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So, I’m looking for some help here. If it’s even possible, I want to explain my mother’s situation. She’s been in the hospital for nine days now without a definitive diagnosis, and she is essentially dying from the pain. It feels impossible that the doctors don't know what's going on, and I don't believe they are hiding anything from us. To give you some background, my 52-year-old mother went to see her doctor because she had a swelling in her neck, her right arm was hurting and tingling, and she just felt terrible overall. Her thyroid wasn't looking right either; some initial therapy didn't help, so they ordered lung scans. She’s a smoker, and the scan showed four or five critical dark spots on her lungs. They prescribed some kind of radiation treatment, which she underwent, and she actually felt fine afterward. Following that, they said they needed to perform a biopsy on some lymph nodes near the lungs. The doctor took samples from six different nodes, but the results came back completely clear and normal—the doctor suggested maybe it looked clean because of the radiation. Ever since then, the excruciating pain started. She’s in constant agony all day long. The pain in her arms and legs is unbearable; she can barely get up if she tries at all. She’s dealing with dizziness and hasn't slept in fifteen days. When I say the pain is intense, I mean it—she describes it as feeling like her bones are being broken whenever we try to massage her. To make matters worse, over the last few days of those fifteen, she’s started seeing double. It’s strange; she sees normally out of one eye, and normally out of the other, but when she looks with both eyes open, everything is doubled. If she covers one eye with her hand, the vision returns to normal. The pain won't stop, it stays just as intense, and this double vision persists. We finally decided to take her back to the hospital because a second biopsy was scheduled, but she was in such bad shape that they couldn't even go through with it. Now, nine days have passed and still no diagnosis? They ran blood work, and almost everything looks fine—her blood sugar is okay, and all the vital markers seem normal. An MRI of her brain was done, and it came back clear. Her neck area also looks clean and normal. Yesterday, they performed a spinal tap—I think it’s called a lumbar puncture based on what I read online—and we are waiting on those results. Meanwhile, she is in this much pain, unable to sleep, and unable to even look at things properly. Can anyone help me? Is a neurologist supposed to be handling this? I forgot to mention that her spinal imaging also came back okay. What am I supposed to do? This is my mother, and she has never been sick a day in her life. When I visited her a few days ago, I noticed a small swollen node on her arm; I checked other parts of her body, but it was only in that one spot. Does anyone have any intelligent advice or suggestions on what we should be suspicious of? I know deep down this is likely something extremely serious. Please, help...