Complaints about the NWS warnings

Look, regarding that whole mess about raising the legal age for marriage—I already took two red cards for it. Honestly? I’m not even complaining. I’ve already gone on the record to apologize for my choice of words. Maybe they were a bit too blunt, maybe they rubbed some people the wrong way, but I’ve said my piece. I own it.

I was looking back at post number 618, and I noticed that the moderator over at T-Mobile is quoting me and sending me off. Look, let me make this clear one last time: we aren't here to litigate the fine print or debate legal technicalities. This isn't a courtroom, and I'm not your lawyer. Leave the talk about laws and rights to someone else.

I didn't say a single thing in that post—or any of my previous ones, for that matter—that should have triggered a warning. Honestly, why bother? Laws and legal technicalities don't mean a damn thing to me personally. I couldn't care less about the fine print.

Here we go again. I’m back at it, sitting under the thumb of the same moderator, getting slapped with yet another warning. Apparently, my post doesn't belong in this specific thread. They’re telling me to take my business elsewhere and move it to a different subforum. It’s like being told you're standing in the wrong aisle at a grocery store while you're just trying to buy milk—same repetitive headache, same useless lecture.

And where else would he belong? Look, when you're talking about BDSM—and my post is strictly focused on that—there isn't really any other corner of the internet where this conversation makes sense.
Right after that, she shuts me down with a quota, and then the other two moderators jump right in to pile on. Suddenly, the whole thread just turns into a loop, circling back to exactly what my controversial post was trying to say in the first place.

Can someone please walk me through why I keep getting these warnings? It feels like I'm being flagged for absolutely nothing. Any insight would be appreciated.

I quoted you just to get a word in, but that warning isn't directed at you personally. It’s for everyone on this thread. I've repeatedly asked that we stop debating laws and legalities in this specific discussion and in the PDF... but it keeps happening. I only brought it up because your post mentioned those two again.

Nicholas Williams7 said:So, I’m back at it again. On the BDSM thread—post number 1835, to be exact—I just got hit with another warning from the same moderator. Apparently, my post doesn't belong there and I need to move it to a different section!

You were actually asking for someone to write a story, if I recall correctly:

It would be great if one of the submissive ladies on this forum could share a fantasy or a real-life experience.

That's exactly why Kate Ward16 pointed out that for those kinds of erotic stories, there’s a specific thread dedicated entirely to them—whereas the BDSM thread is meant for discussing the lifestyle itself.

Kate Ward16 said:I quoted you just to get a word in, but let me be clear: that warning isn't aimed at you personally. It’s for everyone following this thread. I’m tired of people ignoring the request to stop debating laws and legalities in this specific discussion and that PDF. I only brought it up because you mentioned those two things again in your post.

If that's how it is, then fine. I honestly thought the warning was a direct shot at me specifically since it was attached to my post!

Thanks for clearing that up.

Warnings like that just cause confusion. When they show up inside someone's reply, the first thing anyone thinks is that it's a personal jab at the person being quoted.

Matthew Anderson said:You were the one asking for someone to write a little story, if I recall correctly:

The thing is, Auntie pointed out that when it comes to those kinds of stories, there’s actually a specific thread dedicated to that—where BDSM serves as the jumping-off point for the discussion.

Look, that was all wrapped up in the context of my original post, and honestly, I don't see why a bit of fantasy should be an issue if the actual event isn't! We aren't talking about summarizing some classic novel here; we're talking about what's already being shared on this site! Desires! Not many people have deep experience in this area, so a little light fantasizing is actually helpful, and it's already happening anyway. Besides, the whole topic is BDSM, so it seems perfectly relevant to me. I really don't agree with this warning.

Nicholas Williams7 said:Yeah, but that was wrapped up in the rest of my post. I don't see why a fantasy is controversial if the actual event isn't. This isn't me retelling some novel; it's just what's already being said... about desires. Not many people have massive experience with this stuff, so a little fantasizing is actually helpful, and people are already doing it. Besides, the topic is BDSM, so it fits perfectly. I don't agree with this warning.

The point of this thread is discussing BDSM through sharing experiences, personal thoughts, perspectives, etc. That's exactly what it's for. But writing out fantasies and desires in the form of stories? Sorry, but that doesn't belong here. Use the specific thread linked instead.

Nicholas Williams7 said:Look, that was wrapped up in the rest of my post, and I honestly don't see why a fantasy would be an issue if the actual event isn't! We aren't out here retelling a novel; we're talking about things that are already being written down—desires! Not many people have massive life experience in this area, so a little bit of fantasizing is actually pretty helpful, and it's already happening anyway. Besides, since this is a BDSM thread, I think it fits perfectly fine. I really don't agree with this warning.

The warning was just that stories, whether they're real or made up should go in the specific thread designated for them. You don't have to agree with me, but since we have a collective thread specifically for erotic stories, all stories belong there.

Kate Ward16 said:That thread is meant for discussing BDSM through sharing real experiences, personal perspectives, and general insights—that’s literally the whole point of it. Writing out fantasies or desires as if they were an erotic story... sorry, but that doesn't belong there. That belongs in the specific thread linked in the post.

We are talking about fantasy here, and people write about fantasy on that thread every single day! If you actually bothered to read the entire post,
you’d realize I wasn't asking for novels or short stories. I was asking how people visualize these scenarios, especially those who don't have personal experience to draw from. Purely hypothetical, purely fantasy!

There is absolutely no violation of the rules happening here.
Try to see the bigger picture, Kate Ward16 and Matthew Anderson. 😉

You couldn't be more wrong.
Since when did we start banning people for having fantasies? People write about this kind of stuff on pretty much every single thread on this forum!

Nicholas Williams7 said:It’s about fantasy. People write about this on this thread every single day! Read the whole damn post and
you'll see I wasn't asking for stories or novels. I was asking how people imagine these scenarios if they don't have actual experience. Purely fantasy!

Nobody is breaking any rules here!
Open your minds a bit, Kate Ward16 and Matthew Anderson 😉

You guys couldn't be more wrong!
Should we really ban fantasies when they're being discussed on basically every single thread on this forum?

Fine... 😕 in your post about how stories have their own dedicated threads, you saw some kind of violation 😕 No offense, but there's nothing I can do about that. Until you actually see the difference between a "story" and a "fantasy," anything I write is just a waste of time 🤷.
Look, the thread is meant for discussion, not for listing out fantasies—though even in a discussion, someone might casually mention a fantasy or an experience (emphasis on *casually*, since the point of the topic is discussion, not fantasies, which still doesn't mean they're banned anywhere)

Kate Ward16 said:Look... 😕 if you're seeing some kind of ban in a post meant to be about a specific theme, well, 😕 no offense, but I can't fix how you perceive things. Until you can actually see the line between a "story" and "pure fantasy," there isn't much point in me typing anything out—it's just a dead end 🤷.
The topic is set up for discussion, not for listing off fantasies. Sure, someone might slip in a fantasy or a personal experience during the conversation, but that’s an aside—that's the key part. The whole point of the thread is discussion, not indulging in fantasies, though that doesn't mean there's some secret rule against mentioning them
.

😕 Alright, thanks for clearing that up!
Maybe I just misread the situation entirely!