor, or is it specific? Here is what it said:

Take Three 750 mg Shark Cartilage capsules three
times a day
Take a Borage Oil and CoQ10 supplement
Drink plenty of water
Try to get light exercise, walking is best
Get some sunlight
I also rubbed Young Living Frankincense Oil on his head daily

The AIM Garden Trio (BarleyLife, Carrots & Beets)
Graviola Tincture - 5 drops 3 times a day

>>> What do you all think? Has anyone actually tried this? Is this similar to the Budwig method, perhaps?

BTW, this mentions Q10, but isn't Q10 essentially related to Vitamin E? And isn't there a risk of it being carcinogenic if taken in massive doses? Is it even worth experimenting with? Also, I know sage can help stimulate the appetite, but since sage supposedly has mild estrogenic effects, is it safe to consume in small amounts?

Jeez, people... how do you all cope? I’ve spent the entire week just vomiting and crying (I was already dealing with a mountain of problems before this, and now this happens—it feels like someone up above is testing us quite cruelly), and I find myself praying for both him and for myself. And the worst part? I’ll try to put on a song or a movie that I truly love, but I can't even make it halfway through. A person just goes numb over time, doesn't she? I know, right now I’m definitely feeling the weight of it, but those pieces of advice like "keep your chin up," "think positively," or "just live your life" feel almost counterproductive to me—maybe even psychologically dangerous... I know you aren't supposed to give up, but it's not like you can just switch the channel on a TV. puffffffff😢 Isn't there a remote control for this?

p.s. Thank you and greetings to everyone participating in this forum.
Harold Richardson4 Harold Richardson4 Member
16 messages
joined Nov 2007
#382 ·
coppergardener said:My dad was diagnosed with lung cancer this week. It’s grim. I don't have the exact diagnosis yet—I need to go through the paperwork—but he started chemotherapy yesterday. The real issue is that I feel completely lost when it comes to nutrition for cancer patients (the irony is thick; I used to consider myself a semi-professional nutritionist). Does the diet depend on the specific type of cancer? We bought him some Noni juice, but if anyone knows anything more substantial, please let me know. The prognosis isn't great, and frankly, I have my doubts about this chemotherapy, so I refuse to leave anything to chance. If you have any supplement recommendations, please include an approximate price. I want him eating as naturally as possible, but his appetite is abysmal. What’s your take on Taheebo with inulin? It’s loaded with antioxidants, omega-3s, and so on, but I’m paralyzed by choice.

I’ve read that the diet should be high in protein, but without heavy animal fats? Is low-fat cottage cheese okay? Goat milk? What works?

BTW, I stumbled upon a dietary regimen online used by someone fighting a brain tumor (Glioblastoma multiforme stage IV)—is this kind of approach applicable to all cancers, or is it specific? Here it is:

Take Three 750 mg Shark Cartilage three
times a day
Take a Borage Oil and CoQ10 supplement
Drink plenty of water
Try to get light exercise, walking is best
Get some sunlight
I also rubbed Young Living Frankincense Oil on his head daily

The AIM Garden trio (BarleyLife, Carrots & Beets)
Graviola Tincture - 5 drops 3 times a day

>>> What do you think? Has anyone actually tried this? Is it some variation of the Budwig method, or something else entirely?

Also, this mentions Q10, but isn't Q10 essentially Vitamin E, and isn't high-dose Vitamin E potentially carcinogenic? Is it even worth experimenting with? And while I know sage can help stimulate appetite, given its supposed mild estrogenic effects, is it safe to consume in small amounts?

Good grief, how does anyone endure this? I’ve spent the entire week vomiting and crying (I was already dealing with a mountain of issues before this, and now this—it feels like someone upstairs is testing our limits). I am praying for him and for myself. To make matters worse, I try to put on a song or a movie I love, but I can't even make it halfway through. A person just goes numb after a while, doesn't she? I know, I'm definitely spiraling right now, but those platitudes like "keep your chin up," "think positively," or "just live your life" feel counterproductive, maybe even psychologically dangerous... I know you aren't supposed to give in, but it's not like you can just switch channels on a TV. Puffffffff😢 Isn't there a remote control for this?

p.s. Thank you and greetings to everyone contributing to this forum.

