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wearyowl29 wearyowl29 RegularOP
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joined Feb 2014
#1 ·
I was just reading this fascinating piece about how certain organized groups are trying to make a comeback, and honestly, it really got me thinking about the way social dynamics shift in America. It’s wild, isn't it? You see these movements gather steam, seemingly out of nowhere, only to realize they’ve been simmering under the surface for years. It reminds me of a little situation I ran into back in Chicago a few summers ago. I was sitting in this tiny little coffee shop—the kind where the barista knows your name but still forgets your oat milk—and I overheard two guys debating exactly this kind of thing. They were talking about how influence isn't just about who has the loudest voice, but who can maintain a consistent presence. And that’s exactly what we’re seeing here! These groups aren't just popping up; they are strategically rebuilding their foundations. There’s a certain rhythm to it, a predictable ebb and flow that feels almost inevitable. It’s like watching a tide come back in. You expect it, you prepare for it, and then—bam!—it's right there at your doorstep. It makes you wonder what the next big shift will be. Is it political? Social? Economic? Who knows! But staying observant is half the battle, right? I, for one, am keeping my eyes peeled. Life is much more interesting when you're paying attention to the underlying currents!

Iz navedenog teksta:

Finally! That massive weight is off my shoulders. For four long, grueling months, I’ve been dealing with that one page constantly breathing down my neck and trying to suppress everything we stand for. Well, the fight is over—American Atheists has been wiped right off of Facebook. It's such a relief! Evil. Just pure evil. It’s one of those heavy things that sticks in your mind, isn't it? I was sitting on my porch yesterday, just watching the neighborhood dogs chase their tails, and I started thinking about how much darkness we deal with sometimes. It’s everywhere if you look too closely! But hey, stay positive! We can't let the bad stuff dim our light, right? Keep your chin up! My page! It’s finally live! I am just absolutely buzzing about this. Honestly, it feels like such a milestone. You know those moments where you just sit back, grab a coffee, and realize something is actually happening? That's me right now. I've been tinkering away at this for ages, and seeing it all come together is just wonderful. I can't wait to share more with you all! Emotional. Truly. It’s one of those things that just hits you right in the gut, isn't it? I was sitting there with my coffee this morning—the good stuff from Starbucks, obviously—just thinking about how much weight we carry around. Sometimes you just have to let it out! It’s all part of being human. She was being insulting. Just straight-up disrespectful!"One of the users who reported the page wrote this," said one of the folks who flagged the account.

I’ve honestly never quite wrapped my head around it. It’s always baffled me—especially when talking about people who lean so heavily on their faith for every bit of emotional, spiritual, or moral support they have. You’d think that having such a massive, unshakable foundation would make them bulletproof, right? But instead, I see them getting deeply wounded by things that shouldn't even touch them. It just doesn't add up to me!

People can throw just about anything at us! The whole political establishment. It always feels like this, doesn't it? No matter who wins at the ballot box, there’s this recurring pattern that just seems to wound our national spirit right after the dust settles on an election. It’s like we go through these cycles where the very idea of our civic duty starts feeling a bit bruised. I was chatting with a buddy over coffee in Chicago the other day about how much tension there is lately, and it really got me thinking about how fragile that sense of unity can feel sometimes. It’s a bit disheartening, honestly! Human stupidity. Honestly, sometimes I just sit back and marvel at it! It’s truly something else, isn't it? I was grabbing a coffee downtown the other day—just a quick espresso at Starbucks, nothing fancy—and I witnessed something so bafflingly senseless that I nearly choked on my drink. You see people making the same ridiculous mistakes over and over again, thinking they've found some brilliant shortcut, only to trip over their own feet. It’s constant! It’s relentless! It really makes you wonder how we ever managed to build civilization in the first place. Just a little thought for your Tuesday! In every single way imaginable, it’s just endless—just like the universe itself! My own choice. Honestly, looking back at life, we really have no one to blame but ourselves. We tripped over our own feet, learned the hard way, and now? Now we’re just sitting here absolutely fuming at our own stupidity! It’s a classic case of self-inflicted wounds, isn't it? But hey, at least the lesson stuck!

Nah, if we’re talking about being right here at home in the States...😁 Honestly, there’s just nothing like that feeling of being in your own home. It’s my absolute sanctuary! When I'm tucked away in my own space, I feel completely unshakable. I mean, it's like nothing can get under my skin or mess with my head emotionally. We’ve got this inner strength, you know? Once you find that peace within your own four walls, you become pretty much bulletproof. Nothing can touch you!
To wander off the beaten path.

Look, I truly believe this: other people’s opinions, their stances, their choices, or even how they identify can’t touch you emotionally if you’re genuinely at peace with yourself. If you’ve done the work and you're totally aligned with who you actually are, then what someone else thinks just becomes background noise. It's like being caught in a rainstorm while wearing a perfectly waterproof raincoat—you see the water, but you don't get soaked! When you're solid in your own skin, those outside judgments just slide right off. Simple as that!

Where do you all think it comes from? I mean, personally, I find it totally irrational—this sudden, nasty urge to lash out emotionally just because someone holds a different opinion. It’s like this weird, unnecessary sting that shows up exactly where it shouldn't. Why does it happen?😲
Joseph Bailey41 Joseph Bailey41 Veteran
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joined Apr 2021
#2 ·
I’ve got a feeling this was cooked up by American millennials... you know, that pampered crowd that acts like they're going through a massive emotional crisis just because you pointed out their shirt is untucked. 😬
David Vaughn75 David Vaughn75 Regular
626 messages
joined Sep 2015
#3 ·
Look, here in America—and honestly, with capitalism in general—they basically drill it into your head from day one that the world is a complete dumpster fire, that everyone is out to get you, and that the only person you can actually count on is yourself. It’s this relentless "every man for himself" mentality. And because of that, you see these kids growing up with this hyper-combative worldview, carrying it into everything they do just as a way to cope with their own deep-seated insecurities.
Anthony Perez9 Anthony Perez9 Regular
311 messages
joined Apr 2019
#4 ·
wearyowl29 said:I was just reading this fascinating piece about how certain organized groups are trying to make a comeback, and honestly, it really got me thinking about the way social dynamics shift in America. It’s wild, isn't it? You see these movements gather steam, seemingly out of nowhere, only to realize they’ve been simmering under the surface for years. It reminds me of a little situation I ran into back in Chicago a few summers ago. I was sitting in this tiny little coffee shop—the kind where the barista knows your name but still forgets your oat milk—and I overheard two guys debating exactly this kind of thing. They were talking about how influence isn't just about who has the loudest voice, but who can maintain a consistent presence. And that’s exactly what we’re seeing here! These groups aren't just popping up; they are strategically rebuilding their foundations. There’s a certain rhythm to it, a predictable ebb and flow that feels almost inevitable. It’s like watching a tide come back in. You expect it, you prepare for it, and then—bam!—it's right there at your doorstep. It makes you wonder what the next big shift will be. Is it political? Social? Economic? Who knows! But staying observant is half the battle, right? I, for one, am keeping my eyes peeled. Life is much more interesting when you're paying attention to the underlying currents!

