Dealing with hemorrhoids – any advice?

Karen Thompson10 said:Honestly, I feel for you—I know exactly what you're going through. I really hope you had that banding done at a hospital and didn't end up throwing money away on that barbaric nonsense. Unfortunately, it isn't a permanent fix either, and they really should have warned you about the chance of the hemorrhoids coming right back.

Nowadays, there are two ways to actually deal with this for good: the THD method and dg hal rar. Both are non-invasive, they actually last, and the recovery time is pretty quick.
The "catch" is that they aren't exactly cheap, but honestly, I think it's worth spending the cash when it comes to your health.

I also know that stress is a huge trigger for hemorrhoids, so maybe that’s part of the issue too. But if you want them gone for real, those specific methods are probably your best bet.

So, yeah, I'm not in the hospital... heh.
They did warn me, though... they said a year... not just a month!!!!
Thanks so much for the reply!!! Really.
And facing stage two surgery sounds absolutely miserable.🤷
I'm dreading summer—everyone's going to want to be sitting outside all the time!! Should I be worried about FAKTU? It's such a nightmare!!! hehe, well, my proctologist gave me some cream based on propolis, and my butt absolutely hated it!!! Total disaster!!! Now I'm just stuck with Bepanthen and, looks like I might have to go FAKTU 🙂
At least you can tell people your ass actually hurts!! Literally! hehe

Karen Thompson10 said:Haha, that’s exactly how I walked in—basically telling him I wasn't going through with surgery and that I thought Dr. Misir was totally overreacting by recommending it. Such a huge panicker. 🙄
His reaction actually caught me off guard too; he made it clear this has to be done, no other way. But he didn't push me, he actually really calmed me down. I don't know if it's just my case, because I usually have a massive fear of doctors. 😁

Well, I didn't do any special prep work. Did he tell you exactly what you need to do? I had my surgery on Tuesday and hadn't eaten anything from Monday afternoon until Tuesday at 4 PM. Plus, after 10 AM on Tuesday, I couldn't even have liquids. And unlike Leslie, I didn't have to do a full cleanse, though I have no clue why.
Oh yeah, I wasn't allowed to apply any creams or take any painkillers for those two days either, because of the anesthesia.

You barely need to bring anything since they provide everything. Still, I brought some stuff just in case. Grab a bathrobe if you have one; if not, they'll give you one there. Bring pajamas if you want, though you can sleep in the robe (personally, I'm more comfortable in PJs), but DEFINITELY bring thick socks. You’re going to get freezing cold after the surgery—I was literally shaking. And slippers. That's pretty much it.

I packed a bunch of other things, but I never even touched them. Toothbrush, toothpaste, a little toiletry bag... none of it was used. You won't have time anyway. You'll probably be finished around 6 PM and then just drift in and out of sleep until midnight because the anesthesia leaves you feeling loopy, and people will keep popping in to check if you need anything or if you're okay. Then the night nurse takes over and checks on you regularly until morning, but after that, you should sleep normally, provided the pain isn't too bad.
The doctor comes in around 7 AM to check you over, writes up your discharge papers, and you're heading home around 10 AM.
And that's it. Basically, you're just going to spend a lot of time sleeping.

For afterward, you'll need Medazol, Detralex, and Lidocaine gel.
I paid for everything in cash.

Don't be scared. You'll see it's not as bad as you think, and you'll be so glad you finally got rid of that nightmare once and for all! 😉

p.s. I need to go back for a follow-up, so let me ask you... you just called the clinic and booked it, right? What time does he usually do his exams, and how much does it cost? And how does he actually perform the exam there? Hospitals are a total mess; you really have to hustle to get seen. Thanks!

Great, thanks for the info. I just called them to set things up. Here's the plan: one Detralex now, another tonight, and one tomorrow morning.
Today I'm sticking to liquids. I have to do the cleanse. 😢 Today at 3 PM, two Dulcolax tablets, and at 6 PM, a Dulcolax suppository (how am I supposed to even get that in when the prolapse is so huge I can barely see my own backside? 😢). I'll use Lidocaine to make the cleaning easier. I honestly don't know how I'm supposed to get the Lidocaine inside when he pushed it back in and an hour later it was already out again. 😢

P.S. Yeah, I called them and told them I needed an appointment with Dr. I. ASAP. She got back to me within an hour or two and gave me a slot. I actually had my exam yesterday at 6:40 PM, but he usually works by appointment. Just call them and hammer out a specific time.
It costs $100, plus you have to bend over in a standing position.🙄 But honestly, nothing surprises me anymore.😁 I've gotta hand it to Misir, his stuff works wonders.

