Matthew Doyle13 said:Copying this question over from the LJES subforum...
I have a question regarding birth control pills. How reliable are they really? My girlfriend has been on them for 10 months now with zero issues, but we still practice withdrawal every single time. How safe is it to "finish inside"? That’s actually what we want, but there's this lingering fear...
Does anyone have first-hand experience to confirm if the pill alone provides enough protection against pregnancy? Or perhaps the opposite experience? 🙂
Technically, you shouldn't even need to bother with withdrawal when you're on the pill because they're super dependable—Google it if you want the hard data. But, plenty of things can mess with the effectiveness. Like, are they being taken at the exact same time every day? Are you taking other meds? For example, certain antibiotics can totally tank how well the pill works, etc., etc.
Speaking from experience, I’ve used the pill during regular unprotected sex and I’m still not pregnant. 😁
But again, there are cases where a woman does everything perfectly (like those examples I just mentioned) and the pill still fails her.
The pill is never 100% foolproof.
Honestly, the best move is for her to just chat with her OB-GYN about all this. And hey, if you're really losing sleep over it, you can always just use a condom as an extra layer. With that combo, you wouldn't even need to worry about withdrawal, and if she still gets pregnant after that... well, then you're looking at odds similar to getting hit by a toilet seat falling out of a plane. Fate is just playing dirty with you then. 😛 🙂