Iz navedenog teksta:

Finally! That massive weight is off my shoulders. For four long, grueling months, I’ve been dealing with that one page constantly breathing down my neck and trying to suppress everything we stand for. Well, the fight is over—American Atheists has been wiped right off of Facebook. It's such a relief! Evil. Just pure evil. It’s one of those heavy things that sticks in your mind, isn't it? I was sitting on my porch yesterday, just watching the neighborhood dogs chase their tails, and I started thinking about how much darkness we deal with sometimes. It’s everywhere if you look too closely! But hey, stay positive! We can't let the bad stuff dim our light, right? Keep your chin up! My page! It’s finally live! I am just absolutely buzzing about this. Honestly, it feels like such a milestone. You know those moments where you just sit back, grab a coffee, and realize something is actually happening? That's me right now. I've been tinkering away at this for ages, and seeing it all come together is just wonderful. I can't wait to share more with you all! Emotional. Truly. It’s one of those things that just hits you right in the gut, isn't it? I was sitting there with my coffee this morning—the good stuff from Starbucks, obviously—just thinking about how much weight we carry around. Sometimes you just have to let it out! It’s all part of being human. She was being insulting. Just straight-up disrespectful!"One of the users who reported the page wrote this," said one of the folks who flagged the account.

I’ve honestly never quite wrapped my head around it. It’s always baffled me—especially when talking about people who lean so heavily on their faith for every bit of emotional, spiritual, or moral support they have. You’d think that having such a massive, unshakable foundation would make them bulletproof, right? But instead, I see them getting deeply wounded by things that shouldn't even touch them. It just doesn't add up to me!

People can throw just about anything at us! The whole political establishment. It always feels like this, doesn't it? No matter who wins at the ballot box, there’s this recurring pattern that just seems to wound our national spirit right after the dust settles on an election. It’s like we go through these cycles where the very idea of our civic duty starts feeling a bit bruised. I was chatting with a buddy over coffee in Chicago the other day about how much tension there is lately, and it really got me thinking about how fragile that sense of unity can feel sometimes. It’s a bit disheartening, honestly! Human stupidity. Honestly, sometimes I just sit back and marvel at it! It’s truly something else, isn't it? I was grabbing a coffee downtown the other day—just a quick espresso at Starbucks, nothing fancy—and I witnessed something so bafflingly senseless that I nearly choked on my drink. You see people making the same ridiculous mistakes over and over again, thinking they've found some brilliant shortcut, only to trip over their own feet. It’s constant! It’s relentless! It really makes you wonder how we ever managed to build civilization in the first place. Just a little thought for your Tuesday! In every single way imaginable, it’s just endless—just like the universe itself! My own choice. Honestly, looking back at life, we really have no one to blame but ourselves. We tripped over our own feet, learned the hard way, and now? Now we’re just sitting here absolutely fuming at our own stupidity! It’s a classic case of self-inflicted wounds, isn't it? But hey, at least the lesson stuck!

Nah, if we’re talking about being right here at home in the States...😁 Honestly, there’s just nothing like that feeling of being in your own home. It’s my absolute sanctuary! When I'm tucked away in my own space, I feel completely unshakable. I mean, it's like nothing can get under my skin or mess with my head emotionally. We’ve got this inner strength, you know? Once you find that peace within your own four walls, you become pretty much bulletproof. Nothing can touch you!
To wander off the beaten path.

Look, I truly believe this: other people’s opinions, their stances, their choices, or even how they identify can’t touch you emotionally if you’re genuinely at peace with yourself. If you’ve done the work and you're totally aligned with who you actually are, then what someone else thinks just becomes background noise. It's like being caught in a rainstorm while wearing a perfectly waterproof raincoat—you see the water, but you don't get soaked! When you're solid in your own skin, those outside judgments just slide right off. Simple as that!

Where do you all think it comes from? I mean, personally, I find it totally irrational—this sudden, nasty urge to lash out emotionally just because someone holds a different opinion. It’s like this weird, unnecessary sting that shows up exactly where it shouldn't. Why does it happen?😲

I’ve never quite wrapped my head around how people who lean so heavily on faith for their mental and spiritual stability can still get so easily wounded emotionally.

Where do you guys think that irrational urge to get all emotionally wounded just because someone disagrees with you actually comes from? It feels like such a toxic giveaway.😲
It’s all just part of the mechanism. Identifying your entire ego with some random ideology. What a joke. It’s a cluster of ideas, really. You start feeling like the ideology is actually you—part of your DNA—so when someone calls out your position, you take it as a personal hit. You snap back to defend yourself, but you're really just defending a bubble of thoughts that your ego decided to latch onto.

Why would an atheist's attitude and their critique of a massive set of ideas even bother someone who believes?
If faith is enough on its own, there’s really nothing left to defend.
Even a believer will feel bad for an atheist—not just because they're headed straight for Jesus's hell, but because they're missing out on all the good stuff that faith brings to a believer's life.

Why do believers lose their minds the second you poke fun at Jesus, God, the Bible, the Quran, Krishna, some guru, or Muhammad?

People really love tying their whole identity to an ideology—it’s all about the aesthetic and the ego, none of it actually being about what they believe.
Joseph Bailey41 Joseph Bailey41 Veteran
1K messages
joined Apr 2021
#5 ·
Anthony Perez9 said:I’ve never quite wrapped my head around how people who lean so heavily on faith for their mental and spiritual stability can still get so easily wounded emotionally.

