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Ronald Allen Ronald Allen Active MemberOP
160 messages
joined Oct 2010
#21 ·
Kimberly Nguyen said:🙂you should stay true to yourself, but just like in real life, sometimes you just have to shut up and count to fifteen if you have to...
things have to change everywhere, but you also know you can't change them all by yourself... some things and some people just aren't worth our effort, our time, or our sanity

Yeah, but here they’re trying to change me. I don't care if everything else around me is shifting around in some weird order, but I’m not standing in line to be changed. I’m not an object. I’m not some tool for someone else to vent their tantrums on. Some people choose to stay silent and just take it, but I won't.
It’s actually pretty fascinating to me how someone doesn't even want to show up here and state their opinion. Or their reasons. Whatever. Not that I expected anything different. 😉
Linda Rodriguez38 Linda Rodriguez38 Active Member
50 messages
joined Jun 2007
#22 ·
I honestly think the death sentence was signed the day you guys slapped my girl a permaban—totally killed our vibe and stopped all the fun banter we had going
we basically prayed to the universe to hit you guys back with the same energy, and hey, looks like it worked! maybe that massive, multi-page "manifesto of chaos" we sent to the big bosses helped too ☕
Johnny, you're actually pretty cool personally—don't you dare leave this place! hopefully the local creeps will keep exposing themselves soon, since they've already started...
me and the other stubborn ladies are just hanging out, waiting for the day when the guys finally get the guts to act like us—until then, we'll just be circling around here pretending to swap cookie recipes 😳
hollowtrucker77 hollowtrucker77 Regular
681 messages
joined Nov 2007
#23 ·
Ronald Allen, welcome back if you’re planning on sticking around, or even if you just feel like dropping in on the forum once in a while
Henry Cox78 Henry Cox78 Regular
286 messages
joined Apr 2011
#24 ·
Shout out to Johnny with a little track for him: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WRz_CW_MviQ
Kimberly Nguyen Kimberly Nguyen Regular
543 messages
joined Jul 2009
#25 ·
Ronald Allen said:Look, let’s get one thing straight: they are trying to reshape me here. I couldn't care less if the world around me is shifting or rearranging itself according to some arbitrary order, but I refuse to be the one standing in line to be "adjusted." I am not an object. I am not some tool someone uses to satisfy their own whims or act out their petty little impulses. There are plenty of people out there who will just stay quiet, swallow their pride, and endure whatever nonsense is thrown at them, but that isn't me. Not happening.

Hold on just a second—let's pump the brakes here for a moment. 🙂

Look, I get it... someone crossed a line. They really did. But here’s the thing: no matter how hard they try to push you, they can't change who you are at your core. You know exactly who you are, and you know what you stand for. When you run into someone like that—someone who just grates on your nerves—you don't let them rent space in your head. You just ignore them. Period. It's simple. At the end of the day, they're just one person, and that's all they'll ever be.

Just take a few days to clear your head and decompress. Seriously. 🙂
Steven Reed Steven Reed Regular
354 messages
joined Dec 2014
#26 ·
Johnny, idiots exist both in real life and on Reddit. Doing things the right way actually pays off in the long run 😉
if you ever decide to come back—I'll be more than happy to dive back into your posts on the Board of Trustees 🙂
Henry Cox78 Henry Cox78 Regular
286 messages
joined Apr 2011
#27 ·
Elizabeth Anderson63 said:Johnny, there are idiots in real life and idiots on Reddit. Just keep doing your thing—it’s worth sticking around. 😉
If you ever decide to come back, I’ll be right here enjoying your posts on the Board of Trustees again. 🙂

Because people are just a corrupt race, dirty and evil. 😁
Ronald Allen Ronald Allen Active MemberOP
160 messages
joined Oct 2010
#28 ·
Kimberly Nguyen said:Hold on, just hold on a second. Slow your roll. 🙂

Look... I get it. Someone crossed a line. But honestly? That person can't change who you are, no matter how hard they try. You know yourself. You know what you stand for. If someone's getting under your skin, just ignore them and move on. It's that simple. They're just one person. One.