To be real, I’m mostly dreading the cleaning today. And Medazol is the absolute worst—I’m trying to dodge antibiotics because of this Candida issue, and I’m seriously hoping it doesn't wreck all the work I've put into my six-month-old's treatment. Honestly, I'm thinking about skipping the antibiotics altogether.🤷

UPDATE: Honestly, what's actually eating at me the most is this fungal relapse.😢

The doctor says it’s just a minor thrombosis right under that mucosal prolapse. He didn't seem worried or anything, so I'm figuring I'll be fine in maybe 4 or 5 days.😉

So, when can I actually get back into physical stuff—like sports or hitting the gym? Are there any restrictions?

Elizabeth Price85 said:EDIT: Honestly, what’s bothering me the most right now is this recurring fungal infection.😢

The doctor mentioned it’s just a minor thrombosis located underneath that mucosal prolapse. He didn't seem particularly worried or even remotely concerned about it, which is a relief. Based on his tone, I’m counting on being back to my old self in maybe four or five days.😉

So, when can you actually get back into physical activity—you know, hitting the gym or getting back into sports—and are there any specific restrictions I should be looking out for?

My professor once told me about this guy who didn't deal with any complications at all. He just went through the DG HAL method and was back on the soccer field playing matches after only four days. You’ve got that minor thrombosis, though, so they'll have to handle that surgically. It’s going to be a little painful, which means you'll probably need more than those four days. I couldn't tell you exactly how long...

Elizabeth Price85 said:Great, thanks for the heads-up. I just called them to work out a plan. Here’s what I'm thinking: one Detralex now, another this evening, and then one tomorrow morning.
I'm on solid food today. I really need to get this cleaning done.😢 At 3:00 PM, I'll take two Dulcolax tablets, and at 6:00 PM, I'll try the Dulcolax suppository (though how am I supposed to get it in when the prolapse is so huge I can barely find the entrance?😢). I'll use some Dolokain to make the process easier. Honestly, I have no idea how to apply the Dolokain internally; last time, he just pushed it right back out, and an hour later, it was back where it started.😢

P.S. Yes, I called them and told them I need to see Dr. Ivanovic ASAP. She got back to me within an hour or two with an appointment. I actually had my exam yesterday at 6:40 PM, and she's very reliable once you coordinate. You should call and set something specific.
The price is $100, and yeah, you still have to brace yourself in a standing position.🙄 But honestly, nothing can surprise me anymore.😁 I have to hand it to Misir; his clinic is top-notch.

To be honest, I'm mostly dreading the cleaning today. And Medazol is my biggest worry—I've been avoiding antibiotics because of the yeast infection, and I truly hope this doesn't undo six months of dieting, treatment, and hard work. I'm actually considering skipping the antibiotics altogether.🤷

Here is how you apply the suppository: lie on your back, lift your legs (like a gynecological exam), wet the tip of the suppository with water, and gently push it in. Use a mirror to help locate the opening. Insert your finger about an inch or two until the plug is in. Just relax, don't tense up, and it will be fine. That's exactly how the instructions for Dulcolax describe it. The Dulcolax is meant to clear out the large intestine and soften everything that's backed up. It starts working after about 30 minutes. Within 15 to 30 minutes, you'll feel the urge and head to the bathroom. Don't worry, it’ll all turn out okay...

rustyridge272 Well, I'm not stuck in a hospital bed... haha
They really gave me a heads-up, though... they said we're looking at a year-long timeline, not just a month!!!!
Thank you so much for the reply!!! It means a lot
And honestly, getting surgery for stage two feels like a crazy move 🤷
I’m genuinely dreading the summer and the thought of everyone wanting to hang out outside all the time!! Should I be worried about FAKTU? It’s such a massive headache!!! hehe, anyway, my proctologist gave me this cream based on propolis, and my butt absolutely lost its mind over it!!! Total nightmare!!! Now I'm just sticking to Bepanthen and, looks like I might have to go with FAKTU 🙂
But hey, at least a person can say their ass hurts!! Literally! hehe

It isn't "crazy" to undergo surgery for stage two if it's causing you this much misery and holding you back from living your life normally. In fact, I think timing it right there—before it hits stage three or four—is actually the smartest move you could make.