Where do you guys think that irrational urge to get all emotionally wounded just because someone disagrees with you actually comes from? It feels like such a toxic giveaway.😲

It’s all just part of the mechanism. Identifying your entire ego with some random ideology. What a joke. It’s a cluster of ideas, really. You start feeling like the ideology is actually you—part of your DNA—so when someone calls out your position, you take it as a personal hit. You snap back to defend yourself, but you're really just defending a bubble of thoughts that your ego decided to latch onto.

Why would an atheist's attitude and their critique of a massive set of ideas even bother someone who believes?
If faith is enough on its own, there’s really nothing left to defend.
Even a believer will feel bad for an atheist—not just because they're headed straight for Jesus's hell, but because they're missing out on all the good stuff that faith brings to a believer's life.

Why do believers lose their minds the second you poke fun at Jesus, God, the Bible, the Quran, Krishna, some guru, or Muhammad?

People really love tying their whole identity to an ideology—it’s all about the aesthetic and the ego, none of it actually being about what they believe.
It’s all just part of the mechanism. Identifying your entire ego with some random ideology. What a joke. It’s a cluster of ideas, really. You start feeling like the ideology is actually you—part of your DNA—so when someone calls out your position, you take it as a personal hit. You snap back to defend yourself, but you're really just defending a bubble of thoughts that your ego decided to latch onto.

Why would an atheist's attitude and their critique of a massive set of ideas even bother someone who believes?
If faith is enough on its own, there’s really nothing left to defend.
Even a believer will feel bad for an atheist—not just because they're headed straight for Jesus's hell, but because they're missing out on all the good stuff that faith brings to a believer's life.

Why do believers lose their minds the second you poke fun at Jesus, God, the Bible, the Quran, Krishna, some guru, or Muhammad?

People really love tying their whole identity to an ideology—it’s all about the aesthetic and the ego, none of it actually being about what they believe.
It’s all just part of the mechanism. Identifying your entire ego with some random ideology. What a joke. It’s a cluster of ideas, really. You start feeling like the ideology is actually you—part of your DNA—so when someone calls out your position, you take it as a personal hit. You snap back to defend yourself, but you're really just defending a bubble of thoughts that your ego decided to latch onto.

Why would an atheist's attitude and their critique of a massive set of ideas even bother someone who believes?
If faith is enough on its own, there’s really nothing left to defend.
Even a believer will feel bad for an atheist—not just because they're headed straight for Jesus's hell, but because they're missing out on all the good stuff that faith brings to a believer's life.

Why do believers lose their minds the second you poke fun at Jesus, God, the Bible, the Quran, Krishna, some guru, or Muhammad?

People really love tying their whole identity to an ideology—it’s all about the aesthetic and the ego, none of it actually being about what they believe.
Man, that’s heavy. 😲

I honestly can't imagine what someone has to go through to end up in that kind of headspace. 😢
David Vaughn75 David Vaughn75 Regular
626 messages
joined Sep 2015
#6 ·
Joseph Bailey41 said:It’s all just part of the mechanism. Identifying your entire ego with some random ideology. What a joke. It’s a cluster of ideas, really. You start feeling like the ideology is actually you—part of your DNA—so when someone calls out your position, you take it as a personal hit. You snap back to defend yourself, but you're really just defending a bubble of thoughts that your ego decided to latch onto.

Why would an atheist's attitude and their critique of a massive set of ideas even bother someone who believes?
If faith is enough on its own, there’s really nothing left to defend.
Even a believer will feel bad for an atheist—not just because they're headed straight for Jesus's hell, but because they're missing out on all the good stuff that faith brings to a believer's life.

Why do believers lose their minds the second you poke fun at Jesus, God, the Bible, the Quran, Krishna, some guru, or Muhammad?

People really love tying their whole identity to an ideology—it’s all about the aesthetic and the ego, none of it actually being about what they believe.

It’s all just part of the mechanism. Identifying your entire ego with some random ideology. What a joke. It’s a cluster of ideas, really. You start feeling like the ideology is actually you—part of your DNA—so when someone calls out your position, you take it as a personal hit. You snap back to defend yourself, but you're really just defending a bubble of thoughts that your ego decided to latch onto.

Why would an atheist's attitude and their critique of a massive set of ideas even bother someone who believes?
If faith is enough on its own, there’s really nothing left to defend.
Even a believer will feel bad for an atheist—not just because they're headed straight for Jesus's hell, but because they're missing out on all the good stuff that faith brings to a believer's life.

Why do believers lose their minds the second you poke fun at Jesus, God, the Bible, the Quran, Krishna, some guru, or Muhammad?

People really love tying their whole identity to an ideology—it’s all about the aesthetic and the ego, none of it actually being about what they believe.
Man, that’s heavy. 😲

I honestly can't imagine what someone has to go through to end up in that kind of headspace. 😢
Man, that’s heavy. 😲

I honestly can't imagine what someone has to go through to end up in that kind of headspace. 😢
Being stuck in neutral is actually the worst part. ☕
Tyler Mitchell60 Tyler Mitchell60 Newcomer
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#7 ·
Anthony Perez9 said:I’ve never quite wrapped my head around how people who lean so heavily on faith for their mental and spiritual stability can still get so easily wounded emotionally.

Where do you guys think that irrational urge to get all emotionally wounded just because someone disagrees with you actually comes from? It feels like such a toxic giveaway.😲

It’s all just part of the mechanism. Identifying your entire ego with some random ideology. What a joke. It’s a cluster of ideas, really. You start feeling like the ideology is actually you—part of your DNA—so when someone calls out your position, you take it as a personal hit. You snap back to defend yourself, but you're really just defending a bubble of thoughts that your ego decided to latch onto.

Why would an atheist's attitude and their critique of a massive set of ideas even bother someone who believes?
If faith is enough on its own, there’s really nothing left to defend.
Even a believer will feel bad for an atheist—not just because they're headed straight for Jesus's hell, but because they're missing out on all the good stuff that faith brings to a believer's life.

Why do believers lose their minds the second you poke fun at Jesus, God, the Bible, the Quran, Krishna, some guru, or Muhammad?