Just take a few days to clear your head. 🙂

There’s just no help coming anymore, period! Believe me on that one. ☕
Look, nobody can change who I am. But when someone tries to stifle you—when they try to mold you into some "perfect" version of themselves just so you'll bow down and follow them blindly because they think they’re always right? That’s what pisses me off. Maybe I can ignore it, maybe you can too, but he isn't ignoring me. That’s the part that gets under my skin, and honestly, it's not even worth fighting anymore. There are so many people on Reddit who will kiss anyone's ass just to stay in the loop, or defend some idiot's reaction just to feel included. Not me. I've dealt with enough people in my life who tried to fix me; some eventually just gave up. I don't need some "Eye in the Sky" hovering over every single thing I post or every thread I start, waiting to "correct" things to fit their own agenda. I spoke up the first time, and nothing happened. I spoke up a second time, still nothing. I finally lost it and called him out—which, okay, maybe wasn't even worth his time—but he didn't act like the tough guy he pretends to be. Instead, he just slapped me with a ban like he would anyone else. He knew that if he actually tried to change me, it would hurt more. So he just deleted the thread, wiped everything that should have been settled ages ago, and now he thinks he's off the hook. He acts like I'm just some crazy person throwing tantrums for no reason, like there isn't a real point to any of this.
Look, I know I’ve rubbed some people the wrong way acting as a moderator. I get it. I know I’ve probably been way too harsh with my comments toward the Board of Trustees sometimes, but hey, that’s just who I am. At least I'm being real. I don't own Reddit, and I’m certainly never going to try and rewrite my personality just to fit in with this place or to please some moderator, no matter how much authority they think they have. I’ve been in those shoes before, and I never abused the power. ☕


Elizabeth Anderson63 said:Johnny is an idiot, both in real life and on Reddit. But hey, he does some good things too, I guess. Maybe it pays to stick around. 😉
If you ever decide to come back, I guess I’ll be right there on Reddit, eagerly reading your posts again. 🙂

Look, I don't want to go around calling anyone an idiot. I mean, we don't exactly know each other well enough for me to be making those kinds of calls, I guess.
Invertebrates only survive because they know how to blend in and bend whenever someone else wants them to. I don't have a spine made of jelly, but I’m not exactly a saint either, I guess.
Linda Rodriguez38 Linda Rodriguez38 Active Member
50 messages
joined Jun 2007
#29 ·
Ronald Allen said:Look, I’m not trying to call anyone an idiot—we don't know each other well enough for me to be throwing labels around like that.
But let's be real, jellyfish survive because they can just shapeshift and bend whenever they need to. I'm not saying I'm a pushover, but hey, I'm not a jellyfish either!

Then why did you agree to be a moderator in the first place? You knew exactly how this would go...
Ronald Allen Ronald Allen Active MemberOP
160 messages
joined Oct 2010
#30 ·
Linda Rodriguez38 said:Then why did you even agree to be a moderator? You knew how things worked...

Look, I volunteered to be a mod only because I saw how much of a mess the Politics sub was and I wanted to fix things.
From day one, I’ve been fighting with the admin team. When I first started, I actually tried to bring some changes to the table—I made suggestions, I put in the work. But back then, the admins just thought I didn't have enough experience. Every single time I tried, I got the exact same brush-off. That was until someone else finally said the exact same thing I had been shouting for months about what needed to change in real politics. I just pointed out that maybe, finally, the administration would see reason and let us actually do our jobs properly on this site. But whatever. The point is, I was the one fighting the fight while everyone else just stood on the sidelines waiting to see what the higher-ups would decide. I mean, seriously, if the admin team actually knew what they were doing with their authority over a site like Reddit, they should be listening to the people actually managing the subreddits. Instead, I just got told, "There goes Johnny again, always trying to take charge." 🤦 So now you think I'd actually want to moderate...? Yeah, thanks, but no thanks. After a pretty heated blowout with the old admin crew, I quit and just became a regular user again.
Kimberly Nguyen Kimberly Nguyen Regular
543 messages
joined Jul 2009
#31 ·
Ronald Allen said:There’s no help coming anymore, period. Believe me on that. ☕
.

It’s there, I’m telling you—it’s absolutely there. 🙂 Look, there are other PDFs floating around too... and honestly, you owe me a coffee after this. If you keep acting like this, I might just have to start sending you some homemade BBQ brisket as well. 😁
Steven Reed Steven Reed Regular
354 messages
joined Dec 2014
#32 ·
Kimberly Nguyen said:Oh, they exist 🙂 ... there are other PDFs out there ... and you owe me a coffee ... if you keep this up, I might even throw in some sliders 😁

I’ll just jump in here and pretend I was actually invited to the party 😍
Come on, Johnny—this is getting ridiculous... take a breather, enjoy life offline (take Kimberly and me out for sliders) and then get back to the Board of Trustees 😍
Linda Rodriguez38 Linda Rodriguez38 Active Member
50 messages
joined Jun 2007
#33 ·
Ronald Allen said:I actually signed up to be a moderator just because I saw how messy things were getting over on the Politics sub-forum—I really wanted to step in and make things better.
And man, being a mod meant fighting an uphill battle with the administration from day one. When I first joined, I was all about making changes and pitching ideas, but the higher-ups kept brushing me off, saying I lacked experience. It was the same old story every single time! Then, out of nowhere, someone else suggests the exact same stuff I’d been yelling about for months, and suddenly it’s a great idea? I just pointed out that maybe the administration would finally see sense and let us actually *do* our jobs properly on this site. But the bottom line is, I was the one out there fighting the good fight, while everyone else just sat back and waited to see what the admins would decide. Seriously though, if the management at a place like Reddit actually knew how to run things, they’d listen to the people actually doing the work! Instead, I just got told, "There goes Johnny again, always rushing ahead." 🤦 So you think I should still want to moderate...? Yeah, thanks, but no thanks. After a pretty heated showdown with the old admin team, I stepped down and went back to being just another user.

