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Participants Roger Smith6Susan James42wiredfox72Aaron Harris67Jacob Wilson50boldeagleCasey Palmer5crimsonbear75Andrew Hernandezjadetinker85Daniel Barnes7Laura Green8ADana King4Elizabeth Anderson40Sean Nguyen4Christian Lee13jadesailor14
boldeagle boldeagle Member
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#21 ·
Since I work as an Ophthalmologist and Contact lens specialist—as wiredfox72 put it, I wasn't familiar with that specific phrasing, so thanks for the lesson—I'm currently practicing here in the Netherlands. Because of that, I might occasionally stumble over an American term for something, though I'm hoping that won't happen too often; I haven't felt that alienated from the culture just yet. 🙂

I’ve asked you before how strong your cylinder prescription is, but since you didn't know, it’s worth noting that this could be a deciding factor in which type of lenses you choose to wear. If the cylinder is located on the cornea, you can correct it with either hard or soft lenses. However, if the cylinder is in the lens itself, hard lenses aren't really an option. At least, they aren't in standard practice; I'm somewhat familiar with how Ophthalmologists and Contact lens specialists operate in America.
Furthermore, if your cylinder strength exceeds your spherical correction, you’ll most likely have to go with hard lenses; soft ones aren't always as successful in those specific cases.

Beyond the technicalities, perhaps the most critical factor for anyone considering contact lenses is motivation: do you actually *want* to wear them? What is driving this decision, and what are your expectations?
Lenses require significantly more maintenance and "sacrifice" than glasses; even just the upkeep is a much larger undertaking. Being irresponsible with this can lead to permanent consequences.

Provided both are corrected properly, you won't actually see better with lenses than you do with glasses. In fact, theoretically, there's a higher chance that with certain soft toric lenses, your vision might even be slightly worse. It depends on several variables.

Regardless of your choice, you need to keep a pair of glasses on hand. If you deal with inflammation or any other complications, you simply cannot wear the lenses. It's also wise not to pop them in first thing in the morning; your eyes need to breathe and take in oxygen from the environment, since they don't get a direct oxygen supply through the blood. Giving them that window of time is always a good idea. And at night, once the lenses are out... reach for the glasses.

I'll try to touch upon a few other posts to clear up some common misconceptions.

Soft lenses can serve as a replacement for glasses—and for most people, they are. Of course, eyes can be 🙂 totally screwed over by them, but that's a topic unto itself; there are too many potential complications for me to dive into that right now. Generally speaking, proper maintenance and regular replacement are the solutions.

Soft lenses allow for some oxygen permeability depending on their water content—usually ranging from 38% to 50% or 70%. The principle remains the same: the higher the water content, the greater the oxygen permeability, but they also tend to get dirty faster.
Permeability has nothing to do with bacteria; it's about the porosity of the lens, if you catch my drift. A soft lens functions like a sponge; it absorbs water and holds its shape, but it also easily traps bacteria. There are various types available, from dailies to annuals. The shorter the wear cycle, the lower the risk of contamination, but naturally, the price goes up. Monthly lenses are the standard here. Personally, I wouldn't use anything longer than six-month lenses. Hard lenses don't suffer from this issue.

The prescription for glasses and lenses can differ. Lenses often have a slightly lower negative value compared to glasses, meaning they aren't stronger or weaker! Roughly speaking, you add about 0.25 for every 3 diopters.
In the case of hard lenses that correct for astigmatism using tear film, the cylinder can sometimes be ignored if it doesn't exceed 2 diopters.

Hard lenses do not stop your prescription from progressing! They might influence the curvature of the eye, but once you stop wearing them, it returns to its baseline. This applies to the cylinder, which usually reappears at the same value after you stop wearing them—though that isn't a absolute rule; it depends on many factors. In some younger patients, they can occasionally stabilize the strength to a small degree.

So, here is my final takeaway: if you want to wear lenses, I would recommend HP—gas-permeable hard lenses. They carry a lower risk of complications, are far cheaper than soft lenses, and often provide superior optical results for astigmatism.
If you decide on glasses instead, I don't think I have much left to add that you don't already know.

I I should probably add that your situation is pretty unique; at the end of the day, your decision is going to hinge on a whole cocktail of different factors. I didn't dive deep into every single issue because, frankly, there's no point writing a damn dissertation on it here. But if anything else catches your eye, just ask—I'm more than happy to weigh in.