For me personally, FAKTU really helped during those first two weeks when things were at their absolute worst, but after that, it was like nothing at all, as if I hadn't even applied it. A ton of people swear by FAKTU, so I don't see any reason why you should be afraid of it. If you start developing some kind of reaction, just stop using it immediately. I don't know what else I could suggest to you, other than just going through with the surgery. 🤷

Karen Thompson10 said:Oh, one more thing I forgot, which I think is actually the most important part! Advil granules for the pain—they were a total lifesaver for me, and my doctor prescribed them too. So, the lineup is: Medazol, Detralex, Dolokain gel, and Advil granules (or whatever else works for pain). Maybe Michael Diaz4 has a better suggestion, but they worked wonders for me.

Anyway, Michael Diaz4... speaking as a layman, it seems logical to me that thrombosis is dangerous and needs to be dealt with, and I get what the professor was saying. But how could the doctor tell Linea that she could just leave it alone? He didn't say it was an emergency...

Be careful with analgesics. You can end up bleeding out from them, so you really should avoid them as much as possible...

Elizabeth Price85 said:That’s awesome, thanks so much for the heads-up. I just got off the phone with them to hammer out a plan, and here’s what I’m thinking: one Detralex now, another one this evening, and then one more first thing tomorrow morning.
I'm on liquid diet today because I have to get everything cleared out.😢 My plan is to take two Dulcolax tablets at 3 PM, and then at 6 PM, I'll try using a Dulcolax suppository—though honestly, with this massive prolapse, I can barely even find the target area, let alone aim!😢 I'll try slathering on some Dolokain to make the cleaning process a little less brutal. I’m just stumped on how to actually get the Dolokain inside, since last time he pushed it right back out, and within an hour, everything was protruding again.😢

P.S. Oh, and I did call them and stress that I need to see Dr. Ivanovic as soon as humanly possible. She actually got back to me within an hour or two and squeezed me in. I had my appointment yesterday at 6:40 PM, and she’s usually really accommodating if you coordinate with her. You should definitely give them a ring and work out a specific time.
The price is $100, and yeah, you really have to brace yourself and stay in a standing position during the exam.🙄 But honestly, at this stage, nothing can really shock me anymore.😁 I have to hand it to Misir, though—his setup is absolutely fantastic.

To be honest, the part I’m dreading most is the prep work today. And Medazol is such a headache for me—I’m trying so hard to avoid antibiotics because of this yeast infection, and I am praying that this doesn't undo six months of strict dieting, treatment, and sheer willpower. I’m actually seriously considering skipping the antibiotics altogether.🤷

It probably varies from person to person, because they were incredibly blunt with me and said I shouldn't take any pills at all. It’s almost absurd to me that they're acting like I missed the memo on the prep when it seems like it's a universal requirement for everyone... 😕
I’m just crossing my fingers that the cleansing isn't too traumatic.

I had to take Medazol every eight hours for ten days straight after my surgery, and let me tell you, it is a total nuisance. Did you mention your other health issues to the doctor? Maybe if you did, they wouldn't have prescribed Medazol to you in the first place.

The cost is reasonable enough, but I still don't quite grasp why they insist on doing the exam that way. There's also that other method where you lie down and pull your knees toward your chest. Personally, I tip my hat to Misir for his technique; his exam is easily the least awkward one I've experienced. I might just head to the hospital instead, since I was under the impression things were handled differently at a clinic like Sun City Clinic.😁

If there’s anything else on your mind, just ask!

Elizabeth Price85 said:EDIT: To be honest, what’s actually eating at me the most is this recurring fungal issue.😢

The doctor mentioned it's just a minor thrombosis sitting right under that mucosal prolapse. He didn't seem worried or even remotely concerned about it, so I’m banking on being totally fine in maybe four or five days.😉

So, does anyone know when I can actually get back into physical stuff—like hitting the gym or playing sports—or am I going to have some kind of restrictions?

