Quincy:
I can't quite make heads or tails of what you're trying to get at here—it’s just a single word, really. If there was a point you were trying to drive home or a specific grievance you wanted to air, you’ll have to actually lay it out for me first. I'm sitting here ready to engage, but I can't exactly debate a vacuum. Benjamin Taylor6 says: Can anyone actually shed some light on what happens when a debtor hits rock bottom—I mean absolute zero? We're talking about someone who has absolutely nothing left to settle a debt. No income, no house, no car... just nothing. What’s the actual play there? How exactly does one even begin to resolve a mess like this? It’s never straightforward—it’s always some convoluted, multi-layered headache that leaves you spinning. You think there’s a clear path forward, then suddenly you're staring at more red tape and bureaucratic nonsense than a DMV waiting room in the middle of July. Honestly, I’ve seen similar situations play out before—reminds me of that time back in Chicago when everything just hit a wall because nobody could agree on the simplest details—and it usually ends up being a long, drawn-out process of trial and error. There's rarely a "quick fix" when things get this tangled. |
I know that story all too well—believe me, I’ve seen it happen more times than I care to count. Take my friend, for instance.Honestly, forget everything that was just said about him—it’s all nonsense.
In that scenario, honestly, it’s the creditors who end up with the real headache—not the debtors. It’s a frustrating cycle, really. They just sit there, playing this endless waiting game, just biding their time until they have a court order in hand. They’re basically lurking in the shadows, waiting for the second a debtor gets any kind of windfall—be it a paycheck, a pension payout, or even an inheritance—so they can swoop in and seize it all. It’s a constant state of limbo. 😢😲
That’s why anyone carrying a balance—or frankly, anyone dealing with debt at all—has to be incredibly sharp and constantly on their toes. You can't just coast through this; you have to stay one step ahead of the game if you don't want to get blindsided. It requires a certain level of mental agility—and let's face it, a healthy dose of paranoia—to navigate the whole mess without losing your shirt.
Michael Martinez97 said:Is it actually mandatory to let them in, and what happens if I just refuse?
I guess you have to weigh things out so the creditor gets officially notified.
What kind of legal fallout am I looking at if I don't allow entry?
Honestly, it’s just tragic—losing a massive two-story house where two big families are living, all because of some debt starting at $2333 plus interest. 🙂
Someone please give me an answer.
And who exactly is responsible for racking up this debt? Usually, they just garnish the person's wages—or their Social Security checks, in this case—which is a much smoother ride for the creditors. It’s way less of a headache for them than chasing someone down. As far as I understand, they can only go after real estate if the debtor actually holds the deed to the house. Otherwise, what's the point?
fadedpuma3 said:Hi everyone, I'm joining the forum because I'm facing a serious issue. I'm hoping someone here might be able to help me out. 😉
fadedpuma3 is acting as a co-signer for a 🙂personal loan at $23333—it had an 84-month term with monthly payments of roughly $387. My friend took this out on March 14, 2006. The first payment was due March 31, 2006, and the final one was March 31, 2013. During that period, the bank sent me notices as the co-signer about once a year (debt notices on March 28, 2011, and the last demand for payment to the co-signer—terminating the loan agreement—on January 31, 2013). Then, on April 24, 2013, a notary filed a proposal for garnishment based on a credible document—specifically, a promissory note including a consent for wage garnishment, either partially or in full. I filed an objection to that proposal (sent May 6, 2013) because I am disputing the amounts. The underlying document is flawed; it fails to list the creditor and debtor, and doesn't specify the subject, type, scope, or timing of the financial obligation. Furthermore, we are contesting the collection costs and attorney fees, as the promissory note itself is invalid because it lacks the borrower's address.
After I spent those few days constantly calling my friend—the actual borrower—urging her to pay, she finally worked out a payment plan with the bank. A representative from the bank emailed me to confirm that an agreement was reached with their attorney to hold off on garnishing my accounts, provided they proceed with the garnishment against the borrower's account instead.
The amounts they are claiming against me are listed generally as follows:
Principal balance - $15365 🙂
Regular interest - $4654
Statutory interest - $3401 🙂
If it isn't too much trouble, could you please offer some advice?
Is there any statute of limitations on specific missed loan installments?
Since the garnishment is currently paused, is there a possibility that other overdue installments could eventually expire under the statute of limitations?
Can I negotiate a settlement with the bank if the borrower fails to make payments?
The borrower moved away without notifying the bank, so the notices were sent to her old address. However, every time a notice arrived, I called her, and she would speak with the bank and promise them she would pay. 🙂 She is now living with her parents and has two minor children. Can the bank attempt to collect from her parents, or perhaps place a lien on property she might inherit later (which she’ll have to share with her sister)? I want to prevent a situation where her parents transfer property to her son once he turns 18—he's about 10 now, I think.
Her parents own an apartment in Chicago and a house in Florida, and they rent out the Chicago apartment (I actually have confirmation from the tenants that they've been renting it since 2009). As for her, I suspect she's working under the table and might even be receiving social services since she's divorced.
And do you have any general advice on what I should do if she stops paying this loan?
Is there a way to prove all of this in court? If so, how? Who can provide official documentation regarding everything I know?
On another note, I started my own small business in late 2007 and took out an auto loan in August 2007 that expires in July 2014. Could they garnish my car or my business assets?
🙂 Desperate co-signer, fadedpuma3 😠
Look, I know how this works—statutes of limitations don't just happen overnight or easily. Banks have legions of lawyers who aren't exactly easy to outmaneuver.
Quincy:
| Can I actually negotiate a settlement with the bank if the primary borrower stops paying? |
It's always an option—in fact, banks often prefer it.
Quincy:
Since the borrower moved—she didn't tell the bank, so all the notices are going to her old address (though I've been calling her every time a notice arrives, and she talks to them promising to pay) 🙂—and she's currently living with her parents and has two minor kids, can they try to collect from her parents? Or maybe put a lien on some real estate she’s set to inherit (which she'll have to split with her sister—I'm just trying to prevent a situation where her parents transfer property to her son when he turns eighteen; he's about ten right now, I think)? Her parents own an apartment in Chicago and a house in Florida, and they run a rental business with that Chicago place (I actually have confirmation from the building management that they've been renting it out since 2009). As for her, I suspect she might be working under the table and perhaps even collecting some sort of social assistance since she's divorced.
Also, do you have any general advice on what I should do if she just refuses to keep up with the loan payments?
Is there any way to prove all this in court? And if there is, where can I go to get official documentation or verification regarding everything I know?
On top of all this, I started my own small business back in late 2007 and took out a loan for a car in August 2007 that doesn't expire until July 2014. Could they potentially garnish my car or my business assets too?
🙂 Desperate New York City 😠 |
You need to be extremely careful!
If your friend stops paying and she has zero income or assets, you are the first target. They go after the person first, then the property.