Anyway, hoping this at least offered some value. Good luck with everything, and if you end up pulling the trigger on a decision, let us know how it goes.
jadetinker85 jadetinker85 Regular
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#22 ·
I just picked up a year's supply of soft contacts—a pack of four pairs, with each pair lasting about three months. My supply is running low, so I need to restock soon. I think I saw someone mention on this forum that people drive over to Canada because the prices there are nearly half what we pay here?
Casey Palmer5 Casey Palmer5 Regular
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#23 ·
Guys, I just spent the last ten minutes attempting to put in soft contact lenses for the very first time in my life (after a solid half-hour of wrestling with them). And honestly? It’s nothing! I didn't even shed a single tear... it's actually way worse when you get an eyelash stuck in your eye.

The only tricky part is how clumsy it feels—they either fold over, refuse to let go of your finger, or just end up overlapping once they're in your eye. But hey, I did it! Now fingers crossed that taking them out goes just as smoothly...😁
Daniel Barnes7 Daniel Barnes7 Newcomer
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#24 ·
jadetinker85 said:I picked up a year's supply of soft contacts—four pairs total, wearing each pair for three months. My supply is running low soon, so I need to restock. I think I read somewhere on this forum that people drive over to Canada because the lenses are half the price there?

I just buy mine right here in Washington, D.C. I’m not trying to run an ad or anything, so if you're interested, just shoot me a PM. I paid for 3 pairs $100. Personally, I can stretch them out to 5 or 6 months easily. I've been wearing soft lenses for 9 years now and they are honestly a lifesaver, especially when things get intense—like when I was playing sports heavily. No pair of glasses could ever replace them for me 👍.
Daniel Barnes7 Daniel Barnes7 Newcomer
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#25 ·
Casey Palmer5 said:Listen, I just put in my first pair of soft contact lenses about ten minutes ago. It took me half an hour of struggling just to get them in, but man, that was an experience. Honestly? It’s nothing. I didn't even shed a single tear. It's actually way more painful when you get an eyelash stuck in your eye than this.

It’s honestly such a finicky process. You either end up folding them, they just won't budge from your finger, or they overlap once they're actually in your eye. But, I finally pulled it off. Now, I just hope taking the protectors off goes as smoothly. 😁

Of course it isn't some kind of embarrassment. People are being unnecessarily fearful. What bugs me most is when someone says, "I could never put anything in my eye!" Then you have to explain to them that the contact lens doesn't go IN the eye—it goes ON the eye. 😁
You’ll pick up the lens manipulation technique in no time. Honestly, nobody finds it easy when you're working with brand-new, fresh lenses. Give it a week or two until they lose just a bit of that initial moisture—then they’ll move exactly how you want them to. Just watch those fingernails! 🙂
Casey Palmer5 Casey Palmer5 Regular
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#26 ·
First, I trimmed my nails, gave my hands a super thorough scrub, and then... honestly? It was just a mess of swearing, frantic calls to my best friend, and a whole lot of fumbling around until things finally settled down.
Honestly, props to me 😁 (I didn't even try them on at the eye doctor because my ragweed allergies were absolutely killing me. I just told them I'd handle it myself once the sneezing stopped and that I had plenty of pros at home who could help me out).
Daniel Barnes7 Daniel Barnes7 Newcomer
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#27 ·
I remember putting my very first contact lens in when I was just 13... took me a solid 25 minutes of struggling, haha... I was so impatient.
Actually, I had them put it in and take it out at the eye clinic that same day. If I hadn't done it there, who knows when I would have finally figured it out on my own? 🙂 I can still hear my uncle telling me exactly when to go for it: "Alright, now reach deep into the eye and grab it...!" 😁😁😁
If your friend isn't up for it, I can show you how 😉 Free of charge. In exchange, you can take a look at my pathetic knees and recommend some physical therapy 😁
Andrew Hernandez Andrew Hernandez Member
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joined Nov 2005
#28 ·
Casey Palmer5 said:It’s just a bit tricky getting them in. They either fold, won't release from your finger, or end up overlapping on the eye. But I managed. Hopefully, taking the protectors off goes just as smoothly. 😁


Just be careful. At first, when you're putting them in and taking them out, I found it way too easy to lose them. 😁
I actually lost two—one from each pair—during my first few months of wearing them.
I've practiced enough now that I don't lose them anymore.

