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Time is flying by way too fast

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Dennis Davis5 Dennis Davis5 Active MemberOP
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#21 ·
As far as I'm concerned, the weekend doesn't pass any faster or slower than the rest of the week. This whole idea that you have to live differently just because it's the weekend is silly. You should just live every single day.
Bryan Wells9 Bryan Wells9 Newcomer
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#22 ·
electricmason8 said:Don't overlook one massive factor here: back when we were kids a few decades ago, the general pace of life was palpably slower.
Nowadays, everyone is trying to juggle four different things at once while simultaneously juggling long-term plans that stretch out years into the future. It creates this constant, suffocating sense of running out of time and being in a perpetual state of rushing—a feeling that honestly just didn't exist before, whether you were a kid or an adult. 🙂

I mean, I can watch movies or read through newspapers from the 70s and 80s, and
it seems like even back then, people were already complaining about how life was moving
faster, how everything was accelerated compared to before, and how they were always running out of time. A
guess in another 20 years, people will probably say that life today wasn't actually lived that fast.

I still remember, back when I was a kid, how quickly time seemed to slip by
and how I’d find myself daydreaming, thinking, "Oh my gosh, I'm already in 8th grade,"
when it felt like I was only in 5th grade yesterday. It used to get pretty boring sometimes, too—everything felt so repetitive, school was just school,
you were always just counting down the days until the weekend or a holiday. And when you're a kid and you're out doing activities,
there are more new experiences happening, so it feels like time moves faster.
But now that I'm an adult, things feel more monotonous than ever, and
time flies even faster! How? Maybe because nothing really happens to me. I just go
to work, come home, and find myself waiting for the weekend just like I did back in
school... It's like every day is identical; the years all blur together. I can't really tell the difference between 2014
and 2010, or even those rough years in the early 2000s, but the years just vanish
in this heavy routine and boredom. I suppose I'll understand it better once I have kids, because
my parents used to tell me—and I hear parents saying it to their kids today, too—that
having children is the clearest way to see how fast time truly flies.
Nicholas Gonzalez8 Nicholas Gonzalez8 Regular
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#23 ·
I feel like the years are just slipping through my fingers faster every single year. Honestly, things didn't really change until I started dragging myself out of bed early in the morning to mess around with some meditation and Tai Chi—just trying to shut my brain up for five minutes and actually focus on the here and now. It really helps 🙂
Rachel Thomas60 Rachel Thomas60 Newcomer
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#24 ·
Dennis Davis5 said:I wanted to share some thoughts here on how time seems to slip away. When I was a kid, everything felt like it moved at a snail's pace. I remember being in preschool and feeling like it lasted forever; looking back, I’d say it felt three times longer than it actually was. Elementary school had its own slow rhythm, too—I can still vividly remember how long each school year dragged from fall to summer. That steady pace lasted until my sophomore year of high school, when things suddenly picked up speed. By junior year, right around age 17, it started accelerating even more. Even that stressful final stretch of high school seemed to fly by. Now that I'm in college, it’s not just years moving fast anymore; it feels like weeks and days are blurring together. Don't get me wrong, I'm actually happy about it because I want to move forward with life, but it's strange. On top of that, looking back at things from just two years ago, it feels like a lifetime has passed. It honestly feels like it happened over five years ago.

Does anyone else feel this way, or is it just me? Some people say it's because we have so many more responsibilities now.

