jadesailor14 said:Man, I just love using real-life examples. I think people used to grasp what was being said much sooner back in the day.
I have a question for Sandra Hayes88. Naturally, it comes with a life example.
My daughter is 18. She has a huge group of friends. One stands out from the rest, specifically because of her size. The girl used to be, how should I put this, a normal build—you know, exactly how a young person should be, neither thin nor overweight. Then puberty hit at 12 and she started eating "healthy." Just a little white meat, whole grains, properly prepared fruits and veggies, fish... no chocolate, no pizza, no pastries... The girl is healthy, stays active like any other teen, doesn't have hormonal issues, so it isn't that.
The question is: how did she manage to gain weight eating all that healthy stuff? Because she’s actually quite heavy, maybe 210 lbs at 5'5".
My answer would be, she's just eating more than she burns.
Basically, if you eat more than your body needs, you get heavier. Doesn't matter if those are "white" or "brown" foods.
Actually, it turns out this isn't really a question for Sandra Hayes88, but rather a confirmation of what rustymoose54 wrote. It's just been phrased in a very blunt, rural way.
jadesailor14, did I ever say that wasn't true?
My point is, while how much you eat matters, WHAT you eat matters too, because I don't think being thin is enough; you also need to be healthy.
By eating healthy food, I lost 45 pounds and fixed my health issues... so there's a life example, and it's my own, so I guess I know what I'm talking about firsthand.
Anyway, if you want a life example, here's the one that made me start thinking about all this.
My former boss, who I nannied for and lived with, would drink coffee every morning and wouldn't eat anything until 5 or 6 PM just to stay thin.
Then she'd have a few crackers and some cheese until dinner, when she'd finally have a regular meal with meat or fish, rice or potatoes, and a salad.
She didn't eat fruit regularly; she'd buy two oranges and three apples for a four-person household plus myself living there.
Their pantry was full of canned and processed foods; the kids wouldn't touch fruit for days. They just didn't want it.
At 42, she had osteoporosis—something you usually see in women in their 70s—and then she got breast cancer and went through chemo, surgery, and radiation, though the cancer eventually cleared up.
The craziest part is that it never once occurred to her, nor did any doctor tell her, to start eating better to strengthen her body for the fight against the disease—a disease that probably wouldn't have even shown up if she had eaten better in the first place.
Even now, she eats the same way: just coffee, a small snack, and dinner. 😱 😱
She hasn't changed her diet, but I did.
Living with them and eating their food, I was a wreck. I coughed non-stop for two months straight, but I was coughing so hard I ended up gaining 45 pounds.
I was constantly tired, weak, and irritable.
So, yeah. I know exactly what I'm talking about.