I know things are incredibly hard for you right now. When I heard about my mother's diagnosis, I got my period and it hasn't stopped for 20 days; I was vomiting for days, dealing with diarrhea and hemorrhoids. The stress is absolute madness! But listen to me: don't let him see you like this. You have to stay strong for him and for yourself so you can step up and manage everything. This is a long, grueling fight. My mother watched our every move; if we looked sad, she immediately assumed her lab results were bad. As for your father, just ensure he eats well and nutritiously, because chemo will drain him completely. You MUST look up Beta Glucan 1.3 D. online (Price for 60 capsules of 500 mg...$190 My mother used it back then, and she still relies on it today. And if you're looking for something similar—take a look at Brokulin tablets. Apparently, they’re quite effective and great for stimulating an appetite. That’s what a nurse told me once.
northernfox9 northernfox9 Newcomer
2 messages
joined Mar 2007
#383 ·
coppergardener said:My dad was diagnosed with lung cancer this week—it’s not good. I don't know the exact diagnosis yet; I need to review the paperwork. He started chemotherapy yesterday. The problem is, I don't know much about nutrition for cancer patients (what an irony—I actually considered myself a decent nutritionist!). Does it depend on the type of cancer? We bought him some Noni juice, but if anyone knows more, please let me know. The prognosis isn't great, and frankly, I don't have much faith in this chemo, so I don't want to leave anything to chance. If you can recommend any other supplements, please—and maybe an approximate price. I'd love for him to eat as naturally as possible, but his appetite is incredibly low. What do you think about Taheebo with inulin? It seems packed with antioxidants, omega-3, and so on, but I just don't know what to choose.

I read that the diet needs to be high in protein—but without too much animal fat? Is low-fat cottage cheese okay? Goat milk? What?

BTW, I found a diet online that a man with a brain tumor (Glioblastoma multiforme stage IV) used—is this kind of regimen recommended for any tumor, or...? Here it is:

Take Three 750 mg Shark Cartilage three
times a day
Take a Borage Oil and CoQ10 supplement
Drink plenty of water
Try to get light exercise, walking is best
Get some sunlight
I also rubbed Young Living Frankincense Oil on his head daily

The AIM Garden trio (BarleyLife, Carrots & Beets)
Graviola Tincture - 5 drops 3 times a day

>>> What do you think? Has anyone tried this? Is it based on the Budwig method, or what?

BTW, Q10 is mentioned here, but isn't Q10 actually Vitamin E, and isn't it carcinogenic if taken in large amounts? Is it even worth experimenting with? Also, I know sage helps with appetite, but since sage supposedly has mild estrogenic effects, is it alright to consume small amounts?

Jeez, people, how do you endure this... I've spent the whole week just vomiting and crying (I already had so many struggles to deal with before—and now this—it feels like someone up above is really testing us) and I'm praying for both him and myself. And worst of all, I'll put on a song or a movie I truly love, but I can't even make it halfway through. A person just goes numb over time, right? I know, I'm definitely acting out now, but those tips like "keep your chin up," "think positively," or "live your life" feel counterproductive to me—maybe even psychologically dangerous... I know, one shouldn't give in, but it's not like switching channels on the TV. Puffffffff😢 Is there a remote control for this?

p.s. Thanks and greetings to everyone participating in this forum.