It’s that classic American thing where we act all polite but we're actually total jerks
you know your buddies are gonna tear you apart if you keep talking like this—hardly anyone's gonna take your side, or maybe just a few
some people will give you a pat on the back behind closed doors, just so they don't lose their status
but what status? You're all volunteers
honestly, they'd be better off volunteering at a local soup kitchen or a nursing home than here on this forum
nothing is uglier than someone craving glory; some people would kill for a tiny bit of power or authority
they aren't kidding when they say "give a man power and you'll see his true colors"
it was definitely for the best that you quit the mod gig, but hey, you can still level up the quality of this place just by posting better content as a regular user
if I were you, I wouldn't have left entirely
maybe just take a little breather, but don't walk away
just think about it
PS tell your wife I said hi! 😉
Linda Rodriguez38 Linda Rodriguez38 Active Member
50 messages
joined Jun 2007
#34 ·
Elizabeth Anderson63 said:I'm jumping in too—let's just pretend you invited me along!😍
Come on, Johnny, this is getting out of hand... take a breather! Go enjoy some real life—take Kimberly Nguyen and me out for some burgers—then get back to the Board of Trustees😍

And hey, I love burgers too!😢
feralpilot6 feralpilot6 Member
17 messages
joined Sep 2011
#35 ·
you can actually improve the quality of this whole Reddit thread just by posting better content yourself, like any regular user would

I don't really have anything else to add...🙏

and I love cheeseburgers too

I'd personally add some onions😍
Kimberly Nguyen Kimberly Nguyen Regular
543 messages
joined Jul 2009
#36 ·
So, people actually exist who want kebabs without onions? 😕 🤷

Honestly, everyone wants everything their way... but life doesn't work like that. 🙂
Ronald Allen Ronald Allen Active MemberOP
160 messages
joined Oct 2010
#37 ·
Linda Rodriguez38 said:Maybe we were a little too blunt about the old American way of doing things, but let's be honest, we're all acting like jerks here.
You know your buddies are going to tear you apart if you keep talking like this. Nobody’s gonna take your side—well, maybe a few people.
A couple might pat you on the back behind closed doors just so they don't lose their standing,
but what standing? They're volunteers.
Honestly, they should go volunteer at a nursing home or an orphanage instead of being here on this forum.
Hypocrisy is probably the ugliest trait a person can have. Some people would actually kill for a tiny bit of power or authority.
It’s true what they say: give a man power and you'll see who he really is.
Look, you stepped down from the mod team, fine. But you can still make this place better just by posting like a regular user.
If I were you, I wouldn't leave entirely.
I’d take a short break, sure, but I wouldn't quit.
Just think about it.
P.S. Give my wife my best.😉

First off, calling them "ex-colleagues"... whatever. I don't have anything against the crew over in real politics—the moderators, I mean. I get why they thought staying quiet was the move. Sometimes silence really is golden. It just sucks that some people wait until everything is already over before they finally speak up and say what they actually think.
I’m not picking sides with any of the mods (actually, scratch that, there's one... okay, two!) and I don't care who sides with me, as long as they're being real. They don't even have to be polite; hell, I haven't been polite half the time myself. I'm just looking for a shred of honesty, the kind I try to put out there, but I guess they just don't have it in them. Not that it matters.

Thanks for the well wishes. Of course, I'll pass them along. 😉
Laura Bishop Laura Bishop Member
20 messages
joined Sep 2010
#38 ·
Wait, why did George leave? 😢
placidmarlin3 placidmarlin3 Member
45 messages
joined Apr 2013
#39 ·
I totally get where you're coming from, Ronald Allen.😢
We haven’t really crossed paths in a thread before—maybe once, if I recall—but I see exactly what you're aiming at and why it's eating away at you, mostly because I'm feeling that same itch myself.
Even though I tend to be a much more abrasive and annoying presence here than you are, which essentially means my grievances or general state of mind just get brushed under the rug.
Honestly, I don't think the current atmosphere on this site is ever going to shift.👎
It’s just the way things are.
It’s a microcosm of the bigger picture.
As Bloomberg would say: take it or leave it.😁

Good luck.👋
William Green4 William Green4 Member
32 messages
joined Feb 2010
#40 ·
To be honest, Johnny was always such an absurdly eccentric figure, especially when it came to his takes on political affairs.
I still vividly remember him handing out flyers for causes he didn't truly grasp—and frankly, couldn't have understood—simply because he was too young to realize there was even a movement happening in the first place.
But now that he’s finally experienced the flip side of the coin, he’s acting like some wounded, overly sensitive bystander who's taken deep personal offense...

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