briskdrifter3 said:So, you see your kids only when they email photos to your office? And you're perfectly fine with that?
You've packed a nine-year-old's life with endless commitments, but do you ever stop to ask when he actually gets to just be a kid—to play without a schedule? Or have you already conditioned him to reject play entirely? If that's the case, you're raising a little monster who will grow up to sit in some corporate corner office, terrorizing decent people who actually value family life over bleeding themselves dry for a company.
You are, quite frankly, a byproduct of this capitalist machine... though I suspect you haven't even realized it...
goldengull3 touched on this already, but I'll add my two cents: I'm raising my kid to value education and hard work. It's high on our list of priorities.
With a schedule like his, he's certainly not out roaming the streets aimlessly all day, which seems to be how some other parents handle things.
Sure, he plays with kids his age, but only after his responsibilities are handled.
For the record, the little guy actually wanted to take German classes and play soccer on top of everything else, but my wife and I said no. We figured it was a bit much for his age.
Once he grows up a bit, maybe we'll look at German. For now, no.
We jump on Skype regularly while I'm at work. Honestly, I think he's happy and proud of what he achieves.
And he's encouraged and motivated to reach those goals. Everything he gets, he earns. He has everything a child could need.
You think it's better to just hand things to him for nothing? I don't. That's how you raise a spoiled brat who can't function in the real world and can't even be bothered to get off his ass.
When I'm on vacation (I get four 38-day stretches a year), we spend as much time together as possible.
That includes hiking, sports, and just talking... so he isn't missing out on anything.
The local mindset here is pretty grim, honestly. Growing up, most of us are taught that we're the best, smartest, and that our country is perfect and everything will always be great while we just lounge under trees.
I subscribe to the Japanese approach: without education and effort, you have nothing.
Then, when we're on vacation, we actually enjoy life and our hobbies.
As for working hours—I've worked in the States from 6 AM to 10 PM when necessary (even while finishing school), and I didn't mind it one bit.
If someone wants to work less, they should find a job that allows it. Four hours or eight hours, whatever.
But trying to pass laws banning any work over 40 hours a week? Total nonsense.