bluebison70 said:Well, I guess nobody can actually write a manual for how you live your personal life, but having some baseline standards for behavior on a forum... that seems necessary, maybe even essential.
It happens quite often where people stop arguing the actual point and start attacking the person instead—you know, going *ad hominem*. It turns into these unnecessarily intense clashes that don't really mean anything, they just sort of "clutter up" the forum. Honestly, I’ve found myself getting provoked more than once, feeling the need to defend myself, and then I suppose I've gone a bit too far with some pretty blunt words and stuff. I think we should probably allow total freedom of thought; I don't think anyone needs to be banned for their opinions. Like, if someone truly believes Hitler was some kind of great humanist, well, that's their issue. We can just ignore it, move on, and leave it at that. But it's a different thing entirely when people start slapping labels on others or throwing insults around. Personal matters should stay completely out of the forum. This is just an online space; people can talk to whoever they want, and they don't have to bother the rest of us.
Then there's the whole moderator situation on certain forums. It's a unique case. I don't know exactly how they carry themselves elsewhere, but there really ought to be some standard for them, too. It shouldn't happen that someone who's poorly written or uneducated starts swinging the hammer over my head just because I wrote something they didn't like. If I'm not insulting anyone, and if I'm not doing anything against US laws, why would I get banned? A forum should be a place of freedom—democracy, really. A place for free speech and expressing thoughts and views. Even if I say something stupid, I guess... why punish me for that? Even people who aren't the brightest deserve rights and freedom of speech. Not all of us are geniuses capable of deep philosophy, but we can at least try to be decent and not insult people or things.
I wasn't really aiming this text at you, specifically. I just figured I'd take the opportunity to let you know I'm still around.
By all means, feel free to direct it at me as well. It won't bother me in the slightest.
The author of this piece has proceeded from an entirely flawed premise, which, if I may be so bold, speaks more to his own limitations than anyone else's. He operates under the assumption that internet forums are populated primarily by children.
And that is, quite frankly,
a fundamental falsehood because, quite simply, children have far better things to do with their time than haunt message boards. One need only look around to realize we are essentially sitting in a retirement community.
That nonsense regarding "real life" might find some purchase with a teenager, perhaps, but I cannot—and certainly will not—picture myself spending my Friday or Saturday nights lost in some neon-soaked disco club; I would likely lose my mind within fifteen minutes. Or perhaps he imagines us sitting on a park bench with a cheap beer? 😲
Consequently, the entire subject matter is misguided and utterly irrelevant. He has managed to miss his
TARGET AUDIENCE entirely. Furthermore, the comparison to video games is just plain absurd. I honestly don't even have the energy to comment on it.
The issue here is deeply personal for the author. This forum simply fails to meet his specific needs.
It fails to meet mine as well.
Beyond the fact that I personally know several people here whom I actually find interesting, I possess a significant advantage over any hypothetical youngsters lurking in the shadows. I have my own money, I have a car, and I have the absolute freedom to go about my business as I please. Therefore, I find it quite laughable when someone tries to attach conditions to interaction or project their own prejudices onto others.
The internet remains, without question, the most brilliant communication model ever devised; it imposes no boundaries whatsoever—in fact, it offers incredibly vast possibilities.
I can sit down at two in the morning, put my feet up on the table, crack open a Coca-Cola, grab a sandwich, and engage in conversation with whoever I choose.
I have absolutely zero interest in anyone's "real life," nor do I feel the slightest urge to go running around outside looking for someone or wandering through bars. All I require is the Democratic Party and a solid connection.