Did you actually sit down with the doctor and lay out everything you're worried about and all the symptoms you've been dealing with? He really needs to have the full picture to give you good advice.

Usually, when people are recovering from a DG HAL RAR procedure, they're back to their normal routines within just a few days, but since you're also dealing with that mild thrombosis, I'm honestly not sure how that changes things for you.
I went through a fissure myself, and I still haven't done anything physically active because I was strictly told to avoid any kind of straining; I'm going absolutely stir-crazy waiting for the green light so I can finally get back into my workout routine.

Karen Thompson10 said:Did you actually tell the doctor what specifically you're worried about and list all your symptoms? They really need that context to make a good call.

Generally speaking, once you deal with a DG HAL RAR procedure, getting back to your normal routine usually takes just a few days. But since you're also dealing with mild thrombosis, I honestly can't say how your recovery will look.
For me, having a fissure was a nightmare—I still haven't done any physical activity at all because I was strictly forbidden from straining anything. I'm losing my mind here; I am just itching for the green light to get back into sports.

Man, if you want to know how it feels, I'm not even allowed to sit down for another three weeks. And I have work to do! I’ll probably just hop in the car to get things done. As soon as I feel better in a few days, I’m going on a road trip, even if I have to spend the whole time lying down in the backseat. I just need some fresh air. I haven't worked or left the house much since February 21st, aside from quick errands, and I am dying to head up to the mountains for some fresh air. Just a few more days...

Michael Diaz4 said:Man, you have no idea how tough it is for me right now; I’m basically banned from sitting down for another three weeks. It’s such a struggle because I have things I need to get done, so I end up just retreating back to my car to handle business while sitting there. Once I start feeling more like myself in a few days, I’m definitely planning a little getaway where I can just lounge in the car and soak it all in. I desperately need some fresh air. Since February 21st, I haven't been working or going anywhere except for quick errands, and I am counting down the minutes until I can finally head out to the mountains to breathe. Just a few more days to go...

I honestly can't even wrap my head around what you're going through! Not being allowed to sit down sounds absolutely brutal... 😢
I feel like I'm losing my mind already because I'm restricted from walking too much, and now you're telling me you can't even sit...
Say whatever you want, but hearing your situation feels like a total nightmare to me. I don't really know the right words to say, but I truly hope you have a super fast recovery and get back to your normal life soon. Just please, don't push yourself too hard or try to force things right now, because you definitely don't want to undo all the progress you've made. Hang in there just a little longer. 😉

Karen Thompson10 said:Did you actually tell the doctor what you're worried about and all the issues you're dealing with? He really needs to take all of that into account.

Usually, when you go in for a DG HAL RAR, getting back to your normal routine happens within a few days, but since you're also dealing with that mild thrombosis, I honestly have no idea how it’ll go for you.
Look, I had a fissure, and I still haven't done any physical activity at all because I was strictly forbidden from straining. It’s driving me crazy—I am just dying for him to give me the green light so I can get back into my sports routine.

I told him about the candidiasis, obviously, and mentioned that I'm really not a fan of antibiotics. He said, "Fine, you don't have to take them if you don't want to," but he still recommended them anyway.
I decided to just take them. The fungus is a side issue right now; my main priority is making sure some other nasty beast doesn't move in after the surgery. I'll stick to probiotics and use vaginal prophylaxis, and just hope for the best.🙂

I'm really hoping there won't be a long period of pain and bed rest. I'm skipping my workout this week, but it would be killer if I could get back to it next week.🙂 We'll see. I'll survive the break, I just want to get rid of these pests once and for all.
And I seriously hope the Hemorrhoids don't come back—not even for ten or fifteen years.🙂

Karen Thompson10 said:I can’t even imagine what you're going through! You shouldn't be sitting down at all... 😢
I’m already losing my mind because I’m not allowed to walk much, and now I can't sit either...
Say whatever you want, but your situation sounds like a total nightmare to me. I don't know what to tell you, other than I truly hope you have a fast recovery and get back to your normal life soon. Just please, don't mess this up by overexerting yourself—you don't want to undo all that progress. Hang in there just a little longer. 😉

