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Rebecca Cox2 Rebecca Cox2 Active MemberOP
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#1 ·
I’m well aware that most of what we crave in today's consumerist culture is manufactured. But for the vast majority of people, that doesn't change a thing—people act on needs they believe are genuine (after all, reality is just perception, right?) regardless of whether those needs are actually real or not.

mistyfox812 said:So it seems like we should dive a bit deeper into this relationship between actual needs versus "wants," and how rationality plays into it...

I couldn't agree more. Should we start a new thread for this?

My take is that human reason could help us distinguish "true" needs from "invented" ones if people were given the chance through proper education. Of course, providing that kind of awareness limits the potential for manipulation, which is exactly why those in positions of power are so reluctant to do it.

In my view, skepticism would be the first step toward achieving that. It’s also arguably the hardest step because it requires our brains to shift their perspectives based on new evidence—and fundamentally, the brain perceives that kind of cognitive shift as a threat to its own survival. You see this most clearly when someone starts questioning a system that provides immense security (like the concept of God and eternal life, for example).

Feel free to move this and your reply to a new topic if you think it deserves its own space...
mistyfox812 mistyfox812 Regular
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#2 ·
Alright, I’m pulling your post to kick off this whole new thread.

People always love to draw this line between "primary" and "secondary" needs. Like, they say primary stuff is just breathing, water, food, shelter, sex, and whatever else... then everything else is just secondary.
But honestly? That whole idea of what's "primary" is kind of a joke. There are endless examples of people treating a "secondary" need like it's life or death. Think about someone going on a hunger strike for a cause. Or that "it’s her or nobody" mindset in a relationship—if you can't have that one specific person, you'll pass on everyone else. If it were just some basic physical urge, people wouldn't be that intense about it. Even things like suicide over social shame... it doesn't fit that simple math.
Sure, technically you need the basics covered to even care about the secondary stuff. Like, yeah, you gotta breathe and eat if you want to actually fight for your right to free speech. But the way we *feel*? It's totally different. Someone could feel like their freedom matters way more than a meal—and they might actually refuse to eat if they don't have that freedom.
Rebecca Cox2 Rebecca Cox2 Active MemberOP
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#3 ·
I’d argue that any instance where secondary needs take precedence over primary ones is essentially an anomaly—a distortion caused by extreme circumstances.

Besides, it's quite rare for an entire group—say, everyone held in a single federal penitentiary—to go on a hunger strike due to inhumane conditions.

My suggestion? Let’s first "crystallize" what constitutes the fundamental primary needs of all human beings, and then compare those to what people actually prioritize today.

For example, under the category of "other essential needs," I would include something I find vital: the need for maternal love and peer acceptance, regardless of how old you are.
mistyfox812 mistyfox812 Regular
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#4 ·
Honestly, this whole "primary vs. secondary" distinction is totally useless unless we actually agree on what the rules are.

I mean, picture this: at some point, someone just... "gets" it. They realize life is pointless, and suddenly they don't even care about eating or drinking, let alone finding love or hanging out with friends. It all just feels empty and unnecessary.

You’re calling it an anomaly—but that doesn't really explain anything. It’s just like when those folks at certain mega-churches start labeling things "natural" or "unnatural" without having any actual criteria. For them, "natural" just means whatever they happen to approve of.
Ashley Ramirez41 Ashley Ramirez41 Member
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mistyfox812 said:But honestly, splitting everything into primary and secondary stuff is totally useless—unless we actually come up with some legit criteria to back it up.]👍


I mean, duh... that whole distinction is pretty much arbitrary, messy, and just doesn't get us anywhere.



But—and this is a big "but"—there’s still a point to talking about biological needs versus social ones. And you can even break down those social needs into primary (the stuff we're born needing) and secondary (the stuff we've picked up along the way).

Sure, if you really wanted to get pedantic, you could argue that *all* social needs are technically "produced" by society, but let's be real—the whole engine of modern American capitalism is basically just manufacturing artificial desires. So, the main difference here is really just about the timing, the momentum, and why they exist in the first place...
Rebecca Cox2 Rebecca Cox2 Active MemberOP
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#6 ·
Alright, let's approach this from this angle then...

First off, can we all agree that we, as the species known as "Homo sapiens sapiens," emerged through an evolutionary process driven by natural selection, sexual selection, and potentially other types of selection currently being studied?