The reality is that the "feeling" of slow time during childhood is essentially a result of a child's purity and sincerity—back then, there wasn't anything like the brain or the ego to disrupt it. A child is pure sensation without the weight of intellect, whereas an adult is mostly intellect without sensation, because those feelings get BLOCKED—not necessarily by the intellect itself, but by the ego. That EGO, which corrupts a person constantly, is the reason time feels like it's racing. The ego ACCELERATES thought, and faster thoughts mean a faster flow of time; slower thoughts mean a slower flow. The heart is a miracle... truly one of humanity's greatest mysteries. Einstein was right! Time relativity is a real thing. The corruption of the ego acts like a black hole for the heart, sucking up time just like a vacuum sucks up dust. 🙂
Austin Hughes10 Austin Hughes10 Newcomer
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#25 ·
Rachel Thomas60 said:The reality is that the "feeling" of slow time during childhood is essentially a result of a child's purity and sincerity—back then, there wasn't anything like the brain or the ego to disrupt it. A child is pure sensation without the weight of intellect, whereas an adult is mostly intellect without sensation, because those feelings get BLOCKED—not necessarily by the intellect itself, but by the ego. That EGO, which corrupts a person constantly, is the reason time feels like it's racing. The ego ACCELERATES thought, and faster thoughts mean a faster flow of time; slower thoughts mean a slower flow. The heart is a miracle... truly one of humanity's greatest mysteries. Einstein was right! Time relativity is a real thing. The corruption of the ego acts like a black hole for the heart, sucking up time just like a vacuum sucks up dust. 🙂

Your thesis is solid, brother, but we are far too dependent on the ego. This slowed-down time is exhausting... maybe I should just feed my ego while nothing is happening.

Plus, time isn't even the issue. The real problem is physical matter and the corruption within the material world. I can't escape that SUBSTANCE... 🙂
jadewolf16 jadewolf16 Active Member
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#26 ·
It’s like there’s a built-in speed regulator in our brains—it speeds up or drags on depending on how much excitement is actually flowing through our lives. Think about it: childhood feels like an absolute blast because everything is a brand-new experience, whereas getting older? Everything just starts feeling kind of repetitive and dull

"Sometimes time moves quickly, and in some situations time seems to slow down. All of this ultimately has a neural representation," says Strick.

Read more at: http://phys.org/news175185800.html#jCp
John Stewart9 John Stewart9 Member
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#27 ·
Dennis Davis5 said:Nina Raspudić says that childhood and the years we spend raising our own kids are the longest phases of life.

Since you brought it up, he once wrote this super deep thought in an article—that humans have actually experienced eternity before. It was definitely back in childhood, that phase of life where the whole concept of time and being bound by the clock basically doesn't exist or just feels totally irrelevant...

It’s funny because you totally missed one massive piece of the puzzle that’s tied directly to time and how things pass by, and that’s the realization of death—specifically our own. That’s really the big, fundamental line between being a kid and being an adult. As a child, you’re just blissfully unaware of so much stuff, including the fact that one day you won't be here (and just as importantly, that you didn't exist for eons before you were even conceived), and that, as blunt as it sounds, you’re getting closer every single day to—to quote a classic—that second most intimate moment of your life...

The implications of realizing mortality and how fleeting everything is are huge, and there’s a legitimate philosophical divide between childhood and adulthood right there. And honestly, that line doesn't always line up with your age or social status; once you truly grasp it, nothing is ever quite the same, and your perception and consciousness shift drastically, even if you don't notice it happening right away...

Personally, time flies pretty fast for me. I started feeling that intensely back when I was at college, partly because I was a total mess at organizing my life and ended up cramming for exams and pulling all-nighters at the absolute last second. Back then, I'd get hit with this wave of panic and anxiety, which made it feel like days were passing like seconds and months were slipping by like weeks... I was in school for a long time, but man, it felt like those years just zoomed past. That's just how it goes, I guess...

Dennis Davis5 said:Thanks for clearing that up, Mastor. So, based on what you're saying, I guess I'm doing alright if time is flying by this fast? A few people have mentioned that things really start to pick up speed once you hit 30.

I've read accounts where people say a single day during a war feels like an absolute eternity.

