#21 ·
It seems to me that people tend to build their entire worldview upon the narrow foundation of their own lived experiences—those specific, gritty realities they’ve touched and felt personally. There is this stubborn refusal to truly grasp someone else's argument if they haven't walked in those exact shoes themselves; they won't even bother to squint and try to view the landscape from another person's vantage point. It’s a fundamental failure of empathy, really. Then, of course, you have the ego at play, that heavy, suffocating weight that prevents most folks from ever admitting they were wrong or pivoting when presented with a better truth. But honestly, that’s an internal battle they have to fight within their own souls; they need that sudden, sharp moment of clarity where it finally clicks that learning from others is the only way to actually grow. And don't even get me started on the types who feel the need to belittle others just to prop themselves up—people driven by a deep-seated dissatisfaction with their own lives and a pervasive sense of frustration. Such individuals will never touch wisdom, because true wisdom is born from understanding others, not crushing them. Ultimately, trying to apply rigid, textbook logic to the messy reality of human interaction is a lost cause; it’s much like trying to speak nothing but high literary prose in a casual conversation at a local diner. Just as formal language exists primarily in books, there will always be a "vernacular logic" and a "conversational reasoning" that governs how we actually interact in the real world.