Tight-fitting shoes

Go see a cobbler; they can always stretch them out a bit 😉

If they’re genuine leather, there’s still hope. 🙂 Like vividrider98 mentioned, you can actually have a cobbler stretch them out on a shoe stretcher, and I think there’s also some kind of "elasto-something" spray you can mist over them to soften the material and help them expand. Between those two things, you might actually have a shot.
The only real dealbreaker is if the sole itself is cut too narrow; if that's the case, the bottom is always going to feel tight no matter what. I actually have a pair just like that, and honestly, I can only get away with wearing them if I have on really thin stockings.

I actually have this little life hack that works wonders for me. I take some zip-lock bags—you know, the kind that slide shut really easily—fill them about a third of the way with water, and just tuck them right into my shoes or boots before tossing them in the freezer. Once I'm feeling totally frozen, I'll pull them out and let them sit for maybe 20 minutes to soften up just a bit, then I just pop the ice out of my footwear. It’s honestly perfect because the shape is already spot on; I don't have to spend time stomping them down or breaking them in to get comfortable. If you're dealing with real leather, you might need to run the whole process two or three times to get it just right.
I hope that helps!

I mean, you can even pick up some wooden or plastic plant stakes at Walgreens, I think they're $9.75, something like that

neongull81 said:I mean, you can even pick up some wooden or plastic plant stakes at Walgreens, I think they're $9.75, something like that

For me, those stretchers didn't really do the trick 🤷, because my hair would just "snap back" to being curly anyway. I feel like this is a slightly more permanent fix 🙂

Thanks so much for all the advice, everyone.

I spent a little time stomping around the house in them—just to test things out—and finally decided they’re going back.
They were way too pricey, and honestly? They weren't even perfect...
I made the same mistake before by keeping shoes that were way too small, thinking they'd just stretch out... then I ended up never wearing them at all.

But that trick about freezing water in them? Love it. I've got a few old pairs of Nikes lying around that I can totally try that on! :-D

Mark Perez2 said:I always just buy a size up so nothing pinches or feels too tight; I don't deal with those issues. Honestly, everything usually feels too small on me anyway.😢

Same here. Even when they stretch out, they’re still way too big for me. 🤣
Ugh, seriously? Why is it that my hips never fit into a smaller size, even though I always have plenty of room in the waist? Grrr. Who even designs these super slim models? 🙄

I was wondering if anyone here knows if antelope fabric has any natural shrinking properties? I know that sounds a bit out there—almost eccentric—but I would truly value any insight you might have.

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neongull81 said:I mean, you can even pick up some wooden or plastic plant stakes at Walgreens, I think they're $9.75, something like that

stretchers aren't really for that if we're talking about the same thing, like shoe trees. those are just meant to keep the shape when you aren't wearing them, which is pretty essential if you have a big rotation and some pairs sit around for a while
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to stretch a shoe, then maybe go get some quality shoe trees—strictly wooden ones—that stay inside whenever you aren't wearing them

Here’s my issue: they aren't too small or too big. It's the crease right by the toes. It pinches my thumb joint so incredibly hard it’s agonizing, especially after walking around the city for a few hours.
I actually thought about heading to a cobbler, but I really don't want them stretching them out too aggressively. The left one barely bothers me, but the right one feels like it's snapping my bone. They're genuine leather—double-layered—so they're incredibly stiff.
So, can anyone tell me how much a cobbler usually charges for stretching?

Just grab some Ziploc bags 😁 , fill them up with water, and shove them deep into your shoes. Toss those bad boys into the freezer until they turn into solid ice. Once they're frozen, pull the shoes out and just let that ice melt away naturally so you can get it all out... and boom! Your shoes will have expanded to fit perfectly! 😁

Nancy Campbell5 said:I have a little bit of an old-school tip—kind of like one of those "grandma's remedies"—but I guess it actually works. If you have leather shoes that are pinching or feeling too tight, and they're genuine leather, you can try filling a plastic bag with water and leaving it in the freezer overnight. The ice from the bag should stretch them out a bit, and then you just wipe them down and apply some moisturizer in the morning, and hopefully, they'll be fine. 👍 😁

Hmm, how exactly am I supposed to fit a size 14 wide with fourteen holes into my freezer... 🤷

Peter Morgan3 said:Hmm, how exactly am I supposed to fit a size 14 wide with fourteen holes into my freezer... 🤷

Maybe ask Walgreens to toss them in their walk-in cooler for you.🤷
Or a morgue?

he: Stretching them out like that isn't doing you any favors; the shoes lose their shape and they won't be worth anything afterward.

Lay the top part down, give them a little squeeze, or maybe just pull out the top drawer😉

The issue eventually resolved itself... I wore three pairs of compression socks for about a week, and they finally loosened up enough to be comfortable. Now, walking in them is actually quite pleasant. 😂
By the way, I applied the cream both inside and out for about fifteen days, only to realize that not a single drop had actually absorbed. Great. Clearly, this stuff doesn't work at all.

guys help, okay so I bought these super high platform heels on Saturday, and even though I usually wear an 8, a 7 felt perfect but the 8 is just... weirdly huge? anyway, when I tried them on at Walgreens they felt amazing, so I was like "this is it," but then I get home and everything goes south... the left one fits like a dream but the right one is tight, like seriously tight. what do I even do?? I'm a bridesmaid in a wedding this Saturday and I have to wear these, plus there's no way I can exchange them now because I'm slammed and don't have anyone to run errands for me. also they aren't leather, they're more like some kind of satin material, so I don't even know what I can do without totally ruining them... is that whole thing with the water and the freezer actually worth a shot? I tried putting some fabric softener in today hoping maybe it would help, please let me know if you have any ideas!

Has anyone actually dealt with stretching out shoes before?? I’ve got these heels made from some kind of "satin" material and they're absolutely killing my pinky toe... and I need them for a wedding in two weekends...

So, I’ve been thinking lately—what is the actual etiquette when it comes to wearing leather shoes?
Is there a specific way I should be styling them, or perhaps certain occasions where they might feel a bit out of place? I'd love to hear everyone's thoughts on what's appropriate!

I ordered these online, and let me tell you, once they actually arrived, I practically had to fight my own feet just to get them on.
The material isn't even real leather; they're just patent leather.
Look, I can technically wear them, but my foot just kind of spills out over the side, leaving this awkward gap on the inner part of my foot.
It looks absolutely hideous. Please help me out here—this is actually an emergency because I really need them for my plans this weekend!