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Senior year burnout: Too many responsibilities and zero sleep

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bluewalker33 bluewalker33 MemberOP
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#1 ·
Tell me if it’s actually dangerous to be running on just 4 or 5 hours of sleep... junior year has been absolutely brutal, and it honestly feels like the workload just keeps piling up higher and higher. It’s easily the hardest year yet.

I’m already completely burnt out and exhausted, but I guess I have to grind through it like everyone else. The real struggle is figuring out how to balance everything, stay organized, and maybe squeeze in more than five hours of sleep once in a while.
And one last thing—is it even normal to feel this pushed to the limit when there are still seven months left? (Though we do get a 15-day break in mid-December) ????

Sorry if this sounds a bit messy, I'm in a rush.
vividorca9 vividorca9 Active Member
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#2 ·
bluewalker33 said:Tell me if it’s actually dangerous to be running on just 4 or 5 hours of sleep... junior year has been absolutely brutal, and it honestly feels like the workload just keeps piling up higher and higher. It’s easily the hardest year yet.

I’m already completely burnt out and exhausted, but I guess I have to grind through it like everyone else. The real struggle is figuring out how to balance everything, stay organized, and maybe squeeze in more than five hours of sleep once in a while.
And one last thing—is it even normal to feel this pushed to the limit when there are still seven months left? (Though we do get a 15-day break in mid-December) ????

Sorry if this sounds a bit messy, I'm in a rush.

You can try, but I don't know if you'll actually make it. It really comes down to how much your body demands sleep. A colleague of mine survives on sleep every other day, whereas I need a solid amount just to function. Personally, I refuse to believe you don't have time for six, seven, or even eight hours of sleep just because of college.
Get organized. Knock out half your work over the weekend or something. But seriously, my best advice is don't try making four hours of sleep a daily habit.

As for how healthy that is, I really can't tell you. You've got people who go years without sleep due to chronic insomnia, and then there are those who need ten-plus hours a day because of hypersomnia, but those are mostly outliers and extremes. I'm just saying, you can try it and see how it goes.

I once went five days without sleeping during finals week, and let me tell you, the sleep I got after that was the best sleep of my entire life. 🤣
Edward Murphy4 Edward Murphy4 Active Member
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joined Nov 2010
#3 ·
vividorca9 said:You can try, but I don't know if you'll actually make it. It really comes down to how much your body demands sleep. A colleague of mine survives on sleep every other day, whereas I need a solid amount just to function. Personally, I refuse to believe you don't have time for six, seven, or even eight hours of sleep just because of college.
Get organized. Knock out half your work over the weekend or something. But seriously, my best advice is don't try making four hours of sleep a daily habit.

As for how healthy that is, I really can't tell you. You've got people who go years without sleep due to chronic insomnia, and then there are those who need ten-plus hours a day because of hypersomnia, but those are mostly outliers and extremes. I'm just saying, you can try it and see how it goes.

I once went five days without sleeping during finals week, and let me tell you, the sleep I got after that was the best sleep of my entire life. 🤣

Good grief!😲😲😲
Were you actually out doing something, or what?😁
Jose Hayes4 Jose Hayes4 Newcomer
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joined Oct 2010
#4 ·
vividorca9 said:You can try, but I don't know if you'll actually make it. It really comes down to how much your body demands sleep. A colleague of mine survives on sleep every other day, whereas I need a solid amount just to function. Personally, I refuse to believe you don't have time for six, seven, or even eight hours of sleep just because of college.
Get organized. Knock out half your work over the weekend or something. But seriously, my best advice is don't try making four hours of sleep a daily habit.

As for how healthy that is, I really can't tell you. You've got people who go years without sleep due to chronic insomnia, and then there are those who need ten-plus hours a day because of hypersomnia, but those are mostly outliers and extremes. I'm just saying, you can try it and see how it goes.

I once went five days without sleeping during finals week, and let me tell you, the sleep I got after that was the best sleep of my entire life. 🤣

Are you saying you didn't get enough sleep for five days? No way you didn't close your eyes for 120 hours, especially if you were actually using your brain.

To the OP: if you actually manage your time right, you can get everything done, sleep normally, and still have some downtime to chill. After four years of school, you should've figured out the drill by now.
What kind of university is this where things are that intense?
Arthur Kim74 Arthur Kim74 Active Member
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#5 ·
If you aren't pulling twenty-hour days at college, you can probably find some time to catch some Z's😉
It’s totally normal to feel a little overwhelmed right now since everything feels so intense at the start of the semester, but once you actually get into the swing of things and manage your schedule properly, everything usually settles down...
Everyone has their own rhythm when it comes to sleep, and while most people seem fine on six to eight hours, there are always those outliers who need more or less...
If your body isn't used to running on very little rest, I wouldn't suggest forcing yourself into that kind of routine just for the sake of it...
Thomas Ward2 Thomas Ward2 Newcomer
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#6 ·
I mean, I really don't know how long you can actually study without passing out 🤷
Personally, if I don't get at least 8 hours of sleep, studying becomes impossible. I just end up staring at the pages like some kind of zombie 😁
driftingcanyon16 driftingcanyon16 Member
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#7 ·
bluewalker33 said:Tell me if it’s actually dangerous to be running on just 4 or 5 hours of sleep... junior year has been absolutely brutal, and it honestly feels like the workload just keeps piling up higher and higher. It’s easily the hardest year yet.

