I'm 43. Up until three years ago, I was convinced the issues in my left thigh were just muscle problems—until I saw an orthopedist, S. Tiffenbach, in Washington, D.C. He caught on immediately that there was no rotation issue and sent me for pelvic imaging. Turns out, it wasn't just arthritis in my left hip; there's a subluxation there too. His take? Go straight to surgery for a total hip replacement and get on Dr. Hašpl's schedule, since he’s the specialist for those procedures. So, I did. But Dr. Hašpl told me that, given my age, I'm actually too young for a permanent fix—it would basically be a temporary solution that might only last four or five years before I'm back on the operating table. His advice was to lose weight—which is easier said than done when you can barely walk for more than ten minutes at a time without pain—so maybe some cycling, swimming, and low-impact exercises. The pain is getting worse, though. Getting up from a chair is a struggle, stairs are a nightmare, and now the pain hits at night, too—meaning I'm barely sleeping. I've been leaning on Ibuprofen to get by, but then I start dealing with stomach issues. My last checkup was six months ago with a doctor who shares my diagnosis (left hip arthritis). I figured, what better advice could I get? He just looked at me and said, "What kind of surgery? I've been dealing with this pain since I was 35, and now I'm 56." His suggestion was simple: stick to walking on flat ground, swim, and try to drop some weight. It seems like most experts suggest delaying the surgery for as long as possible, but there's a catch—some say that by limping to protect my left side and overcompensating with my right, I'm going to wreck my spine. If I haven't already, because I'm feeling it in my lower back and even my neck. Then again, I know people who got hip replacements and say they feel like a whole new person. So, I guess you have to be smart about what you choose to do... anyway, if this helps anyone else, I'll be glad.