Dear coppergardener,
First, I want to tell you that we all have our own biological way of processing the massive stress that hits us when we realize our loved ones are so terribly ill.
When I first learned about my father's diagnosis (lung cancer, too), I had terrible diarrhea for the first month. That was the first time in my 30 years of life that I realized what it actually means to be literally paralyzed by fear. Until then, I thought it was just a phrase. 😬
No, let it out—cry, vent, take some Xanax or something to calm down, even read the Bible if you think that helps. Rage, howl, scream, break things—just not in front of Dad.
Of course, nobody expects you to act like nothing is happening—but please, try to stay composed. In those moments when he starts losing faith in himself, his loved ones have to be there to understand him and provide the encouragement needed for this brutal fight. He needs someone by his side who believes in a positive outcome, just so he can find the strength to keep going. Don't despair in front of him—after all, he’s the one going through the hardest part. He will often look into your eyes searching for a glimmer of hope; don't deny him that, regardless of how grim the reality looks.
As for "alternative" supplements, I can tell you what we've experienced firsthand:
- Beta Glucan 1.3 — my dad started taking this on day three, and now he has the appetite of a healthy man (and he was never a picky eater to begin with!). From the head radiation, he hasn't developed a single tiny spot, let alone any kind of burns (that was all he was taking then); we buy the strongest 500 mg version, which costs about $253 for a 60-capsule bottle. You can find it in most pharmacies; he takes two every morning on an empty stomach, half an hour before eating. Some brochures even mention anti-tumor effects, though that's hard to prove.
- Aloe vera — he drinks it because he can't stand the taste of Noni anymore; I don't know how much it helps, but it shouldn't hurt (he uses the undiluted Encyan with aloe pieces, about 130 - $50 liters—prices vary depending on concentration, purity, the manufacturer, and who knows what else...).
- Dr. Breuss products — in the hope that he might try fasting before chemotherapy, we started giving him small amounts so he could get used to the taste, and then we heard that beets are perfect for blood counts... we'll see the results on Thursday (you can buy it at pharmacies, health food stores, CVS... prices range from 25 - $12 for half a liter).
- Along with all that, my dad drinks teas based on the Breuss method: for lungs, motherwort, and chamomile (if you're interested in fasting therapy, you can find the book "Healing Cancer, Leukemia, and Other Seemingly Incurable Diseases with Natural Means" by Rudolf Breuss in bookstores; it costs about $40. Definitely check out ruggednomad182's site too—it's run by a man who healed himself using this method and has the heart to help with advice and suggestions if you need them).
I hope I've been able to help even a little bit. If you feel lost or hopeless, write here. Speaking from experience, it helps me so much to know I'm not alone in my struggles, and you'll always find a kind soul here with a few comforting words. Even just that—sometimes that's enough...🙂
And remember—NO SURRENDER as long as there is breath in his lungs and blood flowing in his veins...😘
northernfox9 northernfox9 Newcomer
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joined Mar 2007
#384 ·
Linda Campbell said:You absolutely MUST look up Beta Glucan 1.3 online—seriously, check the price for 60 capsules of 500 mg $190)

Where on earth did you find it for that much? I usually pay around $253! 😲
northernfox9 northernfox9 Newcomer
2 messages
joined Mar 2007
#385 ·
For coppergardener:
I forgot to mention—I was actually told that tumors in general have a massive craving for red meat, white sugar, flour, and basically anything processed, canned, or full of preservatives—so avoiding those is highly recommended.
We’ve cut out almost all meat except for some veal in soups, along with chicken and turkey breast. Now, his mom mostly cooks steamed vegetables with olive oil and garlic, hearty vegetable soups, stews without any heavy thickeners, and as far as treats go, he absolutely lives for apple pie made with just a tiny bit of brown sugar, etc...
Harold Richardson4 Harold Richardson4 Member
16 messages
joined Nov 2007
#386 ·
northernfox9 said:Where on earth did you find it for that price? I’m paying nearly $253! 😲

Right here in Požega, where I call home.
northernfox9 northernfox9 Newcomer
2 messages
joined Mar 2007
#387 ·
Linda Campbell said:In Požega—where I actually live.