People really love tying their whole identity to an ideology—it’s all about the aesthetic and the ego, none of it actually being about what they believe.
It’s all just part of the mechanism. Identifying your entire ego with some random ideology. What a joke. It’s a cluster of ideas, really. You start feeling like the ideology is actually you—part of your DNA—so when someone calls out your position, you take it as a personal hit. You snap back to defend yourself, but you're really just defending a bubble of thoughts that your ego decided to latch onto.

Why would an atheist's attitude and their critique of a massive set of ideas even bother someone who believes?
If faith is enough on its own, there’s really nothing left to defend.
Even a believer will feel bad for an atheist—not just because they're headed straight for Jesus's hell, but because they're missing out on all the good stuff that faith brings to a believer's life.

Why do believers lose their minds the second you poke fun at Jesus, God, the Bible, the Quran, Krishna, some guru, or Muhammad?

People really love tying their whole identity to an ideology—it’s all about the aesthetic and the ego, none of it actually being about what they believe.
It’s all just part of the mechanism. Identifying your entire ego with some random ideology. What a joke. It’s a cluster of ideas, really. You start feeling like the ideology is actually you—part of your DNA—so when someone calls out your position, you take it as a personal hit. You snap back to defend yourself, but you're really just defending a bubble of thoughts that your ego decided to latch onto.

Why would an atheist's attitude and their critique of a massive set of ideas even bother someone who believes?
If faith is enough on its own, there’s really nothing left to defend.
Even a believer will feel bad for an atheist—not just because they're headed straight for Jesus's hell, but because they're missing out on all the good stuff that faith brings to a believer's life.

Why do believers lose their minds the second you poke fun at Jesus, God, the Bible, the Quran, Krishna, some guru, or Muhammad?

People really love tying their whole identity to an ideology—it’s all about the aesthetic and the ego, none of it actually being about what they believe.
The only way a believer can actually "defend" their faith—meaning their underlying philosophical stance—is through the way they live their life.

Anthony Perez9 said:I’ve never quite wrapped my head around how people who lean so heavily on faith for their mental and spiritual stability can still get so easily wounded emotionally.

Where do you guys think that irrational urge to get all emotionally wounded just because someone disagrees with you actually comes from? It feels like such a toxic giveaway.😲

It’s all just part of the mechanism. Identifying your entire ego with some random ideology. What a joke. It’s a cluster of ideas, really. You start feeling like the ideology is actually you—part of your DNA—so when someone calls out your position, you take it as a personal hit. You snap back to defend yourself, but you're really just defending a bubble of thoughts that your ego decided to latch onto.

Why would an atheist's attitude and their critique of a massive set of ideas even bother someone who believes?
If faith is enough on its own, there’s really nothing left to defend.
Even a believer will feel bad for an atheist—not just because they're headed straight for Jesus's hell, but because they're missing out on all the good stuff that faith brings to a believer's life.

Why do believers lose their minds the second you poke fun at Jesus, God, the Bible, the Quran, Krishna, some guru, or Muhammad?

People really love tying their whole identity to an ideology—it’s all about the aesthetic and the ego, none of it actually being about what they believe.
It’s all just part of the mechanism. Identifying your entire ego with some random ideology. What a joke. It’s a cluster of ideas, really. You start feeling like the ideology is actually you—part of your DNA—so when someone calls out your position, you take it as a personal hit. You snap back to defend yourself, but you're really just defending a bubble of thoughts that your ego decided to latch onto.

Why would an atheist's attitude and their critique of a massive set of ideas even bother someone who believes?
If faith is enough on its own, there’s really nothing left to defend.
Even a believer will feel bad for an atheist—not just because they're headed straight for Jesus's hell, but because they're missing out on all the good stuff that faith brings to a believer's life.

Why do believers lose their minds the second you poke fun at Jesus, God, the Bible, the Quran, Krishna, some guru, or Muhammad?

People really love tying their whole identity to an ideology—it’s all about the aesthetic and the ego, none of it actually being about what they believe.
It’s all just part of the mechanism. Identifying your entire ego with some random ideology. What a joke. It’s a cluster of ideas, really. You start feeling like the ideology is actually you—part of your DNA—so when someone calls out your position, you take it as a personal hit. You snap back to defend yourself, but you're really just defending a bubble of thoughts that your ego decided to latch onto.

Why would an atheist's attitude and their critique of a massive set of ideas even bother someone who believes?
If faith is enough on its own, there’s really nothing left to defend.
Even a believer will feel bad for an atheist—not just because they're headed straight for Jesus's hell, but because they're missing out on all the good stuff that faith brings to a believer's life.

Why do believers lose their minds the second you poke fun at Jesus, God, the Bible, the Quran, Krishna, some guru, or Muhammad?

People really love tying their whole identity to an ideology—it’s all about the aesthetic and the ego, none of it actually being about what they believe.
We all have free will and the power to choose. Every "atheist" has the opportunity to learn about Christ and make a decision based on that knowledge. There is no such thing as a "hell," you're getting way too caught up in that concept.

Anthony Perez9 said:I’ve never quite wrapped my head around how people who lean so heavily on faith for their mental and spiritual stability can still get so easily wounded emotionally.

Where do you guys think that irrational urge to get all emotionally wounded just because someone disagrees with you actually comes from? It feels like such a toxic giveaway.😲

It’s all just part of the mechanism. Identifying your entire ego with some random ideology. What a joke. It’s a cluster of ideas, really. You start feeling like the ideology is actually you—part of your DNA—so when someone calls out your position, you take it as a personal hit. You snap back to defend yourself, but you're really just defending a bubble of thoughts that your ego decided to latch onto.

Why would an atheist's attitude and their critique of a massive set of ideas even bother someone who believes?
If faith is enough on its own, there’s really nothing left to defend.
Even a believer will feel bad for an atheist—not just because they're headed straight for Jesus's hell, but because they're missing out on all the good stuff that faith brings to a believer's life.

Why do believers lose their minds the second you poke fun at Jesus, God, the Bible, the Quran, Krishna, some guru, or Muhammad?

