Frank Diaz6 said:Hey everyone! So, I’m officially enrolling this year, and I wanted to pick the brains of anyone who’s been through this before. I’m currently torn between choosing a science-focused high school in Des Moines or heading to the University of Chicago in San Diego. I’m originally from San Diego, and my big dream is to go into medicine. My top choice is definitely the school in Des Moines because their curriculum is super heavy on the sciences you actually need for med school, plus they’re known as one of the top schools in the US. The catch? Some people think I’m being a bit extra by planning to move three hours away from home when I'm only 15. Honestly, I’m feeling pretty optimistic about getting in despite the entrance exams, though! On the other hand, the University of Chicago option has amazing stats for national exams, but I really don't want to spend four straight years drowning in nothing but computer science and math. Also, looking at the big picture, I feel like moving to NYC and living in a dorm might actually be better for my mental health. If anyone has any advice or has been in a similar spot, please help a girl out! 🙏
Honestly, if you don't make it through the entrance exam, then that school probably wasn't the right fit for you anyway.🤷
Regarding housing... living in a dorm and being far from home definitely has its pros and cons. One big plus is that you'll have built-in study support, but the downside is the strict set of rules. It's much easier to avoid those kinds of restrictions if you're still living with your parents (like curfews or check-in times). You'll likely have your own room, but you still have to deal with whoever you end up rooming with, and you'll be sharing common areas like bathrooms, which means dealing with waiting your turn and adjusting to other people's hygiene habits.
If you're looking to get some distance from home, choosing the school in Des Moines sounds like a solid move.
Back in my high school, we had two girls who moved from out of town. One of them struggled so much she ended up dropping out during the first semester—it turned out her group of friends back home was miles away from the social circle we had here. The other girl finished the program; she had a rough start too, but we didn't know her all that well since she went home every weekend.
I think those differences are becoming less common now, but you can always find out more through the entrance process if there are any major hurdles.
I'd definitely recommend asking about the dorm rules, especially regarding how they handle weekends. Being part of a social group is so important at that age, especially making friends with your classmates, but if the dorm has super strict weekend policies, it can feel like total hell.
And honestly, just the daily stuff, like coming home after school or dealing with late arrivals...