Man, it really is a bit of a horror story. My doctor told me yesterday that I need to stay out of the chair; he said my recovery is looking great and I should stick to the current treatment plan. Before lunch, I’ll take some Phloebodij to help with my veins and vascular tone. Everything else is pretty much business as usual. Applying Lidoproct and doing the massage with Dolokain twice a day. The nurse at Sun City Clinic mentioned that if I absolutely have to be in the car, I can sit, but I should lower the seat a bit. Honestly, I won't risk it; I actually had to sit back down in the car myself. I was lying on my hip, and when I adjusted myself for a few seconds, I did sit down and it wasn't a problem, but still, I'm avoiding sitting. It's a massive pain, but it's getting easier. Bowel movements aren't a huge issue. So, here is some advice for any lady on the forum facing surgery—don't fear the bathroom. It needs to happen naturally. Don't strain or try to force anything. Just sit on the toilet and let nature take its course; the stool shouldn't be hard, especially if you eat soups and things like that for a few days. There might be a little spotting, but it shouldn't be bright red blood. It isn't particularly painful (at least not for me, compared to the misery before surgery). Just go without the panic and fear. It might hurt a little, but the discomfort is fading every single day. I took Align twice. After I started eating normally again after a few days, I was prescribed Align four times a day (16 tablets total). After three or four days and the next checkup, I did another round of Align. My movements stabilized, they were almost normal, and the pain decreased. Now, after four weeks, everything is regular, it doesn't hurt terribly, and things look normal. The stitches are holding steady, and there's no more blood or spotting (that disappears completely after a few days). That's about it. Basically, I had one of the toughest cases, so it will likely be easier for everyone else since they don't have polyps. And yesterday, my professor mentioned that these types of issues are the hardest. People suffer for a year, can't sleep, and can't even leave their houses. Eventually, they end up back at his office for surgery because they just can't live like that anymore. For me, the day I got that advice from Karen Thompson10 to see a doctor, everything just clicked. I told myself it was either get the surgery or die; I couldn't live like this, life is too short for this kind of suffering. And now, nearly a month later, I can write that I made the right call at the very last minute. You literally saved me. I mean it when I say you saved me and you're my favorite person on this forum.🙏🙂. Thanks again...🙂

Michael Diaz4 said: People end up suffering for an entire year, losing sleep every single night and basically becoming prisoners in their own homes because they can't face the world. It’s heartbreaking to watch, because eventually, they reach that breaking point where life just becomes unbearable, and they find themselves right back in his operating room just to finally get some relief and start living again. Honestly, looking back at that day when Karen Thompson10 gave me the advice to finally go see a doctor, I thought she was totally overreacting. It felt like such an extreme move, and I remember telling her it was basically a choice between dying or going under the knife—because honestly, life just isn't worth living when you're in constant, grinding pain like this. But now, nearly a month later, I’m sitting here realizing that making that call at the absolute last second was the best decision I could have ever made. She quite literally saved my life, and I mean that from the bottom of my heart; she really is my favorite person on this entire forum.🙏🙂Thanks again... I really can't tell you how much I appreciate this.🙂

That’s exactly why I decided to jump on this forum in the first place. I went through a nightmare stretch that lasted a month and a half, and honestly, if you haven't lived through that kind of intense pain, there's just no way to truly grasp what we're talking about here. It felt like being caught in a storm you couldn't escape. That's why I'm such a firm believer in prevention; you really should get yourself to a doctor while things are still manageable—before the pain becomes unbearable or you start dealing with serious complications.
I’ve spent so much time scrolling through this forum reading endless threads about different creams, ointments, and medications, but it feels like almost nobody actually shares a real, concrete solution that works. I remember seeing someone mention they had success using the DG HAL RAR method, so I decided to go out and do some digging to see if it was legit—and honestly, I am just so incredibly relieved and happy today because it actually did the trick.

If I had my way, I’d honestly tell everyone reading this to just go see a doctor and get the surgery over with right now, because if you could just skip ahead to a life where those complications aren't dragging you down anymore, why wouldn't you? At the end of the day, nobody—and I mean absolutely nobody—wants to deal with the kind of relentless pain that comes when things start getting complicated.