I’m already completely burnt out and exhausted, but I guess I have to grind through it like everyone else. The real struggle is figuring out how to balance everything, stay organized, and maybe squeeze in more than five hours of sleep once in a while.
And one last thing—is it even normal to feel this pushed to the limit when there are still seven months left? (Though we do get a 15-day break in mid-December) ????

Sorry if this sounds a bit messy, I'm in a rush.

I was thinking the exact same thing... 😢 this year has been absolutely killer for me. I've got two days from 9 to 5, one day from 9 to 7, and another one that runs from 9 to 8 😲 Friday is technically free, but there's a lecture and an elective I have to take. I honestly don't get people who design these schedules. I'm just going to have to make the most of my time on campus and try to get organized. What a mess...
redharbor9 redharbor9 Regular
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joined Aug 2009
#8 ·
Sleeping on 4 or 5 hours isn't dangerous, but crashing from 10 hours down to 5 overnight? That’s gonna be stressful. It's not life-threatening, just a shock to the system. You gotta taper it off gradually if you want it to stick. Most people claim they can't function without a full night's rest, but honestly, that's just nonsense. If you tell yourself you can't do it, you won't. It's all mental.

Also, you should definitely look into meditation. Start practicing it twice a day—once in the morning and once at night, maybe 20 minutes each session. It works wonders for recharging and actually cuts down how much sleep you need. I do it myself, and it's a game changer.
ruggedcyclist55 ruggedcyclist55 Newcomer
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joined Oct 2010
#9 ·
bluewalker33 said:Tell me if it’s actually dangerous to be running on just 4 or 5 hours of sleep... junior year has been absolutely brutal, and it honestly feels like the workload just keeps piling up higher and higher. It’s easily the hardest year yet.

I’m already completely burnt out and exhausted, but I guess I have to grind through it like everyone else. The real struggle is figuring out how to balance everything, stay organized, and maybe squeeze in more than five hours of sleep once in a while.
And one last thing—is it even normal to feel this pushed to the limit when there are still seven months left? (Though we do get a 15-day break in mid-December) ????

Sorry if this sounds a bit messy, I'm in a rush.

🤦 You're acting like you're working three jobs instead of just being a student... seriously, I managed to find time for everything even though my major is one of the hardest on campus. Just take a breath and stop stressing so much.
Morgan Bishop4 Morgan Bishop4 Active Member
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joined Jul 2009
#10 ·
What if you just... lowered the bar a little? Look, it’s not like you need to master every single detail right this second, and you definitely don't need to be the valedictorian of your class or whatever... or, I don't know, go ahead and wreck your health if having a degree is more important than actually living life.
And please, spare me the whole "I'm taking such an intense major and you wouldn't understand" routine, because we all know your syllabus is somehow uniquely impossible compared to everyone else's.
At the end of the day, you only have as many obligations as you choose to pile onto yourself... personally, I try to keep mine at a bare minimum.
James Chavez6 James Chavez6 Newcomer
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joined Oct 2010
#11 ·
Morgan Bishop4 said:What if you just... lowered the bar a little? Look, it’s not like you need to master every single detail right this second, and you definitely don't need to be the valedictorian of your class or whatever... or, I don't know, go ahead and wreck your health if having a degree is more important than actually living life.
And please, spare me the whole "I'm taking such an intense major and you wouldn't understand" routine, because we all know your syllabus is somehow uniquely impossible compared to everyone else's.
At the end of the day, you only have as many obligations as you choose to pile onto yourself... personally, I try to keep mine at a bare minimum.

Something like that,😁 and honestly, I'm also tackling a pretty demanding major here... it all really comes down to how you organize your life.😉
bluemason3 bluemason3 Veteran
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#12 ·
Not much to add here 🤣 though I find it hard to believe people just "can't find the time." Does that mean you're spending fifteen days a month just staring at a fax machine? 🤔

In my experience, long-term, you actually need less sleep if you go to bed earlier. Instead of grinding away—doing whatever, really—until 3 AM only to drag yourself up at 8, it’s better to hit the sack at 10 PM and wake up at 3.

I’ve heard some talk about polyphasic sleep experiments—breaking it up into chunks to save time—but I don't know much about it and haven't tried it myself. 🤔
redharbor9 redharbor9 Regular
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joined Aug 2009
#13 ·
bluemason3 said:Not much to add here 🤣 though I find it hard to believe people just "can't find the time." Does that mean you're spending fifteen days a month just staring at a fax machine? 🤔

In my experience, long-term, you actually need less sleep if you go to bed earlier. Instead of grinding away—doing whatever, really—until 3 AM only to drag yourself up at 8, it’s better to hit the sack at 10 PM and wake up at 3.