Basically, time moves fast when you're having fun and staying busy, but I also had some really rough patches (like during my college years) where time still flew by. Eventually, I realized what the real trick was. It isn't so much about whether you're feeling good or bad, but rather whether you're keeping pace with the unwritten rhythm of everything happening around you. For instance, I was still grinding through exams while some of my buddies had already graduated or even landed jobs, so time felt incredibly rushed for me because I was constantly feeling this pressure to "catch up" to them...
Dennis Davis5 Dennis Davis5 Active MemberOP
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#28 ·
@John Stewart9

Thanks for clearing that up. 🙂 It seems like college is really the turning point where everything starts moving faster. I went through two different high schools before this, and those two and three-year stretches felt like forever, but I've been in college for four years now and it’s definitely flown by the fastest.
darksurfer4 darksurfer4 Active Member
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#29 ·
Now that I’ve actually reached adulthood, I can’t help but feel like time just slips through your fingers; those years just vanish into thin air🤷

I’m honestly not sure if this belongs in a general discussion thread or if it’s more suited for a medical or physics forum, but I was sitting there watching this program on the Discovery Channel—you know, one of those science specials hosted by Morgan Freeman (the legend himself)—and they presented a truly mind-bending example!!! Apparently, there was a patient in his 70s admitted to an American hospital who was experiencing some incredibly bizarre symptoms; he was completely overwhelmed by everyday life, from the rhythm of the traffic to the sheer pace of human activity. The diagnosis they gave him was absolutely staggering, and frankly, I’m still struggling to wrap my head around it. According to the show, the patient's perception of time had slowed down so drastically that a car traveling at 37 miles/h appeared to him as if it were a high-speed racer zooming by at 186 miles/h. How on earth is that even biologically possible😕🙄
Lawrence Bailey77 Lawrence Bailey77 Regular
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#30 ·
People talk about "time" as if it were some tangible, physical thing... but honestly, time is just a concept humans cooked up... much like any other unit of measurement we've devised.

The whole idea of time—and the moment we decided to accept it as a standard unit—is supposedly linked to space according to certain "theories."

And here is the rather grimly amusing reality of our existence: even the most brilliant theoretical physicists still haven't actually defined what space *is*.😁

To put it more plainly for those who might have missed the point: nobody truly understands what space is, nor how to describe it accurately... I suppose. I'm not entirely sure if it's possible to express this without someone taking offense, though.🙄

But then again, for those who actually care about facts... I suppose it's just important to have something to talk about.😍
Dennis Davis5 Dennis Davis5 Active MemberOP
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#31 ·
I wouldn't say anyone actually invented time, days, or the calendar. They just took simple, existing facts and put them down on paper. Time itself will always flow at the same steady pace.
Kenneth Ramirez5 Kenneth Ramirez5 Member
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#32 ·
Time seems to be slipping through my fingers way too fast—years just seem to pile up one after another before I even realize it. Up until 30, everything feels somewhat manageable, but once you cross that threshold...
Carl Cox3 Carl Cox3 Active Member
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#33 ·
When I recall those summer breaks back in elementary school... they felt endless, as if they lasted for half a year.
At work, when things get busy, I barely have time to turn around before it's already noon. 😲Five hours pass by like one.

A professor once told me that time has actually accelerated due to some black hole anomaly in space occurring since the early 90s. He claims days used to feel infinite, yet today, there is simply never enough time to get anything done...
Larry Rivera2 Larry Rivera2 Member
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#34 ·
Rachel Thomas60 said:The reality is that the "feeling" of slow time during childhood is essentially a result of a child's purity and sincerity—back then, there wasn't anything like the brain or the ego to disrupt it. A child is pure sensation without the weight of intellect, whereas an adult is mostly intellect without sensation, because those feelings get BLOCKED—not necessarily by the intellect itself, but by the ego. That EGO, which corrupts a person constantly, is the reason time feels like it's racing. The ego ACCELERATES thought, and faster thoughts mean a faster flow of time; slower thoughts mean a slower flow. The heart is a miracle... truly one of humanity's greatest mysteries. Einstein was right! Time relativity is a real thing. The corruption of the ego acts like a black hole for the heart, sucking up time just like a vacuum sucks up dust. 🙂

Spot on, great way to put it 🙂. Plus, when you're a kid, you aren't even aware that time is passing; you're just living in the moment. Once you grow up, you're drowning in worries and suddenly realize how fast everything is slipping away, which just makes time move even faster in your head.
Carl Rivera43 Carl Rivera43 Veteran
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#35 ·
Honestly, I’ve been moving at a snail's pace lately. It’s especially tough when I just can't seem to find my groove or get into a steady rhythm.

