Brandon Nelson3
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joined Jun 2022
Great, maybe now I can finally get some peace of mind! You guys actually made my day.
Thor, don't even talk to me about having another kid! I barely made it through this one. Thank God I even walked out of that hospital alive! 😲
The conditions in our hospitals here are just a total disaster. As far as the doctors go (I gave birth at Mayo Clinic)—they were great. Really kind, super professional... though I definitely paid a massive premium to make sure everything went smoothly.
But the nurses? Absolutely terrible. I guess I was foolish enough to expect some basic human decency, which is why I ended up so disappointed. It’s unbelievable—I literally BEG a nurse for help getting to the bathroom the day after my C-section, and she just rolls her eyes, gives me a hand only because she feels forced to, opens the door, and walks away. So there I am, sitting on the toilet for twenty minutes crying because I physically cannot stand up. 🙄
Or take this: an older nurse—someone you'd assume has decades of experience—misses my vein four separate times while trying to give me antibiotics. Then they bring the baby over four hours later, and I can't even hold him because both my arms are covered in bruises and puncture marks. 😢
I spent those eleven days in the hospital crying my eyes out. Honestly, the worst part wasn't even the physical pain; it was that crushing sense of helplessness—knowing that because of their mistakes and incompetence, I couldn't even hold my own baby properly. 👎