I can't believe it!😲 Just how much is a person expected to stay in the dark about... You can't find it anywhere in Chicago—or maybe I just haven't looked hard enough... if anyone actually knows where to look, please let me know. Sure, I get there's a difference $6.75, you have to factor in taxes, local surcharges, private pharmacies, and profit margins... but $67?!?!
It’s not even just that the doctors seem completely clueless—it's that big pharma has decided to build their fortunes right on top of the suffering of the poor...😠
coppergardener coppergardener Active Member
137 messages
joined Jun 2006
#388 ·
Thank you all so much! (I truly hope I can be just as helpful with my own advice once I've learned a bit more...) I have just one more question for now: is it perfectly fine to combine the Budwig method with Dr. Breuss? Haha—maybe I'll just invent a whole new diet called "B&B"!
ruggednomad182 ruggednomad182 Newcomer
4 messages
joined Mar 2007
#389 ·
coppergardener said:Thanks everyone so much! (Hopefully I can be just as helpful with my own advice once I learn a bit more.) I have just one more question for now: Is it okay to combine the Budwig method and Dr. Breuss? Haha, maybe I'll just invent a new diet called "B&B."

Better not to mix them. Nobody has actually tried that yet, and we’re talking about a massive stake here—your life. Stick to what others have already put into practice. That way, I can personally vouch for the healing power of these methods based on real-world success stories.
Jesse Fowler82 Jesse Fowler82 Newcomer
5 messages
joined Apr 2007
#390 ·
Look, everyone deserves empathy when they hit a massive health crisis. It feels like the world just turns its back on you, and that sting is real. I became disabled at 35, and honestly? It feels like everything I built just sank. Everyone loves to give the usual "stay strong, it’ll be fine" speech, but man, that’s easy to say when it isn't your life. Maybe I’m just looking in the wrong places, but right now, I don't even feel like there's a lifeline left to grab.
And yeah, let’s talk about the stuff that actually sucks in real life—my sex life. It’s awkward as hell. I had an ileostomy, which basically means my large intestine is gone. I’m stuck wearing a bag for the rest of my life, and even though it’s been a month since the surgery, I still haven't wrapped my head around it. My girlfriend walked out on me, my friends look at me with that pitying gaze—which is the last thing I need—and family? Well, family is family; they’re a mix of being helpful and being totally biased. It’s brutal seeing healthy people around you who turn their backs just because of a physical flaw, leaving you feeling completely isolated. I've been spiraling into depression lately, and I honestly don't know if I'll pull through, though I am fighting. The worst part is knowing I've limited my chances of building what I wanted most: a family and actual happiness. I can't shake the feeling that people find this repulsive, especially women. That "who would ever want me like this?" thought is soul-crushing. Fine, maybe I’ll end up alone, but seriously... what kind of life is that?

Regarding meds, I’ve been reading the posts above. There’s one incredible supplement you can’t pick up at a local pharmacy here in the States, but you can order it from abroad. It’s called Shilajit, and I highly recommend it. I know people who have been taking it consistently, and it’s genuinely extended their lives. If you need any pointers on how to get it, let me know. You can read more about it at www.evalar.ru
ruggednomad182 ruggednomad182 Newcomer
4 messages
joined Mar 2007
#391 ·
Jesse Fowler82 said:Look, everyone has the right to feel like they've been completely abandoned when they hit a massive health crisis—it hurts like hell. I became disabled at 35, and honestly, it feels like every ship I ever owned just sank at once. Everyone keeps saying, "Hang in there, it’ll be fine," but man, that's easy to say. Who knows? Maybe I missed the boat with this forum too, because right now, I don't see a single lifeline left to grab onto.
By the way, what happened to me isn't "tragic" in the grand scheme of things, but in my private life, it's incredibly awkward. Basically, I had an ileostomy—total removal of the large intestine. I'm forced to wear a bag for the rest of my life, and even though it's been a month since the surgery, I still haven't wrapped my head around it. My girlfriend left me, my friends look at me with that pitying gaze—which is the last thing I need—and family... well, family is family; they try to be objective, but they aren't. It sucks seeing healthy people around you who turn their backs just because of one flaw, leaving you feeling totally isolated. I've been sliding into depression lately, and I honestly don't know if I'll pull through, but I'm fighting and I'm not quitting. The worst part is knowing I've limited my chances of building what I wanted most: a family and real happiness. I have this gut feeling that people find this repulsive, especially women. That thought of "who would ever want me like this?" is soul-crushing. Fine, I'll stay alone if I have to, but seriously, what kind of life is this?....