People really love tying their whole identity to an ideology—it’s all about the aesthetic and the ego, none of it actually being about what they believe.
It’s all just part of the mechanism. Identifying your entire ego with some random ideology. What a joke. It’s a cluster of ideas, really. You start feeling like the ideology is actually you—part of your DNA—so when someone calls out your position, you take it as a personal hit. You snap back to defend yourself, but you're really just defending a bubble of thoughts that your ego decided to latch onto.

Why would an atheist's attitude and their critique of a massive set of ideas even bother someone who believes?
If faith is enough on its own, there’s really nothing left to defend.
Even a believer will feel bad for an atheist—not just because they're headed straight for Jesus's hell, but because they're missing out on all the good stuff that faith brings to a believer's life.

Why do believers lose their minds the second you poke fun at Jesus, God, the Bible, the Quran, Krishna, some guru, or Muhammad?

People really love tying their whole identity to an ideology—it’s all about the aesthetic and the ego, none of it actually being about what they believe.
It’s all just part of the mechanism. Identifying your entire ego with some random ideology. What a joke. It’s a cluster of ideas, really. You start feeling like the ideology is actually you—part of your DNA—so when someone calls out your position, you take it as a personal hit. You snap back to defend yourself, but you're really just defending a bubble of thoughts that your ego decided to latch onto.

Why would an atheist's attitude and their critique of a massive set of ideas even bother someone who believes?
If faith is enough on its own, there’s really nothing left to defend.
Even a believer will feel bad for an atheist—not just because they're headed straight for Jesus's hell, but because they're missing out on all the good stuff that faith brings to a believer's life.

Why do believers lose their minds the second you poke fun at Jesus, God, the Bible, the Quran, Krishna, some guru, or Muhammad?

People really love tying their whole identity to an ideology—it’s all about the aesthetic and the ego, none of it actually being about what they believe.
When someone insults your parents, don't you get angry?
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wearyowl29 wearyowl29 RegularOP
715 messages
joined Feb 2014
#8 ·
David Vaughn75 said:Man, that’s heavy. 😲

I honestly can't imagine what someone has to go through to end up in that kind of headspace. 😢

Being stuck in neutral is actually the worst part. ☕
True, but where do we draw the line on making everything about ourselves? It feels like people take things so personally, acting like their own discomfort is an unbearable tragedy just because they want to ban something that doesn't suit their preferences.
wearyowl29 wearyowl29 RegularOP
715 messages
joined Feb 2014
#9 ·
Tyler Mitchell60 said:It’s all just part of the mechanism. Identifying your entire ego with some random ideology. What a joke. It’s a cluster of ideas, really. You start feeling like the ideology is actually you—part of your DNA—so when someone calls out your position, you take it as a personal hit. You snap back to defend yourself, but you're really just defending a bubble of thoughts that your ego decided to latch onto.

Why would an atheist's attitude and their critique of a massive set of ideas even bother someone who believes?
If faith is enough on its own, there’s really nothing left to defend.
Even a believer will feel bad for an atheist—not just because they're headed straight for Jesus's hell, but because they're missing out on all the good stuff that faith brings to a believer's life.

Why do believers lose their minds the second you poke fun at Jesus, God, the Bible, the Quran, Krishna, some guru, or Muhammad?

People really love tying their whole identity to an ideology—it’s all about the aesthetic and the ego, none of it actually being about what they believe.

It’s all just part of the mechanism. Identifying your entire ego with some random ideology. What a joke. It’s a cluster of ideas, really. You start feeling like the ideology is actually you—part of your DNA—so when someone calls out your position, you take it as a personal hit. You snap back to defend yourself, but you're really just defending a bubble of thoughts that your ego decided to latch onto.

Why would an atheist's attitude and their critique of a massive set of ideas even bother someone who believes?
If faith is enough on its own, there’s really nothing left to defend.
Even a believer will feel bad for an atheist—not just because they're headed straight for Jesus's hell, but because they're missing out on all the good stuff that faith brings to a believer's life.

Why do believers lose their minds the second you poke fun at Jesus, God, the Bible, the Quran, Krishna, some guru, or Muhammad?

People really love tying their whole identity to an ideology—it’s all about the aesthetic and the ego, none of it actually being about what they believe.
The only way a believer can actually "defend" their faith—meaning their underlying philosophical stance—is through the way they live their life.

It’s all just part of the mechanism. Identifying your entire ego with some random ideology. What a joke. It’s a cluster of ideas, really. You start feeling like the ideology is actually you—part of your DNA—so when someone calls out your position, you take it as a personal hit. You snap back to defend yourself, but you're really just defending a bubble of thoughts that your ego decided to latch onto.

Why would an atheist's attitude and their critique of a massive set of ideas even bother someone who believes?
If faith is enough on its own, there’s really nothing left to defend.
Even a believer will feel bad for an atheist—not just because they're headed straight for Jesus's hell, but because they're missing out on all the good stuff that faith brings to a believer's life.

Why do believers lose their minds the second you poke fun at Jesus, God, the Bible, the Quran, Krishna, some guru, or Muhammad?

People really love tying their whole identity to an ideology—it’s all about the aesthetic and the ego, none of it actually being about what they believe.
It’s all just part of the mechanism. Identifying your entire ego with some random ideology. What a joke. It’s a cluster of ideas, really. You start feeling like the ideology is actually you—part of your DNA—so when someone calls out your position, you take it as a personal hit. You snap back to defend yourself, but you're really just defending a bubble of thoughts that your ego decided to latch onto.

Why would an atheist's attitude and their critique of a massive set of ideas even bother someone who believes?
If faith is enough on its own, there’s really nothing left to defend.
Even a believer will feel bad for an atheist—not just because they're headed straight for Jesus's hell, but because they're missing out on all the good stuff that faith brings to a believer's life.

Why do believers lose their minds the second you poke fun at Jesus, God, the Bible, the Quran, Krishna, some guru, or Muhammad?

People really love tying their whole identity to an ideology—it’s all about the aesthetic and the ego, none of it actually being about what they believe.
We all have free will and the power to choose. Every "atheist" has the opportunity to learn about Christ and make a decision based on that knowledge. There is no such thing as a "hell," you're getting way too caught up in that concept.

It’s all just part of the mechanism. Identifying your entire ego with some random ideology. What a joke. It’s a cluster of ideas, really. You start feeling like the ideology is actually you—part of your DNA—so when someone calls out your position, you take it as a personal hit. You snap back to defend yourself, but you're really just defending a bubble of thoughts that your ego decided to latch onto.

