rowdydriver52 said:That was exactly my reason for quitting Aikido too. There’s just this massive, glaring disconnect between what people think, what they say, and... what they actually do. And let’s be honest, you judge a person by their actions, not by the uniform they wear.
Exactly!
I don't even think it needs further explanation, really.
I’ve read through everything carefully and gathered all the data. Thanks to you and your friend for providing those details from PM USA.
Now all that's left for me is to check in with myself and see if I can actually relate to all of this or not.
While browsing an Aikido Club website, I stumbled upon a text that really resonated with me, so I'm pasting it here for everyone to see:
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Core Principles
- Reacting promptly and decisively,
- Aligning physical action and the mind with the beings around you,
- Radiating inner peace into your surroundings,
- Controlling the energy of both body and mind,
- Using powerful internal energy solely for the well-being of oneself and all living things on Earth,
- Standing firmly and courageously for cosmic truth,
- Utilizing Aikido techniques and exercises for quality living.
Through practicing Aikido, we reach a state of body and spirit where we become complete masters of our entire being; nothing happens within us without our conscious awareness and will.
There is no need to overemphasize the practical application of all this in daily life—especially when we are surrounded by intense negative energies like fear, hatred, anger, rage, and egoism. In those moments, practicing Aikido becomes the key to eliminating those very energies from within ourselves. This is the true, realistic path to protecting oneself from the stress of modern times because, in our view, the fundamental cause of our stress lies within us, not outside of us.
When we are angry, jealous, fearful, hateful, enraged, or selfish, we are creating something inside ourselves; we become the source, the very cause of the condition known today as stress.
The cosmic Law of Cause and Effect becomes much clearer and more understandable through Aikido practice. We become aware of it on a global scale and in its entirety. By understanding this vital law and how it manifests, we become prepared to change our own actions, thoughts, and speech—our very personalities—by developing those positive qualities of the NEW HUMAN that sages have taught us throughout the centuries: love, self-sacrifice, unselfishness, inner peace, and respect for all beings—the awareness that we are, not just on this planet, but in the entire universe, ALL ONE BIG ONE.
To achieve this, for those who desire it, Aikido offers its unique philosophy, methods, and exercises.
To make it easier to understand and adopt, we will generally divide the Aikido exercises into:
a) Physical exercises,
b) Psycho-mental exercises,
c) Unified exercises.
Even the practice that appears to be purely physical isn't strictly physical in nature, because during such training, there must be an awareness of every movement, concentration solely on that specific exercise, synchronized breathing and motion, and visualization accompanying every single technique. Of course, while this physical movement primarily affects our bodies, it also impacts our spirit (our emotions and thoughts).
Psycho-mental exercises include: relaxation, mindfulness, breath control, visualization, and concentration. Their primary purpose is to act upon our mental body, though this inevitably, in certain ways, reflects onto our physical body as well. This is because we are, in essence, a unity of physical and mental, whereas in our practical lives here in the West, we still tend to separate them.
In the group of unified exercises, emphasis isn't placed on either the physical or the mental; rather, they are represented equally (such as the practice of conscious and relaxed "walking through a rock" using intense visualization and sensation).
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