Project: Find a Friend (Classifieds / Meetup Thread)

I have a deep love for literature and poetry; sometimes I even trick myself into thinking I have a knack for both, though I haven't quite found the courage to fully commit to the craft of writing yet. Classical music is another passion, especially when I find myself overanalyzing specific tones or those subtle shifts in melody. My playlist is a mix of everything from Taylor Swift and various rock artists to Leo Cohen, Arsen, Svemirko, Valentinot Bošković, and Boy Harsher. I enjoy diving into history—specifically the Middle Ages, though lately, I've been captivated by prehistory. I also like chewing on big political ideas, like universal basic income, making healthcare and education accessible to everyone, and the influence of big banking. I can spend a lot of time pondering global geopolitical issues. There’s something about watching a sunset that hits right; if I were an early riser, I’d probably be out enjoying them more often. I tend to like deconstructing social constructs to see what’s actually driving them. Sometimes I’m a quiet person; I think there’s value in silence when you're with people you're close to. Maybe I value conciseness a bit too much. Perhaps I should have studied comparative literature, but life had other plans. Looking back, I realize I haven't explored many of my interests as deeply as I'd like, so there’s plenty of room for growth—both intellectually and personally. Don't let my old posts deter you; they were just experimental attempts at expression, and honestly, most of them missed the mark.

I’m honestly looking for someone to head out with. I really miss having a nightlife; I used to love hitting up places like Marquee, even though I can be a bit shy once I get there. That said, I really don't want to spend my Saturday nights stuck at home. It doesn't even have to be a club—just somewhere nice. If ANYONE is interested in some pleasant, low-key company, feel free to reach out. Cheers!

Looking for a girl between 20-28 for some chill hangouts when I'm off the clock—think shopping trips, long walks, or hitting the town on weekends. Most of my buddies just started full-time jobs, so my social life has been pretty quiet lately. I'm 27, working, and honestly a bit shy at first. It’d be awesome if you’re from Philly or somewhere nearby!

Someone typing away about things that don't even matter. I'm bored, yet it seems people in the real world only possess enough vocabulary for trivialities and shallow topics...
26 years old, M

Anyone looking to chat? Man, woman, doesn't matter—just doesn't matter where you're from. I just don't want anyone stuck in some deep, miserable funk where we can only talk about how depressing life is..

I honestly just need a quick escape from reality.. nothing else.

Feeling pretty blue today, honestly. Not many people I can actually talk to about where I went wrong. Doesn't matter if you're a guy or a girl, just hit me up if you're down to chat. Me? Just your typical introvert with a bit of an ego and zero confidence after 28 years on this planet. Heading to the movies now to try and cheer myself up, so tell me what kind of flicks you're into—or just say whatever's on your mind. 🙂

I’ll definitely get back to everyone who reached out, thanks though!
The site is totally glitching out on me right now so I can't even post properly,
without everything getting deleted or locked up.

I’m looking for a woman who would be interested in an actual friendship—and I mean that in the most sincere sense of the word. I’m not just talking about endless texting or digital small talk; I’m looking for someone to actually hang out with in person: grabbing coffee, catching a movie, going for walks, and having those deep conversations where we can discuss absolutely everything. I want someone I can vent to, someone to ask for advice, and someone who can be a mutual support system when life gets messy. Honestly, what you do for a living or what you look like isn't my priority here. If things happen to evolve into something more than friendship down the road, I’m certainly not opposed to that—though, let’s be realistic, I haven't had much luck with posts like this in the past, so I’m keeping my expectations grounded. Basically, all I ask is that you’re located in the Washington, D.C. area and roughly around my age (I’m 34).

Shoot me a DM to start things off.

Is there really no one from the San Diego area around here? Any women interested in grabbing coffee?

granitetiger6 said:Is there really no one from the San Diego area around here? Any women interested in grabbing coffee?

Hey there! A few of us forum members are actually hanging out in San Diego right now, so if you're interested, shoot me a DM...

Anyone down to play WoW on a private server or maybe some Diablo 3? Honestly, the guys in here are exhausting—all they want to talk about is sex. I’m a guy myself, but I can't stand that kind of energy. If you're that desperate, go find someone else to bother. It's honestly pathetic.

Anyway, if there's anyone out there who actually wants to chat about movies, shows, books, or music, I'm all ears.

Ideally, you aren't tied down, because I don't need any drama involving a boyfriend. My inbox is open.

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I had this wild thought slip into my head last night... just imagining a world where Walt Disney somehow managed to direct 32,850 films. I mean, one movie for nearly every single evening of our lives—from age three all the way up to ninety-three, skipping just one 😁 during leap years. In a reality like that, I can't help but feel people might be a little closer, maybe love each other a bit more, and certainly get angry a lot less.