(Even if there’s plenty of pushback from crowds who struggle to accept facts that clash with their own deeply held beliefs)

Once we establish that, we can move forward...
Ashley Ramirez41 Ashley Ramirez41 Member
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#7 ·
Rebecca Cox2 said:Alright, let's try this again...

First off—can we all just agree that us "Homo sapiens sapiens" folks only exist because of an evolutionary process driven by natural selection, sexual selection, and...



😕 "natural and sexual selection" 😕 😕





Maybe clarify what you actually mean there.




Evolution is a natural phenomenon. You could talk about "social evolution," sure, but that barely even touches the actual concept of evolution.
Evolutionary shifts happen over thousands or millions of generations...
Social changes—the massive ones!—can pop up within a single generation.
The timescales are totally different, so you really can't compare those two processes—and you definitely shouldn't be treating them as the same thing.
Frank Hernandez16 Frank Hernandez16 Newcomer
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#8 ·
Rebecca Cox2 said:My take? If you give people the right education, they might actually start distinguishing between "real" needs and those "fake" ones we just manufacture. Of course, once people get enlightened like that, it gets way harder to pull the strings, so the folks in power aren't exactly rushing to make that happen.

Look, there’s always going to be a baseline set of needs required just to stay alive. Everything else? That's mostly artificial fluff.

It’s pretty obvious that progress just creates more manufactured cravings. If time stood still, our basic requirements wouldn't change. Take Indian culture, for instance—it relies heavily on ancient traditions, especially out in the rural parts of the country.
Brenda Cook4 Brenda Cook4 Regular
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Frank Hernandez16 said:
Rebecca Cox2 said:My take? If you give people the right education, they might actually start distinguishing between what we truly need and those "manufactured" desires we're sold. Of course, once folks become more aware, it makes it much harder for those in power to pull the strings—which is exactly why they fight so hard against any kind of enlightenment.
There’s always going to be a core set of needs essential for basic survival. Everything else? Honestly, most of it is just artificial fluff.

It’s pretty obvious that as society advances, we just keep inventing new, unnecessary wants. If time stood still, our fundamental needs would stay exactly the same. Take Indian culture, for instance—in many rural areas there, life is still almost entirely rooted in ancient traditions.



This really hits home when you look at those 150 million people living on the absolute fringes of society(you know, those who are barely getting by on just enough scraps and sips of water to stay alive long enough to perform the grueling, menial labor they've been relegated to for generations)... it's such a stark contrast to the lifestyles and demands of the upper echelons of that ancient social hierarchy.
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Rebecca Cox2 Rebecca Cox2 Active MemberOP
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#10 ·
Ashley Ramirez41 said:


😕 Natural and sexual selection. 😕 😕





Could you elaborate on that? I'd love to hear more about what you mean.



I’m simply describing what people are today: nearly hairless, upright beings with large heads and brains. We are creatures that utilize tools, possessing an imagination capable of conjuring entire other dimensions—whether those realms actually exist or not. We have developed complex linguistic structures to weave stories, and we possess enough intelligence to extract meaningful lessons from them. Most importantly, we have a cognitive framework that allows for some form of "free will"—be it illusory, limited, or absolute. Should we even get into a debate about that? Regardless, this is what we are. At least the last 100,000 to 150,000 years.And honestly, isn't it entirely possible that people possessing some—or even most—of those traits existed long, long before? I'm talking about hundreds of thousands of years ago.

So, if we take an extremely conservative estimate regarding the specific traits that actually define us as Homo sapiens... Natural selection at work. If we look at the "bottleneck" theory—where over 90% of our Homo species perished due to climate shifts following the last Ice Age, a fact backed up by the genetic markers found in Americans today—then what does that actually imply? Social structure. How should we actually organize ourselves? Is there anything truly different from a tribal system? Just 10% of our time. How long have we actually been this way?

Does this mean our brain—one of the most vital organs for our survival—is also fundamentally "wired" to function within a social framework? It seems we are shaped by the very dynamics of our relationships: the total number of people we interact with, gender, offspring count, the number of enemies outside our circle, and even the number of rivals competing for partners and progeny within our own group. Isn't it fascinating how much our biology relies on these social metrics?

In other words, our psychological state and how we interact with those around us—our social footprint—is essentially our phenotype. It’s all subject to the same evolutionary forces and pressures driven by natural selection. After all, isn't sexual selection merely a specific subset of that broader process?