Why would an atheist's attitude and their critique of a massive set of ideas even bother someone who believes?
If faith is enough on its own, there’s really nothing left to defend.
Even a believer will feel bad for an atheist—not just because they're headed straight for Jesus's hell, but because they're missing out on all the good stuff that faith brings to a believer's life.

Why do believers lose their minds the second you poke fun at Jesus, God, the Bible, the Quran, Krishna, some guru, or Muhammad?

People really love tying their whole identity to an ideology—it’s all about the aesthetic and the ego, none of it actually being about what they believe.
It’s all just part of the mechanism. Identifying your entire ego with some random ideology. What a joke. It’s a cluster of ideas, really. You start feeling like the ideology is actually you—part of your DNA—so when someone calls out your position, you take it as a personal hit. You snap back to defend yourself, but you're really just defending a bubble of thoughts that your ego decided to latch onto.

Why would an atheist's attitude and their critique of a massive set of ideas even bother someone who believes?
If faith is enough on its own, there’s really nothing left to defend.
Even a believer will feel bad for an atheist—not just because they're headed straight for Jesus's hell, but because they're missing out on all the good stuff that faith brings to a believer's life.

Why do believers lose their minds the second you poke fun at Jesus, God, the Bible, the Quran, Krishna, some guru, or Muhammad?

People really love tying their whole identity to an ideology—it’s all about the aesthetic and the ego, none of it actually being about what they believe.
When someone insults your parents, don't you get angry?
☕
The only way a believer can actually "defend" their faith—meaning their underlying philosophical stance—is through the way they live their life.

It’s all just part of the mechanism. Identifying your entire ego with some random ideology. What a joke. It’s a cluster of ideas, really. You start feeling like the ideology is actually you—part of your DNA—so when someone calls out your position, you take it as a personal hit. You snap back to defend yourself, but you're really just defending a bubble of thoughts that your ego decided to latch onto.

Why would an atheist's attitude and their critique of a massive set of ideas even bother someone who believes?
If faith is enough on its own, there’s really nothing left to defend.
Even a believer will feel bad for an atheist—not just because they're headed straight for Jesus's hell, but because they're missing out on all the good stuff that faith brings to a believer's life.

Why do believers lose their minds the second you poke fun at Jesus, God, the Bible, the Quran, Krishna, some guru, or Muhammad?

People really love tying their whole identity to an ideology—it’s all about the aesthetic and the ego, none of it actually being about what they believe.
We all have free will and the power to choose. Every "atheist" has the opportunity to learn about Christ and make a decision based on that knowledge. There is no such thing as a "hell," you're getting way too caught up in that concept.

It’s all just part of the mechanism. Identifying your entire ego with some random ideology. What a joke. It’s a cluster of ideas, really. You start feeling like the ideology is actually you—part of your DNA—so when someone calls out your position, you take it as a personal hit. You snap back to defend yourself, but you're really just defending a bubble of thoughts that your ego decided to latch onto.

Why would an atheist's attitude and their critique of a massive set of ideas even bother someone who believes?
If faith is enough on its own, there’s really nothing left to defend.
Even a believer will feel bad for an atheist—not just because they're headed straight for Jesus's hell, but because they're missing out on all the good stuff that faith brings to a believer's life.

Why do believers lose their minds the second you poke fun at Jesus, God, the Bible, the Quran, Krishna, some guru, or Muhammad?

People really love tying their whole identity to an ideology—it’s all about the aesthetic and the ego, none of it actually being about what they believe.
When someone insults your parents, don't you get angry?
☕
Parents...🙏😁😉

It all makes sense now! This whole thing perfectly explains how some people just refuse to grow up because they can't separate their own immature ideas from their family identity. They cling to it!

Honestly, hearing stuff like "My dad is way more important than yours" has ruined so many lives.
Amy Barrett2 Amy Barrett2 Newcomer
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#10 ·
From what I've seen, this all stems from low self-esteem. If anyone disagrees, they tend to take it personally—like a direct hit to their character—and then you see one of two reactions: either they get aggressive and go on the defensive, or they just shut down emotionally and feel rejected.
wearyowl29 wearyowl29 RegularOP
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#11 ·
Amy Barrett2 said:From what I've seen, this all stems from low self-esteem. If anyone disagrees, they tend to take it personally—like a direct hit to their character—and then you see one of two reactions: either they get aggressive and go on the defensive, or they just shut down emotionally and feel rejected.

Oh, absolutely. There is a massive demon lurking right inside that insecurity.😉>
Morgan Rodriguez57 Morgan Rodriguez57 Active Member
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#12 ·
It honestly feels like there’s this massive epidemic of emotional fragility sweeping through the States lately—it’s everywhere, really... you see all these new terms popping up constantly, things like "safe spaces" and people being "triggered" and whatnot.

It’s just these hyper-sensitive types from the West Coast who seem to break down the second they actually have to deal with the real world. 😍
wearyowl29 wearyowl29 RegularOP
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#13 ·
Left, right, straight ahead—it honestly doesn't matter. Immature people just can't handle it when someone holds up a mirror to their own weaknesses.
Morgan Rodriguez57 Morgan Rodriguez57 Active Member
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#14 ·
wearyowl29 said:Left, right, straight ahead—it honestly doesn't matter. Immature people just can't handle it when someone holds up a mirror to their own weaknesses.

Nowadays, that’s basically just a hallmark of being left-wing...
wearyowl29 wearyowl29 RegularOP
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#15 ·
Morgan Rodriguez57 said:Nowadays, that’s basically just a hallmark of being left-wing...