Plus, this past five-day stretch was just brutal—nothing but rain and gray skies. Having those clouds hanging around until almost 9 PM really made everything feel even more sluggish. That’s why I am so ready for the sunshine and warmth we have coming up! It’s going to give me such a boost. I’ll finally tackle my to-do list, cut down on the procrastination, and maybe head out for some hikes once the trails dry out. I've got so many ideas swirling around.

I'm just looking forward to it all—real spring, flowers blooming in the meadow... I'm lucky enough to have a backyard, so once the sun comes out, the garden is going to look incredible. And honestly? Throwing on some good music makes it even better. Greatest Hits

Greatest Hits, Greatest Hits, Greatest Hits, Greatest Hits.
Nicholas Gonzalez8 Nicholas Gonzalez8 Regular
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#36 ·
Carl Cox3 said:When I recall those summer breaks back in elementary school... they felt endless, as if they lasted for half a year.
At work, when things get busy, I barely have time to turn around before it's already noon. 😲Five hours pass by like one.

A professor once told me that time has actually accelerated due to some black hole anomaly in space occurring since the early 90s. He claims days used to feel infinite, yet today, there is simply never enough time to get anything done...

It's true, though. I used to feel that way too, but now, especially at the office, time just vanishes. I honestly can't tell if it's just my brain changing as I get older, or if there’s actually something weird happening with the physics of the universe.

The only thing I know for sure is that my days feel longer only because I'm up way too early 🙂
urbanskipper3 urbanskipper3 Newcomer
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#37 ·
Routine is the ultimate thief of time because you don't even realize it's happening. The days just bleed together into one indistinguishable blur, making it feel like you've been stuck in the exact same loop for weeks on end. When you're a kid, everything is a revelation. You're constantly absorbing new information. Every little thing carries that "wow" factor, making every moment stick.

If you actually want to slow down the clock, you have to seek out experiences that actually move the needle—things that trigger that sense of awe. You need variety. New places, different faces, fresh perspectives... It’s easy to preach, but much harder to execute when your daily grind is set in stone.
darksurfer4 darksurfer4 Active Member
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#38 ·
Carl Cox3 said:When I recall those summer breaks back in elementary school... they felt endless, as if they lasted for half a year.
At work, when things get busy, I barely have time to turn around before it's already noon. 😲Five hours pass by like one.

A professor once told me that time has actually accelerated due to some black hole anomaly in space occurring since the early 90s. He claims days used to feel infinite, yet today, there is simply never enough time to get anything done...

That is absolute nonsense; while it might feel like time is moving faster, the reality is we just can't finish tasks like we used to because our frantic pace of life has skyrocketed, largely due to the internet, not some cosmic black hole.☕
Carl Rivera43 Carl Rivera43 Veteran
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#39 ·
If you’re stuck with a super sluggish internet connection like I am, you probably don't feel like lingering online for very long anyway.

Actually, it works out perfectly for me since the weather is absolutely gorgeous outside right now.
Carl Cox3 Carl Cox3 Active Member
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#40 ·
darksurfer4 said:That is absolute nonsense; while it might feel like time is moving faster, the reality is we just can't finish tasks like we used to because our frantic pace of life has skyrocketed, largely due to the internet, not some cosmic black hole.☕

Perhaps it is. I would personally rule out that possibility. A professional handles these matters; why would they lie to us intentionally?

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