Does this mean our brains simply aren't wired to handle the massive societal shifts you’re talking about? We are witnessing several fundamental transformations within a single generation right now—how can we possibly keep up?

So, what's the bottom line? Needs. What truly drives us today? If you strip away the noise, aren't our core needs exactly the same as they were 100, 1,000, or even 100,000 years ago? It seems to me that while we've spent the last 10,000 years obsessing over "civilizational needs"—all those complexities born from the dawn of agriculture—our fundamental essence hasn't shifted an inch. Why do we act like we're so different from our ancestors?

Clean. Biological needs. The basic biological necessities that lead to death if they are suddenly removed—air, water, food, and occasionally shelter depending on the environment—aren't really up for debate. They aren't exactly deep philosophical puzzles, are they? Unless you start pairing them with something more abstract, like the need for freedom, these requirements are just plain, obvious facts of life. That is, unless you happen to encounter someone who can survive solely on sunlight.

They seem much more engaging and far more rewarding to debate, don't you think? What truly drives us? It’s more than just physical survival; it’s about those deep-seated psychological needs that keep us grounded. We often overlook how much our mental well-being depends on feeling understood, valued, and connected to the world around us. Without meeting these core emotional requirements, can we ever truly feel fulfilled? What about those things you call "social needs"? I’m talking about the essentials—things like seeking validation from a mother, earning respect from your peers, or even the fundamental drives for freedom, security, fairness, and perhaps faith. Isn't that the core of it?

To have a productive debate without descending into total misunderstanding—which, judging by the attached, is exactly what would happen—we first need to agree on some fundamental premises. It’s like trying to discuss the mechanisms of evolution only to have a creationist jump in claiming there’s no evidence for it at all. Isn't that just a complete waste of everyone's time? I've learned that lesson more than a few times.

Ashley Ramirez41 said:

Evolution is a natural process. You might be able to talk about "social evolution," but that hardly has anything to do with actual evolution.

But aren't societies that survived through natural selection also naturally created?

"Social evolution" is just as much a natural process as "biological evolution." Beyond that—this very evolution directly impacts the survival odds of biological organisms within that society. The fact that it operates on a faster timescale is pretty irrelevant, not to mention the next point—that...

...those two processes cannot be compared—let alone equated.

- that's pure arbitrary taxonomy; an arbitrary distinction that would—in a biological analogy—claim a whale is a fish rather than a mammal simply because it lacks legs and swims in the ocean.

Have I clarified my point a bit better?

And can we agree that evolution (both biological and social) continues to act upon us—shaping our brains and our behavior—due to new conditions and evolutionary pressures created by environmental changes (regardless of how those changes came about)? What I mean is that the evolutionary process didn't just stop at some specific moment or era; it is still happening right now.
mistyfox812 mistyfox812 Regular
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#11 ·
Rebecca Cox2, I honestly find it super weird that you're trying to define our modern needs by looking at how people lived ten thousand years ago—especially since we barely know anything about how they actually functioned. To me, it feels like a total cop-out to just push everything into this vague, blurry territory so we can say, "Oh, it's fine, no big deal."

And regarding this whole thing about biological vs. social needs... help me out here: "I need her! She's the only one for me, and without her, life isn't even worth living!"
Is that nature? Is that society?

As far as I can tell, the only things that are actually, 100% essential are air, then water, food, and sleep.
Anything else isn't strictly "necessary"—I mean, sure, if you strip everything else away, you're basically just existing, which makes you wonder what actually makes a human life feel human in the first place.

Personally, I think being able to create poetry is a primal human need, just as much as sex is. 🙂 Who's with me on that?
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#12 ·
Ashley Ramirez41 said:


😕 "natural and sexual selection" 😕 😕





Maybe you could clarify what you mean by that.




Evolution is a natural process. You might talk about "social evolution," I suppose, but that barely has anything to do with biological evolution.
Biological changes take thousands or millions of generations.
Social (massive!) changes can happen within a single generation.
The timescales are fundamentally different, so those two processes shouldn't be compared—and they certainly shouldn't be equated.

