jaderaven7 said:I live in the "big world," and reading your post makes me want to list a dozen examples of how senseless human existence has become. We rush through life without any real stimulation because we've been numbed by a constant bombardment of nonsense, losing almost everything that actually makes us human. And then, after spending a fortune on research, we "discover" that socializing is good, that kids need both a mom and a dad, that having grandparents around isn't a bad thing, that helping aging parents is important, or that helping a neighbor in need is just normal behavior...
We celebrate high mobility, workforce adaptability, speed, and efficiency. People sprint from job to job just to secure a future for their kids, and in that race, they forget to spend time with the very people they are running for. In this scramble, anything goes—there are no fouls, only those who are faster and craftier. Because the social component is totally missing, we're raising generations that lack the ability to form real friendships or romantic bonds—they're emotionally handicapped, which leads directly to things like mass school shootings happening "out of nowhere." We're raising generations of ignoramuses because they're getting their "knowledge" and social skills from social media feeds.
Exactly... you wrote that post in a burst of emotion, and that’s exactly how it hit me. 👍
A few days ago, I was talking to this guy—super educated, really bright—who ended up homeless after his perfectly fine life just fell apart... it was a heavy situation, a total family tragedy.
He’s living out of a beat-up car on the outskirts of town, near some orchards and vacation homes. He gets help from neighbors, but he’s actually the one helping others—fixing things, mowing lawns, trimming trees. He’s incredibly grateful for every little thing, even just a quick chat.
He told me over and over: hold onto your family, that’s the main thing, everything else is temporary... don't you dare take them for granted.
Get the kids off their phones and away from social media... just be present with them and get outdoors with friends. This guy was literally finding designer clothes and shoes in the trash... man, there are so many people out there who just don't know what they have until it's gone.
Really makes you think...