I’ve heard some talk about polyphasic sleep experiments—breaking it up into chunks to save time—but I don't know much about it and haven't tried it myself. 🤔

I remember those days back when I was stuck at the office; everyone wondered how I pulled everything off. Most people just went from their desk to their car and still couldn't get anything done, yet I was juggling a massive workload, social life, and errands... and still crushed it.

Personally, I think people like that just waste way too much time overthinking about how they won't get things done...

I heard about some experiments with split sleeping—basically not doing it all in one go—and claims that you can save time that way, but I don't know anything about it and haven't tried it myself. 🤔

Polyphasic sleep... it works great if you can actually pull it off, but with how we live today, it's almost impossible to make it work.
bluemason3 bluemason3 Veteran
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#14 ·
redharbor9 said:I remember those days back when I was stuck at the office; everyone wondered how I pulled everything off. Most people just went from their desk to their car and still couldn't get anything done, yet I was juggling a massive workload, social life, and errands... and still crushed it.

Personally, I think people like that just waste way too much time overthinking about how they won't get things done...

I heard about some experiments with split sleeping—basically not doing it all in one go—and claims that you can save time that way, but I don't know anything about it and haven't tried it myself. 🤔

Polyphasic sleep... it works great if you can actually pull it off, but with how we live today, it's almost impossible to make it work.

Ever actually tried it?
bluewalker33 bluewalker33 MemberOP
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joined Feb 2010
#15 ·
Like I said, I’ve got the hang of certain things by now and I've seen it all before, but the real issue is keeping up with these projects. You have to turn them in exactly on schedule or you lose points. It’s a lot when you're juggling multiple projects while trying to study for exams at the same time.

Anyway, I'm just trying to push through. Sometimes I’ll pull a five-hour night if something urgent comes up, other times I’ll try to make up for it and sleep eight hours. Hopefully, I can survive another six months of this torture, though I'm getting more high-strung by the day and honestly just counting down the days until it's over. If I had a boyfriend, maybe it would be a little easier—he'd help me chill out, but since I don't... 🙂
redharbor9 redharbor9 Regular
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#16 ·
bluemason3 said:Ever actually tried it?

Nah, but there’s plenty of research on it... even Quincy did it... and some painter who learned from him famously said he finally had all the time he wanted for painting.😍

There's an adjustment period too (usually about 2 weeks).
redharbor9 redharbor9 Regular
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#17 ·
bluewalker33 said:Like I said, I’ve got the hang of certain things by now and I've seen it all before, but the real issue is keeping up with these projects. You have to turn them in exactly on schedule or you lose points. It’s a lot when you're juggling multiple projects while trying to study for exams at the same time.

Anyway, I'm just trying to push through. Sometimes I’ll pull a five-hour night if something urgent comes up, other times I’ll try to make up for it and sleep eight hours. Hopefully, I can survive another six months of this torture, though I'm getting more high-strung by the day and honestly just counting down the days until it's over. If I had a boyfriend, maybe it would be a little easier—he'd help me chill out, but since I don't... 🙂

Look, if you’d stop obsessing over how you aren't sleeping enough and exhausting yourself by trying to "catch up," your life would actually be easier. You're basically manifesting your own problems by convincing yourself they exist.
driftingcanyon16 driftingcanyon16 Member
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#18 ·
redharbor9 said:Look, if you’d stop obsessing over how you aren't sleeping enough and exhausting yourself by trying to "catch up," your life would actually be easier. You're basically manifesting your own problems by convincing yourself they exist.

🤦
What if you just stopped giving unsolicited advice?
Exhausting yourself by trying to "make up" for lost sleep... yeah, right. Like she's some spoiled kid who could just nap her way out of everything ☕
Edward Murphy4 Edward Murphy4 Active Member
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joined Nov 2010
#19 ·
Thomas Ward2 said:I mean, I really don't know how long you can actually study without passing out 🤷
Personally, if I don't get at least 8 hours of sleep, studying becomes impossible. I just end up staring at the pages like some kind of zombie 😁

This is literally me right now!🤣🤣
redharbor9 redharbor9 Regular
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#20 ·
driftingcanyon16 said:🤦
What if you just stopped giving unsolicited advice?
Exhausting yourself by trying to "make up" for lost sleep... yeah, right. Like she's some spoiled kid who could just nap her way out of everything ☕

I'm not even giving advice...

Trying to make up for lost sleep... yeah, right. Such a spoiled brat, thinking she can just sleep her way out of it.☕

Yeah, she'd sleep more if she actually believed she was sleep-deprived... You want to go down the rabbit hole of actual sleep studies and the data behind it?🙂

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