ruggedbison11 said:Something just isn't clicking here, or maybe it is and it’s just plain stupid. I don't see the logic in saying she's constantly running with me or always by my side like that—it's not even like I'm choosing to have her there, it's her making the call. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying I don't want her near me, but she's the one pulling all the strings and driving the whole damn thing.
Look, on the flip side, I actually sat her down and told her straight up that if she wants to go do her own thing instead of just sitting around watching me all day, I totally get it. I told her there’s zero reason for me to be tripping or getting worked up about it, so she shouldn't feel any pressure from my end either.
Look, I didn't say she isn't attracted to you, or that she doesn't love you, or that you're gross or boring,
feel free to add more here. I'm saying she's just completely burnt out on the
relationship. So, it’s not weird at all that she’s still buzzing around you.
That tendency to blow tiny things out of proportion? That’s probably just people messing with her (or at least that's how she takes it), but this issue is a whole different beast because what comes next is...
Everything is your fault!!!Honestly, I have some advice, but I’m not sure if it’s actually worth it for you in the long run. Actually, depending on how you answer the question at the end, I don't even know if it's worth doing at all. 🤷
Just talk to her whenever you both have a moment. Tell her everything that's on your mind. And the rest of the time? Just be a pushover. Because every single time you give her a wrong look, she’s going to turn it into a massive drama.
Is she your first girlfriend?