Those soft lenses are so incredibly light that sometimes you can't even feel if they're actually on your eye or not.

I was certain I had put one in, but it turned out I only put in one. I didn't realize until I went to take them out at night that the other one was nowhere to be found. 🙂

I lost the second one while taking it out. I eventually found it the next morning on the floor, all crumpled and dried out. 😛 I thought I had placed it in the case, but it must have stayed stuck to my finger and fallen onto the floor. I managed to save it by putting it back in the solution. 🙂

Anyway, after that, I learned to always lay a towel under my lens case. I make sure to gently press my fingers against it. That way, if a lens is still invisibly stuck to my finger, I have a chance to find it on the towel.
Daniel Barnes7 Daniel Barnes7 Newcomer
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#29 ·
Andrew Hernandez said:These soft lenses are so incredibly light that sometimes you can't even tell if they're actually on your eye or not.

Well, look, I’m at -2.00 in both eyes, so there is NO WAY I’m missing something like that! 😁
Laura Green8 Laura Green8 Newcomer
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#30 ·
I have these soft contact lenses—the kind you wear for maybe a month or two at most—and they’re honestly great. They aren't even that pricey, and I’ve got six of them in a little case that should last me about a year.
Lately, though, I've come down with conjunctivitis; I guess I just caught whatever bug was going around this week... my doctor prescribed some povidone-iodine solution for my eye.
Quick question: is it supposed to hurt this much when you put it in? Because this is absolutely brutal. It stings like crazy, and my eye stays red and watery for about five minutes before things settle down. It doesn't really feel logical that it's supposed to be this intense... does anyone know if this is normal?
Andrew Hernandez Andrew Hernandez Member
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joined Nov 2005
#31 ·
Iodine?
I'm not sure about that. I've never heard of anyone using it.

I personally use Dexamethasone-Neomycin drops whenever I notice redness or tearing starting. I use them very sparingly, though—only when absolutely necessary.
I once had a case of conjunctivitis that I waited too long to treat, and by the time I did, the inflammation was already out of control. Now, I'm being very cautious.
It doesn't hurt at all when I use them. Any potential irritation seems to clear up quickly before it can turn into serious redness or pain.
Casey Palmer5 Casey Palmer5 Regular
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#32 ·
Just wanted to let you guys know that everything is looking good with the medications. I’m actually going to start taking them from my third or fourth dose 😁

Getting them removed was totally painless, too.
Daniel Barnes7 Daniel Barnes7 Newcomer
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#33 ·
Way to go, Casey Palmer5! 😵
Laura Green8 Laura Green8 Newcomer
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#34 ·
Andrew Hernandez said:Iodine?
I haven't really heard of people using that for this, to be honest.

Personally, I reach for some Cortisone-Neomycin eye drops whenever I notice a bit of redness or if my eyes start watering. I make sure to use them super sparingly, though—only when absolutely necessary.
I actually had a bout of conjunctivitis once where I waited too long to treat it, and by the time I did, things had spiraled out of control. Now, I'm pretty cautious about it.
The drops don't hurt at all, and they usually clear up any irritation before it can turn into that intense, painful redness.


Yeah, exactly—my doctor gave me the Cortisone-Neomycin drops, which have been fine, but she also prescribed iodine since it acts as an antiseptic. When I asked her about it, she said it was standard, even though it definitely stings 😢... I stuck to the schedule for a week, but she told me to go for another week because the symptoms aren't fading. I'm starting to get a little worried. Isn't conjunctivitis supposed to be a minor thing?

The real struggle with meds is how much you get used to them; when something like this hits, wearing glasses feels so incredibly annoying... I am seriously counting down the days until Monday so I can get back to my little sweet pills. 😛 🙂
Andrew Hernandez Andrew Hernandez Member
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#35 ·
Laura Green8 said:Yeah, my doctor gave me Cortisone-Neomycin drops too, which seems fine, but she also suggested iodine since it's an antiseptic. That's what she explained when I asked (and yeah, it definitely stings 😢 )... I followed everything strictly for a week, but now she wants me to go another week because it hasn't cleared up yet. I'm starting to get worried. Isn't conjunctivitis supposed to be a minor thing?

The trouble with being on medication is that you get so used to it, so when something like this happens, wearing glasses feels incredibly annoying... I can't wait until Monday so I can get back to my little sweet meds. 😛 🙂


It's strange to me that it hasn't cleared up for you yet either. Just stick to the treatment or ask if they can switch out the Cortisone-Neomycin for something else.

