lightbright said:Valderrama, you need to clean up that opening post so people actually get what you're saying.
As for the actual point—people who can't handle themselves usually resort to labeling anyone who stands out. In this case, it’s about nationality. Could be race, gender, age, whatever. If someone is looking for trouble, they'll find a reason to hate. Just don't forget that most aggression is just buried fear in disguise. If you actually give a damn about people, you'll see through that noise and ignore the insults. Honestly, the fix is just sticking to real values. It's a grind, I know, but worth the effort. 😍
And what's hiding in your foundation, if you ask me? Maybe just a desperate need to look smart. Or maybe you're just scared of getting your hands dirty? Am I right? Scared of being "incorrect" or messy.
lightbright...
all calm, quiet, politically correct, and totally spineless. Wiping her ass a hundred times with those aloe vera wet wipes, eating tofu, saving water...
man, that's rough...
and she thinks everyone else should be exactly like that.
Like Valderrama needs your advice. And it's pretty lousy advice at that. You're talking to him like he's some kind of idiot.
basically treating him like an idiot.
So why would Valderrama need to change anything? Who even are you? What don't you understand? If someone doesn't get it, let them ask. Instead, you just drone on. You're exhausting.