😬 Evolution doesn't really exist, I guess. I mean, one bird hasn't evolved into an intelligent, talking creature over millions of years, nor has the human race grown wings or developed hooves. (Which is what you'd expect from evolutionary theory, presumably.) And social evolution hasn't happened either. Despite our high level of industrialization and rising standards of living, we still live in essentially feudal relationships where money calls all the shots. So, we haven't reached some utopian, humane society where everyone is equal. Indigenous tribes in the Amazon still live in the rainforest, even though they know it's the 21st century and that humans have walked on the moon. Then there were the two World Wars back in the 1900s, one right after the other, fought for reasons everyone knows, and now there are countless local wars happening everywhere... so where is this "social evolution"? How are ancient barbarian hordes actually different from neo-Nazis, cultists, or guerilla fighters?
Rebecca Cox2 Rebecca Cox2 Active MemberOP
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mistyfox812 said:Rebecca Cox2, I find it genuinely strange that you’re attempting to define our modern needs by looking back at what people required ten thousand years ago—especially when we actually know so much less about them than we do about ourselves today. Doesn't it feel like there's a tendency here to push the actual issue into some vague, foggy territory just so we can claim "there's no problem"?

Quite the opposite. I am actually trying to convince you that it exists. What truly drives us? When you strip away the noise of daily life, what are those fundamental, universal human needs that actually move the needle?Are there certain truths that remain just as present today among the vast majority of people—not everyone, of course, since there’s always that outlier edge on the bell curve—as they were 10,000, 100,000, or even a million years ago?

Some of these needs have already been validated by psychologists, neurologists, and biologists—the scientific community at large has largely caught up. Yet, there is still such fierce resistance to accepting these "controversial findings." Why is that? It seems to stem from three distinct camps: politicians and social theorists who cling to the dogma of the "tabula rasa," religious enclaves and certain philosophers who remain wedded to the idea of the "ghost in the machine," and the critics of civilization who romanticize the "noble savage." I'll admit, I used to fall right into that last group myself.

mistyfox812 said:When we look at the distinction between biological needs and social ones, how do we interpret a sentiment like this? "I want her and only her! No one else—without her, life isn't worth living. I need her!" Is this an expression of a primal, biological drive, or is it rooted in deep-seated social and emotional requirements? Where exactly does that line get drawn?
Nature? Or society?

It’s either one or the other, or perhaps neither. Would "that person" actually take their own life if something were to happen to "her" by accident? Or would they simply drift through life out of pure habit, lacking the will to ever seek out someone else? And if that’s how they choose to live, isn't it true that no one will bother looking for them? It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Would "that person" just settle for whatever they feel they need to get by, or would they wait until someone truly compatible finally comes along?

It most likely boils down to a mix of genetic and biological predispositions—think intelligence, temperament, whether you're an introvert or an extrovert—blended with environmental factors like social conditioning and life experience. Am I oversimplifying things there? Or am I just stating the obvious?🤣 🤔

mistyfox812 said:From where I stand, there’s no debating the absolute essentials: air, then water, followed by food and sleep. Isn't that the fundamental truth of it all?
Anything else isn't exactly "necessary." Honestly, if that’s all you have, life just becomes a slow crawl toward nothingness. It makes you wonder: where is the actual humanity in a life lived like that?

That’s an excellent observation. It’s highly likely that a small, select group of people finds that way of life sufficient. But we have to ask ourselves: how much does that lifestyle actually reflect our nature as Americans? In other words, What truly defines the humanity within a human life?

mistyfox812 said:Look, I truly believe poetry is a primal human necessity, just as fundamental as sex. 🙂Who can argue with that?

Poetry is really just a subset of a more basic drive: the urge to express our thoughts, emotions, and observations through a unique lens. At its core, it's all just a way of documenting our experiences and how we interact with the world around us.

Whether you channel that energy into poetry, music, scientific papers, philosophical treatises, or even just keeping a journal or writing a novel—that’s ultimately a matter of personal choice. But all of these are simply branches of the same tree: the brain's innate need to keep itself occupied with meaningful activity. It's a leftover trait from when we had to become "creative visionaries" just to survive (which explains why our brains are constantly hunting for new "problems" to solve today).
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coppernomad59 said:😬 Evolution just doesn't exist. If it did, why hasn't a single bird evolved into an intelligent, speaking creature over millions of years? Why haven't humans grown wings or developed hooves? That’s what evolutionary theory would actually require us to see, isn't it? The same logic applies to social evolution. Despite our massive industrial leaps and rising standards of living, we still live under essentially feudal conditions where the sheer power of money dictates everything. We haven't actually progressed toward some utopian, humane society where everyone is truly equal. Even today, certain tribes live in deep jungles, fully aware that we are in the 21st century and have even walked on the moon. Look at our history: in the 20th century alone, we endured two World Wars back-to-back, fought for all the obvious reasons, and now we're surrounded by endless local conflicts. Where exactly is this "social evolution" everyone talks about? How are ancient barbarian hordes really any different from modern neo-Nazis, cultists, or guerilla fighters?

