Sam Hall15 said:It could be kidney stones, an infection way up in the urinary tract or the kidneys themselves, or maybe just some bad constipation hitting the bend in the colon 😁—honestly, it could be a million different things... Is the pain radiating? Are there specific triggers or other symptoms coming along for the ride?
Thanks so much for getting back to me. 😘
I’m honestly stumped on what to link these "attacks" to, because food doesn't seem to be the culprit. Sometimes I think stress from work plays a part, but even then, the connection isn't super obvious. He gets deathly pale and breaks out in a cold sweat on his head—it’s rough. Occasionally, he feels a bit better if he cramps up or shifts positions, but the relief is fleeting. The pain is all over the place; he can't pin it down, though he usually clutches "up high"—the area I mentioned before. After an episode, his digestion goes totally sideways (not that it's ever been great to begin with). There have been times where he’s had a couple of beers and felt better—though that might just be because it knocks him out. Digestive aids and stomach meds don't touch it. I tried giving him some Bentyl—I used it for my gallbladder and saw it helps with various pains—and when things kick off, it seems to help, but even then, it's hit or miss.
I’m just praying it isn't anything major, because I really hope this isn't something that drags on for years without getting significantly worse. The hardest part is that he absolutely refuses to see a doctor—he’s terrified they’ll actually "find something," so he just suffers through it. It kills me to watch him like this and feel completely helpless.
Thanks again! 🙏