Kate Mendoza37 said:I didn't get one, but my best friend did. She loved it at first—during the summer—for maybe two months. But after that, she couldn't wear high-waisted pants, belts were uncomfortable...
She got tired of it pretty fast, and honestly, it’s not even a big deal for the guy—after a few months, you just start seeing it as normal.
She also dealt with issues regarding irritation and healing; her skin was always a bit redder around that area than the rest of her body.
After a year, she just let it heal up.
So, look. If you think it's worth it for a few months out of the year—do it.
How could pants bother her? Sorry, but I pierced my own navel last fall, I always wear jeans, and they never hit my belly button... what is this friend of yours wearing, some weird high-rise cut? 😕
And the whole "it wasn't that great for her boyfriend" thing isn't really my problem—who cares? It’s not exactly a huge deal for my partner either, is it? 😕 🙄
In my humble opinion, I guess you haven't really thought through what she actually wants or doesn't want—because if she enjoyed it for a few months and then just let it go... it seems a bit silly. In your other post, you mention being "at an age where..." which contradicts your point about wisdom coming with age.😉
And that part about the "old girl syndrome"—yeah, just great... 🙄