Regarding meds, I've been following the posts above. There's one amazing supplement that you can't pick up in local US stores, but you can order it from abroad—it's called Shilajit, and I highly recommend it. I know people who have been taking it consistently, and it has genuinely extended their lives. If you need any advice on how to get it, let me know.... You can read more about it at www.evalar.ru

When you're standing in a forest, you can't see the trails yet. Once you stumble upon that first path, you'll start seeing the others, and then you just have to figure out where they lead. I know a guy who passed fifty and lives a incredibly intense life with his bag. He's constantly skydiving and paragliding, even though he suffered a stroke and still deals with some mild issues on his left side. He has a huge social circle and tons of friends. You don't have to go skydiving, but there’s always something out there to keep you interested.
Angela Wright Angela Wright RegularOP
731 messages
joined Feb 2007
#392 ·
Linda Campbell said:Could you please explain what exactly this Native Propolis is good for? I'm not sure if my mom can take it since her stomach was removed. She’d need to check first. She can have honey, but only in small amounts. She's been incredibly weak following the surgery. How is your mother doing? Is there any improvement at all?

You can find everything you need to know at www.hedera.hr, including testimonials from people dealing with all sorts of different diagnoses who used Propolis.

My mom is doing terribly. She just sleeps. It's a struggle just to wake her up enough to eat a meal. I think she's nearing the end. I can just feel it—there's this strange, heavy sense of peace surrounding her.😳
Angela Wright Angela Wright RegularOP
731 messages
joined Feb 2007
#393 ·
Jesse Fowler82 said:Look, everyone has the right to feel abandoned when they hit a massive health crisis—it hurts like hell. I became disabled at 35, and honestly, it feels like my whole world just sank. Everyone keeps telling me to "fight it" and that "everything will be fine," but that’s easy to say. Who knows, maybe I missed the mark with this forum too, but I don't even feel like I have a lifeline to grab onto anymore.
By the way, what happened to me isn't a death sentence in real life, but it makes intimacy incredibly awkward. Basically, I had an ileostomy—essentially having part of the large intestine removed. I'm forced to wear a bag for the rest of my life, and even though it's been a month since the surgery, I haven't come to terms with it. My girlfriend left me, my friends look at me with pity—which is the last thing I need—and family, well, family is family; they're both supportive and judgmental at the same time. It’s brutal seeing healthy people around you who turn their backs because of a physical flaw, leaving you feeling completely isolated. I've been sliding into depression lately, and I honestly don't know if I'll pull through, but I'm fighting and I'm not giving up. The worst part is that I feel like I've shrunk my chances of building what I wanted most: a family and true happiness. I have this gut feeling that people find it repulsive, especially women—that "who would ever want me like this?" thought is devastating. Fine, I'll stay alone if I have to, but what kind of life is this, I ask you...

Regarding medications, I've been following the posts above. There is one amazing supplement that you can't buy here in the States, but you can order it from abroad—it's called Shilajit, and I highly recommend it to everyone. I know people who have taken it, and since then, they've been using it constantly, not to mention it seems to extend their lives. If you need any advice on it, let me know... You can read more about it at www.evalar.ru


"Do not fear, you are not alone,
there are others besides you, unknown to you, living your life
and everything that flees you, hears you, and what burns
within them with the same fervor, beauty, and purity"

Tin Ujević, "Brotherhood of Faces in Space"

I can't claim to know what it's like to live with a bag, but I do know that once you accept the reality, anything is possible!

