CheckEmoji Community · the emoji forum
🏠 Home 🆕 What's new ❓ Unanswered 🔥 Popular 📡 RSS Members 👥 0 online log in · register
Home › Society › Psychology › Need some help dealing with depression

Need some help dealing with depression

Started by Anonymous · · 👁 10 views · 66 replies

📡 Subscribe to replies

Participants AAnthony Harris14Rachel Walker56Dennis Lopez46Kate Anderson83Arthur BarnesLawrence Garcia93Jesse Jones10Larry Lewis2Daniel Fox9silvermason16Sandra Walker82analogwolf4George Taylor94Timothy Campbell2gentlepanther10northernskipper41Justin Rodriguez81Frank Cooper3Anthony Booth42
gentlepanther10 gentlepanther10 Member
13 messages
joined Nov 2005
#61 ·
analogwolf4 said:That is just wild... seriously unreal... a divorce judge? haha... you really cracked me up with that one...

Look, if she had just walked away back then—you know, before she even hit 35,
(back when she was first hospitalized, mostly because she just couldn't handle things or find any way to actually live her life), she wouldn't have dealt with depression in the first place!

I mean, if she’d been living her own life without that idiot dragging her down, she wouldn't have had a single reason to spiral into a depressive state.

northernskipper41! 👍

Seriously though, if it wasn't for you, that "friend" of yours probably wouldn't have even kicked off (or nudged her along) the whole medical process.😉
Justin Rodriguez81 Justin Rodriguez81 Newcomer
2 messages
joined Nov 2005
#62 ·
gentlepanther10 said:Aren't choleric types prone to depression?

😂 🤣 🙂 🙂
gentlepanther10 gentlepanther10 Member
13 messages
joined Nov 2005
#63 ·
Justin Rodriguez81 said:😂 🤣 🙂 🙂

Man, I actually managed to make someone laugh today, which is a win in my book. 😬

So, just so you get a sense of my ex—this total hot-headed manager type who spent half an hour screaming at me (seriously, just because I crushed my targets while he was out of the office?!)—you wouldn't believe how much he crumbled the second I dropped my resignation on his desk and told him I was heading home...

This guy, who’s basically a 6'1", 360lb wall of ego, suddenly shrunk down into nothing... he was practically sobbing while trying to explain why he acts the way he does...
It was honestly one step away from him dropping to his knees and begging for sympathy...

An hour later, it hit me—the guy is just deeply depressed. He’s ashamed of himself, and that whole aggressive persona is just a mask he wears to survive...

And honestly? He isn't the only one walking around this world hiding behind a mask. 😉
Frank Cooper3 Frank Cooper3 Member
36 messages
joined Dec 2005
#64 ·
Can depression trigger these dark, heavy thoughts that press down on you so hard you feel like you’re actually losing your mind? And does it cause this heightened fear of getting sick—whether it's mental or physical—basically spiraling into hypochondria? Also, are people dealing with depression necessarily going to be high-strung, irritable, or prone to those massive mood swings?
northernskipper41 northernskipper41 Member
24 messages
joined Nov 2005
#65 ·
Frank Cooper3 said:Is it normal to have these dark, heavy thoughts during depression—the kind that weigh you down so much you feel like you're actually losing your mind?

And can it cause intense health anxiety, like hypochondria, where you're constantly terrified of getting sick, whether it's mental or physical?

Also, are people with depression always super high-strung, irritable, and prone to mood swings?

1. Yeah. Total nonsense starts looping in a depressed person's head. It’s usually a warped view of themselves and the world because of chemical imbalances in certain parts of the brain.
Most of the time, the person actually knows their fears aren't realistic, but no matter how hard they try, they just can't shake those thoughts.

2. Definitely. People often think—or straight-up feel—like their organs are failing (heart issues, etc.), or deal with headaches, fatigue, weakness, and a whole list of symptoms that look like actual illnesses. This leads them and even their doctors down a rabbit hole of endless testing (full blood panels, enzyme checks, glucose levels, mono/CMV antibodies, X-rays, EKGs, ultrasounds, thyroid tests...), only for everything to come back perfectly normal. By the end, the patient is exhausted from all the testing, or the doctor tells them nothing is wrong, or—in a better scenario—finally lands on a depression diagnosis.

Depression can be triggered by other medical issues (like thyroid problems or Vitamin B deficiency) or it can stand entirely on its own.

It also frequently shows up alongside other conditions (comorbidity), like OCD, generalized anxiety disorder,
panic disorder,
social phobia,
or PTSD.
The go-to treatment for these
usually involves antidepressants (specifically SSRIs).

3. They sure can.
You might see agitation and restlessness—people who can't sit still, pacing the house, fidgeting, picking at their hair, or tapping their fingers.😁 On the flip side, there's the total shutdown: facial numbness, lethargy, or being too checked out to even watch TV.
Then there's sleep issues (can't fall asleep at night, waking up way too early, or sleeping all day but still feeling drained). Motivation just vanishes.
They also get hypersensitive to noise (phones, talking, whatever)—everything is annoying. They might have outbursts, lose control easily, struggle to focus, or deal with brain fog.

People say depression has a thousand different faces for a reason.
Anthony Booth42 Anthony Booth42 Newcomer
3 messages
joined Dec 2005
#66 ·
Kikaa said:I’m struggling with depression. One minute everything feels fine, and the next, it feels like the ground is slipping out from under me and everything is sinking. There are moments when I feel genuinely motivated and enthusiastic about life—looking forward to tomorrow and feeling truly grateful for everything I have and everything happening to me.

But often, whenever I'm not in that great headspace, I feel like I have nothing to live for, like I'm unloved, and I just don't have the energy for work. My perfect day would be just crawling into bed and sleeping it off. I give up on my dreams quickly because they start to seem impossible, and if they're impossible, why even bother trying? Why just head toward disappointment?

One day, I went to see a psychic who summed all this up in a single sentence. She told me I have a lot of bad energy coming from my past and that I need to close that chapter before I can move forward, offering to help since she's a "spiritual healer." I just said thanks, but no thanks. I don't believe in that stuff; I'm more of a realist who thinks this is just some chemical imbalance in my body.

I really want to get rid of these mood swings and the depression, but I don't want to see a doctor. It feels silly to me, and I don't believe in taking things like antidepressants; I think there's another way.

Does anyone have any ideas? Please...

Through prayer! That helps most, and that's when God gives you strength. If you're a hard realist, find someone or a group that relaxes you (but NOT too much), and most importantly, someone who actually SUPPORTS you! Then just relax with a comedy. DON'T LISTEN TO PEOPLE WHO TELL YOU "everything will be fine"—that's like telling a blind person they'll see soon. Just don't sleep too much. Better to dream about the good days ahead, write down how you're feeling in a journal (you'll laugh at it later), and plan for the future; that's what provides support.
AGAIN, I REPEAT: FIND SUPPORT, BUT NOT FAKE SUPPORT THAT JUST PITYS YOU!

P.S. I'd also recommend a psychiatrist and antidepressants alongside everything else I mentioned, or a local priest (if you're religious)!

Wishing you the best in your recovery!👍 🙂
Frank Cooper3 Frank Cooper3 Member
36 messages
joined Dec 2005
#67 ·
Barack Obama, thanks for the deep dive 🙂 Thanks 🙂 Do you have any advice on how to pull yourself out of this hole alone, without needing a therapist if there's any way to avoid it? Especially if you've been stuck in this rut for two months now?

You must log in or register to reply here.

Log in Register

🔗 Similar threads