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Mod Mandy is a moderator on the Parenting forum

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Alex Barnes8 Alex Barnes8 Active MemberOP
131 messages
joined Nov 2010
#1 ·
I don't even know where to start.
There was an absolute bloodbath on the thread about breastfeeding in public. I wouldn't even care if the moderator hadn't been so biased and unfair. Just because we don't see eye to eye, she let people insult me day after day. And then, after all that, I'm the one who gets banned. 😲
She picked out one single post of mine to attack, while ignoring a massive amount of their own posts—which were way worse.
When I asked her for an explanation, she just claimed that she wasn't even on the forum yesterday.
That isn't really an answer, though, since the harassment started long before that, back when she was present and just chose not to act.
The kicker is that they deleted two posts from another user that didn't even contain insults. Apparently, it's enough to get censored just for having a different opinion than the moderator and her little clique.
Benjamin Nelson8 Benjamin Nelson8 Active Member
146 messages
joined Aug 2006
#2 ·
Look, I’ve already explained this once, but here we go again... yesterday the forum was glitching out and only showing me the first 10 posts. I couldn't see the rest, which means I couldn't react to them. This isn't on me, so stop acting like everything is my fault.
You insulted another member by calling her a psychopath, and that’s a violation of the rules. That's been handled.
I spent today cleaning up this entire thread and sorting through the nonsense.
Also, like I told you before, if there's still a post somewhere where someone is insulting you and I haven't stepped in yet, just report it. There’s a little triangle icon with an exclamation point right under the user's name specifically for reporting inappropriate content.

Two posts from another member were nothing but pure off-topic chatter—which is also against our forum rules—so they've been deleted.

The full explanation is posted right at the top of the thread itself.🙂

And just for the record, you started posting in this thread on October 17th. I didn't show up until October 20th, and since then, I've been busy cleaning up the mess, including posts from people who agree with you but are breaking the rules.🙂
Alex Barnes8 Alex Barnes8 Active MemberOP
131 messages
joined Nov 2010
#3 ·
You mentioned deleting posts from people who agree with you. Did you just ban them instead?
You claimed you deleted some of my posts—I’m curious, which ones were you looking at?
They’re attacking me, and you’re busy deciding which of my comments need to vanish. 👎
You said you removed all the posts where they insulted me. You didn't. Because an insult isn't just saying: "You're a psychopath." 🙄 If you actually read more closely, I only said that to her after being harassed, attacked, taken out of context, and LIED to (which I see you don't penalize), and you jumped on me immediately for that.
And please, don't act like that word is some shocking taboo that shouldn't even be uttered, otherwise this site would look like nothing. Everyone reading this knows how it works.
Besides, what do I actually gain from you deleting those posts where they were insulting me?
You basically wiped the evidence of what I'm talking about just so you can keep playing dumb.
Honestly, you might as well have left them up so everyone could see what really happened.
One more thing: Go back and look at the posts from Kayla3 and Ašatan and count how many actual arguments they offered.
Of course, they did it while constantly discrediting everything I said by insisting I'm arguing without substance. Yet if anyone actually provided arguments or explanations, it was me.
Just look at how I've been treated for it. And don't start with the "Where are they calling you stupid?" nonsense; we aren't in kindergarten. 🙄
If anyone here deserves a ban, it's Kayla3 and Ašatan.
Benjamin Nelson8 Benjamin Nelson8 Active Member
146 messages
joined Aug 2006
#4 ·
I didn't delete anything... deleted posts are still visible to all moderators, just like assigned warnings 🙂

Having a weak argument in your post or demanding better arguments from other people in the discussion isn't grounds for a warning... I've already explained that to you
Alex Barnes8 Alex Barnes8 Active MemberOP
131 messages
joined Nov 2010
#5 ·
So, are all those other points I raised in my last post actually being ignored, or what? 🙄
And no, having the posts hidden from view but still accessible to moderators isn't enough for me. I want them visible to everyone who visits this thread. I haven't done anything wrong.
I don't need you deleting my posts, whether you call it a favor or a penalty.
I just want people to see how you and your little favorites—Ašatan, Kayla3, Aruena, and Prec—actually behave. They've been obsessively targeting me (just look at what Katarineos said; she’s a mother herself, so she saw the bias and called it out, and she isn't the only one), yet somehow, you're the one handing me a strike! 😕👎👎👎
I guess I'm just not going to sit here and accept this unfairness just because I don't have a squad of mothers backing me up.
Richard Perez3 Richard Perez3 Active Member
215 messages
joined Dec 2014
#6 ·
The moderator weighed in on your appeal and issued a sanction because they felt it was necessary. I’d really appreciate it if you stopped talking like this here.

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