Hannah Diaz said:wearyhawk83, why do you always jump straight to the negative? Who's doing the insulting? I was just laying out the facts... the ones that actually exist, even if we try to hide them... I get what you're getting at, and honestly, that's exactly my point... we're talking about the same thing.😉
Being human isn't easy... and yeah, maybe we are pretty pathetic.
I'm just calling it like I see it!
I usually go for the negative take because people tend to overstate positivity and shove all that extra "baggage" under the rug, thinking it’ll just vanish on its own. Newsflash: nothing ever just disappears. We need to be crystal clear that toxic crap isn't actually part of being a positive person. If we don't, we’re going to end up exactly like the people we see today—folks who only do good things when there's a cash prize or an emotional payoff involved. It leads to this messed-up reality where "love" somehow includes physical abuse alongside a kiss, and "happiness" becomes nothing more than a hollow substitute for money, sex, a fancy degree, some mental health struggles, and four failed marriages.
No way! Negative vibes aren't some mandatory package deal that comes bundled with the good stuff.
I honestly believe we have to call out all the nonsense and harmful lies floating around. If we’ve reached a point where we feel like we have to overcompensate by showering everyone with constant praise just so they don't notice how much things are rotting, then we are in serious trouble. Like, deep trouble. Look, there’s nothing wrong with highlighting the good stuff, but when everything else is absolute chaos, we can't spend all our time putting lipstick on a pig. We can't just close our eyes and pretend the problems aren't staring us right in the face. You have to acknowledge the issues, face them head-on, and actually fix them. Too many people are playing it safe and being cowards about it, and honestly, we're the ones enabling that cowardice by refusing to speak up!
Of course people get annoyed when I bring up the heavy stuff. It’s because they already know it's there, and talking about it stirs up all those uncomfortable feelings they've worked so hard to bury. They like to play this game where they pretend that if they just close their eyes and ignore the mess, it'll magically vanish. Newsflash: problems don't just disappear because you decided to take a nap. They’re still right there waiting for you when you wake up. Look, when it’s time to celebrate life, I am all in. I love a good party and I’m the first one to cheer. But when it feels right to call out the absolute garbage side of things? I’m gonna say it. If it feels like I’m talking about the "smell" too much, that’s not on me—it’s just a reflection of exactly where we are right now.
That’s where all the resentment and bitterness come from.