velvetwolf92
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joined Apr 2007
I honestly think itβs just awful when there's a total mismatch in sex drive within a relationshipβlike, one person is super high libido and the other just isn't interested at all. It puts this massive amount of pressure on the partner who actually wants intimacy, and in my case, it felt absolutely miserable. I don't mean this lasted for maybe a few weeks, either; we're talking more than six months of this going on, so naturally, I started getting really worried about where we stood.
That's why I feel like such a huge weight has finally been lifted off my shoulders.
It's just like Walter Myers4 was saying, what really helped me was when I finally managed to just... relax. But man, that is easier said than done when you're dealing with that constant, heavy pressure I mentioned earlier.
Kenneth Hernandez67, look, I get it, you probably know a thing or two about this stuff and have way more experience under your belt. I'm still pretty young and definitely inexperienced, which is exactly why I let myself get so worked up about the whole thing.