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Betty Ramos said:What’s the deal with hugging... when all you feel is this wave of awkwardness—where you can barely stand being yourself, let alone someone else. How do you hug in those moments without feeling forced, or worse, fake.
Not at all. I mean, what would be the point? If there isn't even a tiny impulse to reach out—if those internal sensors are just dead—then they're dead. Even Jesus raised the dead, but nowadays it feels like only zombies are rising 🙂
I might just go hug a tree instead... sounds silly, I know, but I think I'll actually go find one today. Maybe two, depending on which one looks more inviting 🙂 🙂How do you learn to hug someone without them even realizing it.
Just embrace them in spirit. Though, maybe they will sense it if the connection is sincere enough—and if they happen to be on a similar wavelength 🙂
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This song was playing on loop for me all last night—it's beautiful. I first heard it about ten days ago while I was grabbing some fruit at Whole Foods. I meant to look it up on YouTube right then, but it slipped my mind, and then suddenly here it is. So nice 🙂Hug me...
But isn't that exactly when a hug matters most? It becomes this way beautiful tool for cleansing—not just for them, but for us too.
A truly deep hug can actually happen without that initial physical urge; it comes from that deeper, underlying energy we all carry. It’s that specific moment where we move past our own egos by really trying to understand someone else and what they're going through.
You just give them a hug in spirit! And hey, maybe they'll actually feel it if the hug is sincere enough and you're both vibrating on a similar wavelength. 🙂
I was talking about the kind of hugs that people actually get a massive boost from.
We haven't even touched on the technique of hugging someone so subtly they don't even realize it happened. We shouldn't be asking how to make sure they notice us; we should be figuring out how to give a hug without any ego or need for recognition.