Honestly, I think conservatives are basically immune to that kind of logic naturally.🤣
Lisa Jackson7 Lisa Jackson7 Regular
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#16 ·
wearyowl29 said:I was just reading this fascinating piece about how certain organized groups are trying to make a comeback, and honestly, it really got me thinking about the way social dynamics shift in America. It’s wild, isn't it? You see these movements gather steam, seemingly out of nowhere, only to realize they’ve been simmering under the surface for years. It reminds me of a little situation I ran into back in Chicago a few summers ago. I was sitting in this tiny little coffee shop—the kind where the barista knows your name but still forgets your oat milk—and I overheard two guys debating exactly this kind of thing. They were talking about how influence isn't just about who has the loudest voice, but who can maintain a consistent presence. And that’s exactly what we’re seeing here! These groups aren't just popping up; they are strategically rebuilding their foundations. There’s a certain rhythm to it, a predictable ebb and flow that feels almost inevitable. It’s like watching a tide come back in. You expect it, you prepare for it, and then—bam!—it's right there at your doorstep. It makes you wonder what the next big shift will be. Is it political? Social? Economic? Who knows! But staying observant is half the battle, right? I, for one, am keeping my eyes peeled. Life is much more interesting when you're paying attention to the underlying currents!

Iz navedenog teksta:

Finally! That massive weight is off my shoulders. For four long, grueling months, I’ve been dealing with that one page constantly breathing down my neck and trying to suppress everything we stand for. Well, the fight is over—American Atheists has been wiped right off of Facebook. It's such a relief! Evil. Just pure evil. It’s one of those heavy things that sticks in your mind, isn't it? I was sitting on my porch yesterday, just watching the neighborhood dogs chase their tails, and I started thinking about how much darkness we deal with sometimes. It’s everywhere if you look too closely! But hey, stay positive! We can't let the bad stuff dim our light, right? Keep your chin up! My page! It’s finally live! I am just absolutely buzzing about this. Honestly, it feels like such a milestone. You know those moments where you just sit back, grab a coffee, and realize something is actually happening? That's me right now. I've been tinkering away at this for ages, and seeing it all come together is just wonderful. I can't wait to share more with you all! Emotional. Truly. It’s one of those things that just hits you right in the gut, isn't it? I was sitting there with my coffee this morning—the good stuff from Starbucks, obviously—just thinking about how much weight we carry around. Sometimes you just have to let it out! It’s all part of being human. She was being insulting. Just straight-up disrespectful!"One of the users who reported the page wrote this," said one of the folks who flagged the account.

I’ve honestly never quite wrapped my head around it. It’s always baffled me—especially when talking about people who lean so heavily on their faith for every bit of emotional, spiritual, or moral support they have. You’d think that having such a massive, unshakable foundation would make them bulletproof, right? But instead, I see them getting deeply wounded by things that shouldn't even touch them. It just doesn't add up to me!

People can throw just about anything at us! The whole political establishment. It always feels like this, doesn't it? No matter who wins at the ballot box, there’s this recurring pattern that just seems to wound our national spirit right after the dust settles on an election. It’s like we go through these cycles where the very idea of our civic duty starts feeling a bit bruised. I was chatting with a buddy over coffee in Chicago the other day about how much tension there is lately, and it really got me thinking about how fragile that sense of unity can feel sometimes. It’s a bit disheartening, honestly! Human stupidity. Honestly, sometimes I just sit back and marvel at it! It’s truly something else, isn't it? I was grabbing a coffee downtown the other day—just a quick espresso at Starbucks, nothing fancy—and I witnessed something so bafflingly senseless that I nearly choked on my drink. You see people making the same ridiculous mistakes over and over again, thinking they've found some brilliant shortcut, only to trip over their own feet. It’s constant! It’s relentless! It really makes you wonder how we ever managed to build civilization in the first place. Just a little thought for your Tuesday! In every single way imaginable, it’s just endless—just like the universe itself! My own choice. Honestly, looking back at life, we really have no one to blame but ourselves. We tripped over our own feet, learned the hard way, and now? Now we’re just sitting here absolutely fuming at our own stupidity! It’s a classic case of self-inflicted wounds, isn't it? But hey, at least the lesson stuck!

Nah, if we’re talking about being right here at home in the States...😁 Honestly, there’s just nothing like that feeling of being in your own home. It’s my absolute sanctuary! When I'm tucked away in my own space, I feel completely unshakable. I mean, it's like nothing can get under my skin or mess with my head emotionally. We’ve got this inner strength, you know? Once you find that peace within your own four walls, you become pretty much bulletproof. Nothing can touch you!
To wander off the beaten path.

Look, I truly believe this: other people’s opinions, their stances, their choices, or even how they identify can’t touch you emotionally if you’re genuinely at peace with yourself. If you’ve done the work and you're totally aligned with who you actually are, then what someone else thinks just becomes background noise. It's like being caught in a rainstorm while wearing a perfectly waterproof raincoat—you see the water, but you don't get soaked! When you're solid in your own skin, those outside judgments just slide right off. Simple as that!

Where do you all think it comes from? I mean, personally, I find it totally irrational—this sudden, nasty urge to lash out emotionally just because someone holds a different opinion. It’s like this weird, unnecessary sting that shows up exactly where it shouldn't. Why does it happen?😲

Well, some people clearly *do* take offense... or maybe they're just part of some activist mob... who knows.

I’d draw a line somewhere though... there's a huge difference between a site that has a blatant, obvious agenda from the jump—where it makes total sense that only people with that specific worldview show up—and everything else.

It’s a completely different ballgame when you're on pages meant for actual discussion and dialogue.
In those spaces, you should naturally expect a basic level of respect for your peers and a willingness to actually look at things through someone else's lens, right?
wearyowl29 wearyowl29 RegularOP
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#17 ·
Lisa Jackson7 said:Well, some people clearly *do* take offense... or maybe they're just part of some activist mob... who knows.

I’d draw a line somewhere though... there's a huge difference between a site that has a blatant, obvious agenda from the jump—where it makes total sense that only people with that specific worldview show up—and everything else.

It’s a completely different ballgame when you're on pages meant for actual discussion and dialogue.
In those spaces, you should naturally expect a basic level of respect for your peers and a willingness to actually look at things through someone else's lens, right?

It’s just like those strict religious forums where they’ll ban you for even mentioning the word "cookies" in your very first post. They definitely lack that sense of community spirit.
Everyone gets what they want based on their own preferences.
Honestly, someone who is mentally stable isn't going to be crushed by a differing opinion. If they see something inappropriate, they can just react calmly without taking it personally or feeling wounded.
Lisa Jackson7 Lisa Jackson7 Regular
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#18 ·
wearyowl29 said:It’s just like those strict religious forums where they’ll ban you for even mentioning the word "cookies" in your very first post. They definitely lack that sense of community spirit.
Everyone gets what they want based on their own preferences.
Honestly, someone who is mentally stable isn't going to be crushed by a differing opinion. If they see something inappropriate, they can just react calmly without taking it personally or feeling wounded.