Look, I didn't exactly swoop in and save the day—you were probably going to end up at the doctor's office sooner or later anyway—but if my little nudge is what finally pushed you to go, then honestly, my heart is just incredibly full! 🙂
I really hope you start feeling like yourself again soon! 😉

Finally back home and just trying to relax. I already took 2 Dulcolax, but honestly, I’m not even sure if they’re going to do anything for me.🤷 I'm thinking about brewing up a couple of cups of mountain tea; that stuff always works for me when things get rough.
The pain is still there, but I guess I'm used to it by now.🤣
Karen Thompson10, I'll settle up my tab when I'm discharged (is that tomorrow morning?)

Elizabeth Price85 said:I'm just hanging out at home, trying to get some rest. I already took 2 Dulcolax, though I have this nagging feeling they might not even do the trick.🤷 I'm actually thinking about brewing up a couple of cups of mountain tea, because honestly, that stuff works like a charm for me every single time.
The pain is still there, but I guess I'm just getting used to living with it.🤣
Karen Thompson10, am I settling my bill when I get discharged (is that tomorrow morning?)

Yeah, yeah, you pay when you're being discharged. I really wanted to just settle everything the moment I arrived so I could put it behind me, but the staff told me not to overdo it and that I should just handle it in the morning.

Good luck tomorrow!!! 😉

Michael Diaz4 said:What you're talking about is just treating the symptoms. You can't exactly "fix" varicose veins on their own. If things get acute, surgery is the only way out. Slathering on creams or using suppositories isn't a cure; it's just managing the discomfort of a Hemorrhoid. Just like any other vein issue, they need to be surgically addressed if you want the problem gone for good. Period. That’s exactly why the DG HAL RAR method exists—it targets the cause of the Hemorrhoid. It cuts off the blood supply from that main vein, and just like that, they're gone. Everything else is just putting a band-aid on the aftermath...

I totally hear where you're coming from, but what do you think is the actual root cause of hemorrhoids? Why do they even happen in the first place? It's like saying if you have varicose veins in your legs, you should just cut off the blood flow to them to make them disappear—well, then you wouldn't have legs anymore, right? See what I mean?

When you come down with the flu or some nasty virus, the virus itself isn't the sole culprit. It's your body failing to fight it off because your immune system isn't strong enough. And why isn't it strong enough? Well, that usually comes down to our lifestyle choices.

Does anyone else dealing with internal Hemorrhoids get that nagging feeling like you haven't fully emptied your bowels after a movement? Like there's just something left behind...

...And how long does it actually take for those internal Hemorrhoids to settle back down after a banding procedure?? Are we talking a couple of months, or is it more like years...

Thanks!

Drew Booth said:Does anyone else dealing with internal hemorrhoids get that nagging feeling like you didn't quite finish after using the bathroom? Like there’s still something left behind?

...And how long does it take for those internal hemorrhoids to come back after a banding procedure?? Are we talking a few months, or is it more like years?

Thanks

A few months...

Alex Kim said:I totally get where you're coming from, but what’s actually causing the Hemorrhoid? Why did it happen in the first place? It's like saying if you have varicose veins in your legs, you should just stop blood flow to them entirely and they'll disappear—well, then you wouldn't have legs anymore. You see my point.

When you're dealing with the flu or a virus, the virus itself isn't the "cause"—it's your body being too weak to fight it off. That's why you get sick. And why is your immunity down? Well, that's usually due to our lifestyle choices.

The main culprits are usually heavy physical strain. It could also be genetics, low blood pressure, or pregnancy, since the pressure from the baby messes with circulation in that area, causing the veins to swell. Think of it like a mechanical failure in a car. A broken transmission doesn't fix itself. A vein is a mechanical issue; you need surgery to resolve it. Regarding the flu, sure, the cause is a virus—no argument there. But once those veins are removed, the body can better protect itself. You have to protect your vital organs—heart, lungs, liver, brain, kidneys—and then the other veins step up to handle the circulation for those organs. That’s exactly how the specialist who operated on me explained it. I think some things were getting lost in translation, so I wanted to clarify. For Hemorrhoids, there isn't a magic cure besides surgery. These days, modern methods allow it to be done easily right at the onset of the issue, preventing future complications. That's why the DG HAL RAR method is recommended now; it's highly successful. Your ideas about healthy living and diet being a "cure" aren't quite right. Those things are for prevention. If you already have Hemorrhoids, diet isn't a cure; it's just an attempt to manage them while they remain a chronic condition before they turn acute.😉