From my perspective, you lost a piece of your anatomy, but you gained so much more. You got a clean break—a filter that showed you exactly who your fake friends were and which girlfriend never truly loved the real you.
Still, I have to ask: didn't you perhaps push them away yourself with your attitude and behavior? For instance, by surrendering yourself entirely to self-pity and depression?
Take a hard look in the mirror. Listen, this is your reality now; you have to deal with what you have, accept it, and move forward. Refusing to accept it is just standing still and slamming your head against a brick wall that won't budge. You aren't the only person in the world facing something like this. People move on, rebuild their lives, and live perfectly normal lives—they have families, jobs, little joys, and hobbies. Drawing a line under your life at your age just because of one "minor" handicap (and let's be honest, there are people dealing with much more severe physical impairments) is just foolish. Get moving, because you've actually been given a chance to build a much happier and more fulfilled life than the one you had before.
http://s156.photobucket.com/albums/t...idenemozes.flv
Angela Wright Angela Wright RegularOP
731 messages
joined Feb 2007
#394 ·
Amy Hayes28 said:Look into Propolis. I was actually thinking about getting some for my dad, but apparently, it isn't a silver bullet for everything. My dad had kidney issues—they actually had to remove it—and people are saying that kidney patients or anyone with impaired renal function should stay far away from it!

Fine, here is a copy-paste from www.hedera.hr regarding the kidneys:

KIDNEYS

The antioxidant properties found in Propolis don't just shield the kidneys from acute damage caused by certain cytostatics (like cisplatin) during chemotherapy; they actually help prevent the onset of kidney carcinomas.


I’m not sure if we’re talking about the exact same type of Propolis here. This stuff is fundamentally different from the usual drops you see dissolved in water or alcohol. That distinction is huge, because this is pure Propolis extracted from honeycombs using Dr. Radić's patented method.
Christian Wilson16 Christian Wilson16 Newcomer
6 messages
joined Jan 2007
#395 ·
Six years ago, my grandfather had one of his kidneys removed due to a tumor, and since then, he’s been using Propolis and royal jelly in moderation without any issues at all.
Harold Richardson4 Harold Richardson4 Member
16 messages
joined Nov 2007
#396 ·
Angela Wright said:You can find everything you need to know over at www.hedera.hr, including various testimonials from people facing all sorts of different diagnoses who have used Propolis.

My mother is doing terribly. She does nothing but sleep. We can barely wake her enough to get a meal down. I believe the end is very near. It’s hard to describe, but there is this strange, heavy sense of peace surrounding her.😳

I am profoundly sorry; I can only begin to imagine the weight you are carrying right now. Please, stay strong. There are no universal rules when it comes to these things. I am sending you every ounce of strength this world has to offer. Truly, I must thank you—I have learned so much from you.

"I have learned that everyone wants to live at the summit of the mountain, forgetting that true happiness is found in the climb itself. ... I have learned that when a newborn grasps its father's finger, you hold on forever. I have learned that a person only has the right to look down upon another when they intend to help them rise." Gabriel Garcia Marquez
Harold Richardson4 Harold Richardson4 Member
16 messages
joined Nov 2007
#397 ·
Jesse Fowler82 said:Listen, everyone deserves to feel supported when they face a devastating illness. When someone gets hit that hard, it feels like the entire world has turned its back on you, and that kind of abandonment hurts more than the physical pain. At 35, I found myself facing a permanent disability, and honestly, it feels like every ship I ever sailed has sunk. Everyone loves to offer platitudes like "just fight, and everything will be fine," but that’s easy to say from the sidelines. Who knows? Maybe I’ve even missed my chance with this forum, because right now, I don't see a single straw left to grab onto.
By the way, while the physical setback isn't life-threatening in a strictly medical sense, the impact on my intimate life has been incredibly jarring. To put it plainly, I had an ileostomy performed—essentially a total removal of the large intestine. I am forced to wear a bag for the rest of my life, and even though it’s been a month since the surgery, I haven't come to terms with it. My girlfriend left me, my friends look at me with that suffocating pity that I absolutely despise, and my family—well, family is complicated; they try to be objective, but their subjectivity bleeds through. It’s a bitter pill to swallow when you see healthy people around you who have essentially abandoned you because of a physical flaw, leaving you feeling utterly isolated. I’ve been spiraling into depression lately, and frankly, I’m not sure if I’ll pull through, though I am fighting. The worst part is knowing I’ve limited my ability to build what I wanted most: a family and true happiness. I have this gut feeling that people find this condition repulsive, especially women. That thought—"who would ever want me like this?"—is haunting. Fine, I’ll stay alone if I have to, but I ask you, what kind of life is that?