Is there any way to actually convince you that evolution through natural selection is an established fact? Or that violence—rather than some concept of sin—is simply hardwired into the human species? I mean, wouldn't we have failed to survive otherwise?

Honestly, has anyone actually read a single book other than the Bible?

I honestly can't wrap my head around this level of willful ignorance toward reality and the blatant distortion of evolutionary theory. At this point, the only logical response is to simply ignore posts like this—which is exactly what I plan to do moving forward. 👎
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Rebecca Cox2 said:Actually, it's the exact opposite. I'm trying to convince you guys that universal human needs are just as real today for the vast majority of people (not everyone, obviously—there’s always that outlier at the edge of the bell curve) as they were 10,000, 100,000, or even a million years ago.)

If you ask me, any way you look at history is filtered through how we see the present and what we want for the future (even if the person doing the interpreting doesn't realize it, and even when things get framed as "historical fact," I still think it's all just interpretation). So, I'm definitely not convinced—actually, I'm totally skeptical—that anyone can have a clear picture of what people needed 100,000 years ago. Honestly, any story about their needs feels like nothing more than a myth to me (and yeah, that includes those old stories about the "noble savage").
Rebecca Cox2 said:It could be either, or neither. Would "that person" kill themselves if "she" accidentally had something happen to them? Or would they just keep going out of "habit" without actually wanting to find someone else (and if they live like that, nobody will even bother looking for "that person"—talk about a self-fulfilling prophecy)? Or would "that person" just steal whatever they need until they find someone whose company actually fits "them"?

It's probably just some mix of genetic/biological stuff (intelligence, being an introvert or extrovert, temperament...) and environmental factors (what you learned and picked up from society), you know? Heh, did I just say something super obvious there?... 🤣 🤔

Yeah, I just wanted to point out again how sketchy it is to try and pull "natural" stuff away from "social" stuff.
Rebecca Cox2 said:Poetry is basically just a subset of "real needs," specifically expressing your thoughts, feelings, and observations in a unique way, which is really just a way of recording your experiences and communicating with the world around you.

Whether you do that through poetry, music, scientific or philosophical papers, writing novels, or even just a diary—that's just a choice. But all of those are subsets of the need to keep the brain busy with some kind of activity, something left over from when we had to become "creative visionaries" just to survive (so now our brains are constantly hunting for "problems" to solve).

So, here's the big question: Is this just leftover stuff we do for fun, like some unnecessary extra... or maybe it's actually the very thing that defines us as humans, making it, in a sense, our most primal human need.
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#16 ·
Human necessities...
The fundamental needs of a person are inherently human...
We consume food, we draw breath, and we drink water simply to sustain our existence...
Yet, survival is rarely a solitary endeavor; it requires the support of others (socially speaking)...
Does this not imply a profound duality in our nature? On one hand, an individual seeks self-actualization—the internal drive to discover and fulfill oneself; on the other, there is an essential yearning to find a kindred spirit who offers understanding, support, and affection. Thus, we remain tethered to the need for another human being...
In those extreme, tragic instances where someone takes their own life because of another, they are essentially failing to satisfy their most vital necessity...
But should we truly classify food, water, and air as "needs"?
I would hesitate to label these basic elements of existence as true needs...
Consider those who live in misery despite possessing "everything they need" (water, nourishment, and oxygen)...
Even those driven to suicide often have access to all those physical essentials (water, food, and air)...
It appears, then, that these biological functions are not needs at all, but rather ingrained habits acquired by the body to facilitate the proper functioning of the spirit...
Proof2: If food, drink, and air were truly needs, why do some individuals exhibit such disordered compulsions toward them, given that we are all biologically predisposed to similar requirements?
(Take, for instance, those struggling with extreme obesity).
Perhaps "needs" would be more accurately defined as a temporary state of deficiency or a hierarchy of priorities. However, I must reiterate that material resources can never constitute a true need, for while they may be omnipresent, they are never truly indispensable to the essence of being...
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nobody and nothing said:Anything else isn't strictly "necessary"—and if that's the case, life just becomes a slow crawl toward the grave, leaving one to wonder what actually makes a human life worth living.

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