I once ended up with a nasty infection in one eye myself. I didn't start treating it for a few days because I was traveling—it ended up lasting about a week or two. My ophthalmologist prescribed some other kind of drops instead of the Cortisone-Neomycin, because that wasn't working, but I honestly can't remember the names anymore.

Maybe try asking.

And that iodine thing still sounds weird to me, but don't listen to me, I'm not a doctor.🙂
jadetinker85 jadetinker85 Regular
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#36 ·
Laura Green8 said:I have some soft contacts—the kind you wear for maybe a month or two max—and they're great. Not too pricey either. I've got six in a case, and they last about a year.
Just caught conjunctivitis. My immune system took a massive hit from being sick lately... and my doctor prescribed a povidone-iodine solution for my eye.
Question: Is it supposed to hurt this much when you drop it in? Because this feels absolutely brutal. It stings intensely, and my eye stays red and watery for about five minutes before settling down. It doesn't seem right for it to be this painful... anyone know?

Maybe call a different ophthalmologist. There might be an urgent care clinic over in Chicago.
Laura Green8 Laura Green8 Newcomer
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#37 ·
I’ll see how things look on Monday, and if there isn't any improvement by then, I might have to try some different approaches...
Honestly, I'm hoping everything turns out fine; at least from my perspective, the eye looks okay.
...And yeah, there's this whole mystery I'm going to ask her to walk me through in detail this Monday, because I'm honestly dying to know why this happened and where it all started.

p.s. jadetinker85, I don't live in the States, and besides, this woman is a highly regarded, top-tier specialist...
A Anonymous Veteran
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#38 ·
Contact lenses, honey, contact lenses!!!!!

No wiping them constantly, no fogging up the second you step into a heated room, and none of that annoying discomfort.

Lenses aren't nearly as pricey as they used to be, and I’d honestly suggest going with the semi-rigid ones—the soft ones can feel way too sensitive sometimes. Plus, you don't have to swap them out nearly as often.

For years, I actually wore hard lenses, and they were absolutely fantastic; zero issues whatsoever. I remember talking to my eye doctor once, and he straight-up told me most of this is just marketing. He said people used to wear hard lenses for years without a single complaint, but now everyone is all about "soft this" and "gentle that"... it's all just a way to get you to spend more money.

And one more thing—don't let anyone convince you that having an astigmatism means you can't wear contacts. I have severe astigmatism and a +4.00 prescription, and I wear lenses just fine! Honestly, I handle them better than all those whiners who complain about everything.

You don't *need* glasses, but it's smart to have a pair on hand. You know, just in case you lose a lens, catch an eye infection, or something else happens. It's just a backup plan... and since you won't be wearing them all the time, they don't need to be super expensive... so it's really not much of an investment.

The cleaning solutions might seem like a bit of an upfront cost, but considering you keep them for three months at a time................CONTACT LENSES CONTACT LENSES CONTACT LENSES CONTACT LENSES CONTACT LENSES CONTACT LENSES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!

By the way, I’ve been wearing them for ages. I was actually patient number two at the very first optometry clinic in the country that specialized in contacts. I think that gives me some serious street cred. 🙂
A Anonymous Veteran
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#39 ·
The biggest downside to soft contact lenses, especially those cheap disposables, is how easily they pick up infections and bacteria. They’re honestly a nightmare to keep truly clean.

Laura Green8...you really need to switch to semi-hard lenses. All that disposable crap is basically designed to be low quality. Don't gamble with your vision. You have no idea how quickly you could end up losing your sight. If you have to, just stick to glasses... seriously, don't mess around with this!
Casey Palmer5 Casey Palmer5 Regular
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#40 ·
Casey Palmer5 said:The biggest downside to soft lenses, especially disposables, is how easily they can pick up infections since they're such a pain to keep perfectly clean.

But if you're talking about daily disposables—meaning the kind where you just pop a fresh pair open and toss them at the end of the night—then the risk of infection is basically non-existent. You're starting with a sterile lens every single morning.

The real headache comes with soft lenses that you wear for weeks at a time and have to clean manually every day. Though, honestly, I don't think there's much difference between hard and soft lenses in that regard. As long as you're careful, you shouldn't have any issues...

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