Susan Howard63
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joined Feb 2013
I haven't been around here all that long, so I'm honestly just curious about how this whole moderator thing works. Like, what’s the actual criteria for picking people to run this place, and what kind of crowd are we even talking about?
It’s especially frustrating when it comes to these MALE moderators overseeing threads about "American tourist destinations"—specifically looking at that one thread about Florida. I’ll never forget how one of them snapped at me so condescendingly. I had simply called him out for failing to take action or even react to a post where someone was straight-up insulting me. His excuse? "I can't see everything." Fine, I get that. But then he turns around and hits *me* with a red card, telling me, "Just because you think you see everything doesn't mean I can, and here's your red card because you're typing in all caps." Meanwhile, he gets off scot-free. His own post was edited—something was changed, but the insults were still right there—so I don't even know what it looked like before the edit. Why didn't he get a red card or have his post deleted? Instead, I’m the one getting punished just because I dared to question a "top-tier" moderator, and he felt the need to vent his frustration on me with a penalty... Is the guy who insulted me maybe buddies with the moderator? He probably thinks he's some big shot, and since I'm a woman who dared to call him out... well, naturally, the guy who harassed me faces zero consequences, while I get slapped with a red card just for using capital letters. I highly doubt he would've reacted that way if it had been a man. It feels like total double standards. Why is stuff tolerated for some people but strictly forbidden for others?
I honestly couldn't believe it. I mean, is it actually okay for a moderator to behave like that?
That's why I'm asking: what's the logic behind selecting these people? Who are they, really?
I ended up digging through his other posts, and it turns out the guy is part of some hardcore fan club, and he even has a "hooligan" tag under his username. Okay, maybe it's just a joke, but apparently, this is the person who gets to decide what's fair and square...