Honestly, I don't care about the whole "believer vs. non-believer" thing... what matters is whether this is a place meant for finding people who think exactly like you for some mutual support—which I get, regardless of who you are—or if it could eventually become a place where we actually talk to people with different views... people we don't see as a threat anymore... because we've finally moved past our own baggage.
mistydrifter55 mistydrifter55 Active Member
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#19 ·
wearyowl29 said:I was just reading this fascinating piece about how certain organized groups are trying to make a comeback, and honestly, it really got me thinking about the way social dynamics shift in America. It’s wild, isn't it? You see these movements gather steam, seemingly out of nowhere, only to realize they’ve been simmering under the surface for years. It reminds me of a little situation I ran into back in Chicago a few summers ago. I was sitting in this tiny little coffee shop—the kind where the barista knows your name but still forgets your oat milk—and I overheard two guys debating exactly this kind of thing. They were talking about how influence isn't just about who has the loudest voice, but who can maintain a consistent presence. And that’s exactly what we’re seeing here! These groups aren't just popping up; they are strategically rebuilding their foundations. There’s a certain rhythm to it, a predictable ebb and flow that feels almost inevitable. It’s like watching a tide come back in. You expect it, you prepare for it, and then—bam!—it's right there at your doorstep. It makes you wonder what the next big shift will be. Is it political? Social? Economic? Who knows! But staying observant is half the battle, right? I, for one, am keeping my eyes peeled. Life is much more interesting when you're paying attention to the underlying currents!

Iz navedenog teksta:

Finally! That massive weight is off my shoulders. For four long, grueling months, I’ve been dealing with that one page constantly breathing down my neck and trying to suppress everything we stand for. Well, the fight is over—American Atheists has been wiped right off of Facebook. It's such a relief! Evil. Just pure evil. It’s one of those heavy things that sticks in your mind, isn't it? I was sitting on my porch yesterday, just watching the neighborhood dogs chase their tails, and I started thinking about how much darkness we deal with sometimes. It’s everywhere if you look too closely! But hey, stay positive! We can't let the bad stuff dim our light, right? Keep your chin up! My page! It’s finally live! I am just absolutely buzzing about this. Honestly, it feels like such a milestone. You know those moments where you just sit back, grab a coffee, and realize something is actually happening? That's me right now. I've been tinkering away at this for ages, and seeing it all come together is just wonderful. I can't wait to share more with you all! Emotional. Truly. It’s one of those things that just hits you right in the gut, isn't it? I was sitting there with my coffee this morning—the good stuff from Starbucks, obviously—just thinking about how much weight we carry around. Sometimes you just have to let it out! It’s all part of being human. She was being insulting. Just straight-up disrespectful!"One of the users who reported the page wrote this," said one of the folks who flagged the account.

I’ve honestly never quite wrapped my head around it. It’s always baffled me—especially when talking about people who lean so heavily on their faith for every bit of emotional, spiritual, or moral support they have. You’d think that having such a massive, unshakable foundation would make them bulletproof, right? But instead, I see them getting deeply wounded by things that shouldn't even touch them. It just doesn't add up to me!

People can throw just about anything at us! The whole political establishment. It always feels like this, doesn't it? No matter who wins at the ballot box, there’s this recurring pattern that just seems to wound our national spirit right after the dust settles on an election. It’s like we go through these cycles where the very idea of our civic duty starts feeling a bit bruised. I was chatting with a buddy over coffee in Chicago the other day about how much tension there is lately, and it really got me thinking about how fragile that sense of unity can feel sometimes. It’s a bit disheartening, honestly! Human stupidity. Honestly, sometimes I just sit back and marvel at it! It’s truly something else, isn't it? I was grabbing a coffee downtown the other day—just a quick espresso at Starbucks, nothing fancy—and I witnessed something so bafflingly senseless that I nearly choked on my drink. You see people making the same ridiculous mistakes over and over again, thinking they've found some brilliant shortcut, only to trip over their own feet. It’s constant! It’s relentless! It really makes you wonder how we ever managed to build civilization in the first place. Just a little thought for your Tuesday! In every single way imaginable, it’s just endless—just like the universe itself! My own choice. Honestly, looking back at life, we really have no one to blame but ourselves. We tripped over our own feet, learned the hard way, and now? Now we’re just sitting here absolutely fuming at our own stupidity! It’s a classic case of self-inflicted wounds, isn't it? But hey, at least the lesson stuck!

Nah, if we’re talking about being right here at home in the States...😁 Honestly, there’s just nothing like that feeling of being in your own home. It’s my absolute sanctuary! When I'm tucked away in my own space, I feel completely unshakable. I mean, it's like nothing can get under my skin or mess with my head emotionally. We’ve got this inner strength, you know? Once you find that peace within your own four walls, you become pretty much bulletproof. Nothing can touch you!
To wander off the beaten path.

Look, I truly believe this: other people’s opinions, their stances, their choices, or even how they identify can’t touch you emotionally if you’re genuinely at peace with yourself. If you’ve done the work and you're totally aligned with who you actually are, then what someone else thinks just becomes background noise. It's like being caught in a rainstorm while wearing a perfectly waterproof raincoat—you see the water, but you don't get soaked! When you're solid in your own skin, those outside judgments just slide right off. Simple as that!

Where do you all think it comes from? I mean, personally, I find it totally irrational—this sudden, nasty urge to lash out emotionally just because someone holds a different opinion. It’s like this weird, unnecessary sting that shows up exactly where it shouldn't. Why does it happen?😲

An underdeveloped ego. And a lack of Self-love.
wearyowl29 wearyowl29 RegularOP
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#20 ·
Lisa Jackson7 said:Honestly, I don't care about the whole "believer vs. non-believer" thing... what matters is whether this is a place meant for finding people who think exactly like you for some mutual support—which I get, regardless of who you are—or if it could eventually become a place where we actually talk to people with different views... people we don't see as a threat anymore... because we've finally moved past our own baggage.

I’m telling you, it’s just like joining a social club! 👏

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