Lawrence Wright7
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joined Mar 2010
Hmm...
I can't quite wrap my head around what’s going to happen starting January 1st if FIFA gets their hands involved in this mess...
I'm sitting here wondering if there's any way I can actually play this situation to my advantage...?
For instance...
Here's the breakdown: my paycheck is roughly $1333
. I've got a court order for child support dating back to $307, and after that, everything else goes straight toward my mortgage via automatic withdrawal $1267. I've got an overdraft limit and some Chase and Wells Fargo cards with deferred payments.
Honestly, I'm just shuffling money from one empty pocket to another at this point.
Let me give you an example:
What if I shut down the overdraft (which I'm not even using right now) and instead of the automatic payment, I request a freeze on the loan itself? What would actually happen then? My employer wouldn't be able to pay me anything—literally ZERO dollars, right????? There has to be something left over just to survive, surely? I realize that if I did that, I'd lose my credit cards and the overdraft, and I'd just end up stacking debt on the loan because I wouldn't be paying the full installment. Look, I get it—child support comes first, and that's fine. But would I have even a single cent left for basic living expenses?
And God, the misery just keeps piling up because
it's almost been three months since I've had to start covering these overdue child support payments.
Basically, the court handed down the ruling, and I pleaded with my ex for some breathing room
so I could sell my condo. Even though she knows exactly how bad things are, she barely agreed to a six-month grace period, and that deadline is looming while I still haven't found a buyer.
What happens if those back payments hit my paycheck all at once!!??
The judgment says they can take half of my income, which means about $667, but I still have a $3,800 mortgage to cover.
Alright. I've got maybe three months left. But what the hell am I supposed to do after that??