Sex and grammar?!? Seriously?

If someone corrects my grammar during a normal chat, I’d totally take it as a cute way of breaking the ice—kind of like when a guy brushes a stray hair out of your face or something—but when it happens in a hot chat...👎

I haven't even seen that happen in a normal chat room—not because my grammar is perfect, but just because it’s a style of talking where you don't worry about typos, and things move so fast that everyone’s bound to mess up at some point

honestly, a random night in an adult chat is basically a psychological study in itself

It’s honestly so obnoxious when people try to act like they're always right—like, seriously, we all mess up sometimes

That’s exactly why I started this thread... It’s true. If people say there's "no time for that" during the heat of the moment, what happens later? Once the hookup—or sex in general—is over, don't they end up saying things like, "Hey, remember when you told me you were really good at..." and then they use the wrong tense or some weird phrasing?

Robin Jackson9 said:That’s exactly why I started this thread... It’s true. If people say there's "no time for that" during the heat of the moment, what happens later? Once the hookup—or sex in general—is over, don't they end up saying things like, "Hey, remember when you told me you were really good at..." and then they use the wrong tense or some weird phrasing?

Are you seriously trying to turn this into a debate about grammar and sex now? 🤷

We all make mistakes when we're typing things out here, but I definitely agree that certain little things can be an eyesore, even if they seem minor. For instance, using weird punctuation or typos like "YOU WOULD" instead of "you would," and stuff like that. Generally, I don't go around correcting people, but I actually appreciate it when someone points out my own slip-ups... it's funny how some people do it just to be condescending, while others genuinely want to help—it’s wild how much those two groups differ. As for correcting grammar during intimacy... well, if we accept someone for who they truly are right from the start, there's really no reason to belittle them in such an awkward, vulnerable moment. If their grammar was such an issue for us, why did we get intimate with them in the first place? Is it just to feel superior or to put them down? I really can't stand that attitude. To me, that's a much bigger issue than any simple typo.

Sandra Parker3 said:Are you seriously trying to turn this into a debate about grammar and sex now? 🤷

Stop spamming my thread.

briskowl62 said:We all make mistakes when we're typing things out here, but I definitely agree that certain little things can be an eyesore, even if they seem minor. For instance, using weird punctuation or typos like "YOU WOULD" instead of "you would," and stuff like that. Generally, I don't go around correcting people, but I actually appreciate it when someone points out my own slip-ups... it's funny how some people do it just to be condescending, while others genuinely want to help—it’s wild how much those two groups differ. As for correcting grammar during intimacy... well, if we accept someone for who they truly are right from the start, there's really no reason to belittle them in such an awkward, vulnerable moment. If their grammar was such an issue for us, why did we get intimate with them in the first place? Is it just to feel superior or to put them down? I really can't stand that attitude. To me, that's a much bigger issue than any simple typo.

I mean, sure, correcting someone with good intentions is fine, and obviously nobody's gonna correct your syntax in the middle of a hookup... but just because you're getting down or having sex doesn't mean you "adore every single thing about the person"... including their grammar. Like, maybe I love everything about her except for those necklaces she wears, but I'm not gonna pass on sex just because of that... 🙂

It's more about this: if those are the moments where grammar isn't even on your mind, should you really have to tolerate someone correcting you the second the sex is over? Like:
"Hey, remember when you said I was great at [X]? Thanks for the compliment, but actually, I don't do [X], I do [Y]" or something like that?