I’d honestly love to meet someone like that—someone to try and become a better person with, you know? To love more, get frustrated less, and maybe grow or learn things side-by-side. We could even start a little book club or a film club or something. It doesn't really matter where you live, because so much of what we all need—myself included—can happen right here through these digital threads. That said, I am living in Washington, D.C. (so it would be pretty neat if you were nearby too, especially since I recently mastered the art of sautéing garlic in oil without burning it—so, hey, we could have a cooking club too! 😁 ). Age and career don't matter much to me either, though I should mention I'm currently a student in my mid-twenties.

So, if you ever find yourself feeling periodically lonely, just like I do, and you feel like you're missing an extra ear (and trust me, I've got two 🙂 ready to listen) in your life... well, there aren't many things I cherish more than when someone shares a little piece of their journey with me in a message. Maybe we'll become friends one day, or maybe we won't, but I'll truly be happy just reading whatever you decide to write. 🙂

Hey there! I was wondering if anyone here might be interested in chatting with someone who deals with social anxiety and depression... I'm 24 years old and living over in Canada.
I genuinely love connecting with people, talking about just about anything, and having a good laugh; I'd say I'm a pretty laid-back, easygoing guy.
As for my better qualities, I try to be a good, honest, and sincere person. I'm quite an emotional soul and I'll always be there to lend a hand to the people I care about. I don't hold any prejudices, and I'd say I have a decent level of intelligence.
On the flip side, my main struggle is managing my anxiety and depression.

Anyway, I'm just hoping someone decides to reach out.😁 We can even chat over on Meta if that's easier.

Hey, I’m looking to meet some new people—doesn't matter if you're male or female—around my age for hanging out, hitting rock concerts, catching movies, or whatever. I'm based in Washington, D.C., I'm 26, and honestly, I tend to be pretty introverted. I've decided it's time to step out of my comfort zone.

Whether you are male or female, it doesn't matter—if you find yourself connecting with my posts, please reach out!
I might not reply immediately since I am not on this forum very often, but I will certainly get back to you within a reasonable timeframe.

I would love to meet people here who are around 30 or older. I am based in Washington, D.C., so it would be wonderful if you were also in the area or nearby.
It is difficult for me to describe myself in just a few lines, so perhaps it is better to let my posts speak for me, even if there aren't many yet.
To put it briefly, I am not a simple person, and I am certainly not for everyone. I do not open up easily, and I require time to truly get to know someone before reaching that stage. If we share that trait, then we will likely get along very quickly. 😁 What I am looking for is a new friendship with someone who shares similar life philosophies—someone analytical, open to meeting new people, direct, and level-headed. I am drawn to those who are a bit "rebellious"—those who don't fit into the prescribed social roles, who fight their own silent internal battles, yet continue to persevere in this harsh world.

It would truly be lovely to find someone similar for companionship. I have always believed that only similar people can truly understand one another. While opposites might attract at first glance, such connections lack the depth required to last. I believe the true quality of any relationship, whether platonic or romantic, lies in mutual understanding and acceptance.

Well, that is all for now, and now it is your turn. 👋

frozenraven40 said:Hey, I'm a 22-year-old girl living in Savannah. I don't really have many friends right now, mostly because I'm pretty shy when meeting new people—it usually takes me a little while to relax and find things to talk about. I'm just looking for someone to chat with online, and maybe eventually get to know some new people that way. I'm not looking for a boyfriend, and I'd prefer to talk to people under 27.

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I’m kind of looking for someone who gets how life can feel like this massive black hole, just sucking up all your emotions, your drive, and any desire to even try. But somehow, despite all that, you don't just give up. I want to find people who know what it's like to hit rock bottom, yet they still find the strength to take another shot at things and keep searching for some kind of purpose... I guess I’m really searching for those closeted optimists—the ones who would never admit they're hopeful, but deep down, they believe tomorrow might actually be better, and they aren't just sitting around waiting for it; they're out there fighting for it.
I'm looking for someone who knows that life can be absolute sh*t, but also realizes we only get one shot at this, so there's no way we're letting go.

I suppose I described myself a little bit in what I wrote above, but if anyone else feels like these words hit home, please reach out.

boldbadger20 said:Anyone looking to kill some time by typing away online?
I’m not really interested in listing out my age or anything like that; I suppose we can just see how things go as we move forward.

And honestly, don't expect anyone particularly interesting here—I'd hate to disappoint you right out of the gate.😛

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Looking for people between 25 and 35 in the NYC area. I'm 28, working full-time, and I actually find myself with quite a bit of free time during the mornings and late afternoons or evenings.

Let's just talk about whatever. No taboo topics here—honestly, anything and everything is on the table.