Regarding medications, I’ve been following the discussions above. There is one exceptional supplement that you can't pick up at a local pharmacy here in the States, but you can order it from abroad; it’s called Shilajit, and I highly recommend it to anyone. I know people who have used it consistently, and it seems to have significantly extended their quality of life. If you need any specifics on how to go about it, let me know.... You can find more information about it at www.evalar.ru

Man, tell me more about this Shilajit or just shoot me a private message. I'm grasping at straws here.
Angela Wright Angela Wright RegularOP
731 messages
joined Feb 2007
#398 ·
Linda Campbell said:I am incredibly sorry; I can only imagine what you're going through. But hang in there. There aren't any set rules for this. Sending you all the strength in the world. I really have to thank you for everything—I've learned so much from you.

"I've learned that everyone wants to live at the peak of the mountain, forgetting that true happiness is hidden right there in the climb itself. ... I've learned that when a newborn baby grabs its father's finger with its tiny hand, hold on to it forever. I've learned that a person only has the right to look down on another when they intend to help lift them up." — Gabriel Garcia Marquez

Thank you for sharing that beautiful Marquez quote; it’s just more confirmation for me that my own realizations are on the right track.🙂

Shilajit:
http://www.evalar.ru/en/products/amummyo.html
coppergardener coppergardener Active Member
137 messages
joined Jun 2006
#399 ·
ruggednomad182 said:It is probably best not to combine them—after all, nobody has actually tested that combination yet—and we are talking about something massive here, aren't we? We are talking about life itself. I would suggest sticking to what others have already tried; you want to be able to look at their lived experiences as actual proof of healing, provided there is solid, reliable confirmation that it works.


But he isn't interested in just doing the Biotta Breuss protocol; he wants to combine it with chemotherapy. He simply cannot handle being hungry—I mean, I can't force him, can I?—but this leads me to wonder: what exactly would make it harmful to include things like fresh cheese, flaxseed oil, shark cartilage, maybe even some whitefish, noni, or broccoli alongside those juices if he is supposed to be avoiding certain foods? How on earth are his vitamins supposed to be absorbed if he doesn't consume at least a little bit of healthy fat?

By the way, which specific teas are typically used in the Biotta Breuss regimen? And what is the precise function of this advanced Beta-glucan? Does it actually work to prevent blood vessel development around the tumor, or is that not quite right?

Oh, good grief...
Jesse Fowler82 Jesse Fowler82 Newcomer
5 messages
joined Apr 2007
#400 ·
Thanks for all the support... really means a lot. I'm still pretty green when it comes to this stuff and honestly haven't figured out how to deal with it all yet. It doesn't even mess with my day-to-day life, but when it comes to intimacy... hmm... makes you wonder how someone will react once I actually tell them what's up. Only one way to find out, right?

You've got a point... they cut out everything that wasn't working, so now I'm finally healthy... hmm, good perspective, thanks for that....

Regarding the "mummy" supplement... listen, it's the real deal. I've been taking it, and it’s the only reason I finally got surgery done now that should have happened ten years ago. That miracle stuff kept me going this whole time. So, if anyone needs advice on it, hit me up... I have a few links where you can buy it from the US, I'll post them here once I dig them up....

Ivanica and everyone else, thanks again...

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