I honestly don't know anymore; I’ve gone through this cycle a hundred times where I get pierced and then just fail 😢 and now I’ve let the hole close up again, likely giving up on it forever because those standard stud earrings always hurt me so much! 🙂 I really put in the work this past summer and fall, but then I went and got it pierced again in December; I wore the medical-grade stud for six weeks and didn't feel a thing because those little things stay so still and don't irritate the wound, but as soon as I swap it for a regular silver or steel stud, it either moves too much or hurts like crazy whenever I lean over—it’s like I can actually feel that nothing healed during those six weeks... I just don't get how people wear them for two weeks and then switch to regular studs without any issues, especially since no piercing heals in two weeks, let alone two months, and even though I didn't wear the medical one for the full two months, I suspect the result would be the same 😠
I probably would have succeeded if I could just wear the medical stud for a really long time, because it doesn't bother me at all; even on the first day of piercing, there's no pain because it stays perfectly fixed and doesn't irritate the site. I know it would have healed if I'd just stuck with it, but I never manage to wait that long because I always end up injuring the piercing site. -.-
I love the look of regular studs, but clearly my body heals way too slowly... because when I took out the medical stud after six weeks, there was blood and it was painful to put the other earring in.
And people, please, no alcohol and no twisting! The jewelers give terrible advice, and honestly, it makes sense that they're wrong; I know it because when I followed the rules and didn't do those things, the medical stud felt like nothing was even there, but the first time I pierced it and kept twisting it and using alcohol, it hurt constantly. It's obvious that doing that irritates the wound and stalls healing—it's like getting a cut and then picking at the scab. And it’s definitely not true that it will just "seal up" easily, because every new piercing is an open wound. Then again, some people don't follow any rules at all and succeed anyway, while I've tried so many times and failed. -.-
http://www.octopuspiercing.com/page.php?id=74 This is an excellent read; maybe it might help someone else who is planning on getting their ears pierced. 😉
http://www.healthline.com/extra...ear-piercing This one too.
It seems to me that this is why I fail:
Copied from the website:
By changing your jewelry before the entire healing period is complete, you can injure the piercing channel which hasn't fully healed on the inside, and it can also lead to swelling and bleeding, essentially forcing the entire healing process to start all over again.Because that is exactly what happens to me when I switch to a regular stud; there’s always a little blood because I irritate the spot (even when I’m being careful), and then the pain is unbearable. I won't be piercing anything for at least a year, and I actually smashed all my regular stud earrings in a fit of pure frustration because they cause me so much pain. 🙂 😵 The only time the regular studs didn't hurt was when I stood perfectly still and didn't move, haha! But obviously, you can't live life like that; I'd last maybe a week before giving up due to the pain. I love the look, but pain is pain.
I have sensitive ears, so maybe the only way for me is to wear the medical stud for several months or even a year, which isn't a bad thing—I still have the piercing and, most importantly, it doesn't hurt. Or I can wear a similar small stud, but I just can't keep swapping them out while the piercing is fresh, otherwise it bleeds and ruins the healing.
Has anyone else dealt with similar issues where the regular studs hurt right at the beginning, like in those first few weeks after piercing? ☕
I was truly convinced I would finally succeed this time, because that little medical stud didn't bother me at all during those six weeks of wearing it, so if I had...
I knew this was going to happen again, so I figured I might as well just commit to keeping her pierced for a full year! It’s definitely better than giving up every single time, honestly—besides, she actually looked pretty great, and everyone was saying how cool it looked,
it was from Zales, by the way; they use one of those white piercing guns which supposedly features newer tech, though I've heard you're much better off letting a professional piercer use a needle because apparently it heals way faster,
since the gun method tends to damage the surrounding tissue and leaves you much more prone to complications.