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Participants Acrimsonbear23Angela Cox7Carl CoxMaria Kelly6Daniel Barnes7mistysailor11wearygull40Angela Wright
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#1 ·
I really need some advice because I’m spiraling right now. I’m 25, and last Saturday I was out with some friends. It was one of those nights where we ended up having a few too many—maybe 6 or 7 beers—and everything felt fine at the time. But later that night, I woke up with this sharp pain in my stomach. It was centered right around my liver area, and honestly, it scared the hell out of me. The pain eventually went away, but ever since then, I’ve been living in constant fear. I can't stop worrying that I might have liver cirrhosis or some kind of permanent damage. I wouldn't call myself an alcoholic, but I definitely enjoy a beer, and I’ll admit I’ve been drinking a bit too much lately. Now I’m stuck: should I go see a doctor, or should I wait and see if it happens again? Part of me is terrified that if I go, they'll just label me an alcoholic, and I don't think that's fair. Since that Saturday, I made a vow to never touch alcohol again—not even a beer. After reading stuff online about how deadly cirrhosis is, I’m even more of a wreck. Is it actually true that once you start feeling pain in your liver, it's "game over"? Please, if anyone has any advice, let me know. Is this as dangerous as it feels, and what should my next move be?😢.......
crimsonbear23 crimsonbear23 Member
21 messages
joined Sep 2007
#2 ·
Look, you really should go see a doctor. Stop messing around with all this drinking. I don't know how old you are—you’re probably in those reckless years where you think you have to experiment with alcohol just to feel something—but it's not necessary. It isn't that you need to quit entirely, but there is absolutely no reason to knock back five or six beers in a single sitting.
Go see a doctor!
Angela Cox7 Angela Cox7 Newcomer
5 messages
joined Mar 2004
#3 ·
Don't freak out; just because you feel pain once doesn't mean you've got liver failure. I know plenty of other reasons why that area might ache. Look, I’m not a doctor, so I’m not going to throw diagnoses or guesses around at you.
The smartest move is to go see a physician since you clearly spooked yourself. It’s way easier to deal with one nervous trip to the clinic than to spend months or years stressing over some "deadly" disease.
Carl Cox Carl Cox Newcomer
4 messages
joined Nov 2004
#4 ·
Look, I’m dealing with a pretty similar situation than yours.
I used to be someone who only drank socially—just the occasional beer or glass of wine, never hard liquor because I can't stand the stuff. But lately, "occasionally" has turned into "frequently," and suddenly I'm drinking whenever I'm out, and even starting to do it at home too. At first, my conscience was absolutely screaming at me ("Admit it, Jessica Ramos42, you're becoming an alcoholic"), but I just kept going anyway.
On top of that, I've been feeling this pain in my liver area recently—though, honestly, I interpret it as my brain (not my liver!) trying to warn me that I've pushed things a little too far. I've been wondering what else it could be—assuming it isn't actually my liver. Given the stress levels at work, I thought maybe it's an ulcer or just some irritation in the lining of my stomach? Because, just like you: I haven't been drinking nearly enough over the last couple of years to develop actual cirrhosis.
There's another part to this story: my mother passed away from liver cirrhosis, and she was an alcoholic. She had been drinking for as long as I can remember—starting with just a glass of wine or beer after lunch, then moving to more frequent drinks; eventually, she was constantly buying booze (or sending me to the corner store to grab it). Besides the beer and wine, there was always some kind of hard liquor sitting around the house. Sometimes a bottle of spirits would last a month, and then I'd notice they were buying them more and more frequently. My dad wasn't an alcoholic—he'd have maybe two beers a day for about 30 years. I don't call him an alcoholic because he rarely went overboard; he just genuinely loved his beer and never drank specifically to get hammered. Mom, though... her doses kept climbing, and then she started mixing it with hard liquor—I think that's when she shifted toward drinking just to get drunk. It took about ten years for her to go from one glass of wine a day to a whole bottle, and another ten years where she started combining everything.
During her final year, she started losing weight at a terrifying rate.
Then one day, we noticed she had turned completely yellow. I asked if her liver was hurting, and she said no. To make a long story short: she ended up in the hospital and died within a month and a half.
So, from what I've seen, cirrhosis doesn't just happen out of nowhere—her doctor explained that the liver first swells due to the alcohol and fatty foods before it finally transitions into cirrhosis.

My decision is simple: I'm cutting out all alcohol entirely and avoiding greasy foods. I'm going to monitor how I feel for a month—by then, both my "liver" pain and my conscience should hopefully settle down.
If the pain persists—then I'm heading straight to the doctor.

I wouldn't recommend experimenting with anything other than quitting the booze (that certainly won't hurt). I might be talking nonsense here, but I figure it wouldn't hurt to keep an eye on your stool color too—if something is wrong in the digestive tract, it usually shows up there. You want to make sure it isn't black or bloody (which isn't necessarily a sign of cirrhosis, but it definitely indicates something is off).
Also, stick to lighter foods—maybe something just really irritated your system, who knows.
I don't think you need to panic, but I'm genuinely curious to hear what a medical professional would say about this!
Maria Kelly6 Maria Kelly6 Member
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joined May 2004
#5 ·
Here is my advice and a suggestion I truly believe is wise: please go get yourself checked out by a doctor. I have a close friend who deals with liver issues, yet she still enjoys a glass or two every now and then, so it likely isn't anything too dire—you probably just overdid it a bit that night. I am completely behind your decision to avoid alcohol whenever possible moving forward; you are doing yourself such a massive favor by making that choice!
Daniel Barnes7 Daniel Barnes7 Newcomer
5 messages
joined Sep 2003
#6 ·
crimsonbear23 said:...I don't know how old you are, but you're probably just in those reckless years where you're experimenting with alcohol...

Who exactly is drunk here? 🙂
The guy literally stated he was 25 in his very first sentence! 🙄
mistysailor11 mistysailor11 Newcomer
2 messages
joined Apr 2006
#7 ·
Man, I think you might’ve gone a little overboard with the liver! You’re gonna kill yourself at this rate, seriously! 😉 But look, if you’re gonna push it a bit, you’ve gotta give it some downtime too—just let it breathe! Have you even heard about the kind of food that actually helps the liver recover!?! Don't sweat it too much, though; honestly, I think the same goes for anyone else dealing with those post-Saturday night binge consequences. Nothing worth doing is worth overdoing, right? Cheers
wearygull40 wearygull40 Newcomer
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joined Jun 2012
#8 ·
Did you even notice the date on this thread or what?
Angela Wright Angela Wright Regular
731 messages
joined Feb 2007
#9 ·
Alcohol isn't the only thing that can wreck your liver. You could be looking at damage from a diet loaded with greasy fast food, too many sodas, or even something like hepatitis.
Go see a doctor and make sure you get tested for hepatitis along with a full liver panel. If they find something off, they'll likely order an abdominal ultrasound to see what's actually going on inside.
The good news is that the liver is one of those rare tissues that can actually regenerate itself, provided the damage hasn't gone too far—and honestly, I doubt you're dealing with anything that extreme.

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