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First time: what to expect?

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Participants placidotter8Hannah Williams5Kenneth Gonzalezplacidjackal36Paul Anderson7placidlynx24Hannah Wood59Scott Allen10
placidotter8 placidotter8 NewcomerOP
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#1 ·
I am 14 years old and have not experienced ejaculation yet. Is this considered normal?
please...
Hannah Williams5 Hannah Williams5 Member
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joined Oct 2008
#2 ·
placidotter8 said:I'm 14 years old and I haven't experienced ejaculation yet. Is this normal???
please...

Hold on just a second.
Before we go any further, let's establish some basic definitions so we are actually speaking the same language.
Ejaculacija is the release of semen during male climax, which is intrinsically linked to orgasm. I assume you understand what I mean by that. It is important to note that an orgasm—for both men and women—can be achieved through masturbation, independent of sexual intercourse. Since you are far too young to be engaging in sexual intercourse, you can still reach orgasm, and consequently, ejakulacija, through masturbation. Given that you are only 14, if you aren't experiencing ejakulacija during orgasm, there is absolutely no reason to panic; you are still very young, and everything will develop naturally when the time is right.
To be honest, your phrasing "experienced ejakulacija" is a bit clunky and slightly ambiguous. Perhaps you are actually referring to nocturnal emissions, or "wet dreams," which is the involuntary release of semen during sleep? Keep in mind that those don't happen to everyone, and that is perfectly fine too.
I hope this provides some clarity. If you have further questions, feel free to ask.
Kenneth Gonzalez Kenneth Gonzalez Newcomer
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joined Aug 2009
#3 ·
Hey, just take it easy, man! No rush at all!
I’m pretty sure you were talking about that first little spurt... If I had to guess based on what I've seen, I’d say sixteen is basically the cutoff age for when you should really be hitting those milestones! 👍
placidjackal36 placidjackal36 Active Member
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joined Jan 2008
#4 ·
Look, pollution isn't some inevitable part of the process.
But when it comes to reaching ejakulacija during masturbation, you really ought to be able to manage that by age 16. Honestly, by 14, you should already be there.
Paul Anderson7 Paul Anderson7 Active Member
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joined Jun 2010
#5 ·
placidjackal36 said:No, wet dreams aren't an absolute necessity.
But being able to reach ejakulacija through masturbation should ideally happen by age 16. Honestly, even by 14.

True, and even before 14 if everything is working exactly as it should.
placidotter8 placidotter8 NewcomerOP
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#6 ·
I was actually referring to masturbation; at what age did you all have your first experience?
placidlynx24 placidlynx24 Newcomer
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joined Jun 2009
#7 ·
Look, I hit wet dreams when I was 10. It wasn't even a big deal; I actually hit puberty a bit early because of other stuff going on. (And hey, maybe you’ll be getting laid before I did 😛, since I’m 18 now.) I remember my first orgasm happened toward the end of 4th grade, mostly triggered by stress—I was about 10, almost 11. From then on, the urge to masturbate kicked in. I started doing it, and even though nothing came out at first, eventually, this clear fluid would leak after I finished, and shortly after that, the wet dreams started. I noticed the sperm turned whiter and thicker around age 12 or 13.

To keep it brief: try masturbating. If you're actually ejecting, then you didn't miss the whole maturation process, you just haven't had a nocturnal emission yet. If nothing happens, maybe manual stimulation will help kickstart things down there. 🤷 Bottom line: if things haven't leveled out by the time you're 15, go see a urologist immediately!!!

Hope that helps.
placidotter8 placidotter8 NewcomerOP
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#8 ·
I have masturbated frequently, yet I experience no ejaculation following orgasm.
Since you mentioned reaching maturity around age 12 or 13, does that imply my situation falls within the normal range?
What are your thoughts on this?
Paul Anderson7 Paul Anderson7 Active Member
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joined Jun 2010
#9 ·
placidotter8 said:I’ve masturbated quite a bit, but nothing actually comes out after I climax.
You mentioned you started seeing results around 12 or 13, so maybe I’m not totally outside the realm of normal after all?
What do you guys think?

Don't sweat it too much; everything tends to catch up eventually. Just stay patient. 😉
Hannah Wood59 Hannah Wood59 Newcomer
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joined Feb 2016
#10 ·
Paul Anderson7 said:Don't sweat it too much—everything tends to fall into place eventually. Just stay consistent 😉

🤣😂
Hannah Williams5 Hannah Williams5 Member
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joined Oct 2008
#11 ·
placidotter8 said:I’ve masturbated plenty of times, but nothing actually comes out after I climax.
You mentioned you started seeing results around age 12 or 13, so does that mean I'm not exactly outside the realm of normal?????
What are your thoughts???????

Have you even bothered to read any of the posts above yours?
We already gave you a perfectly clear answer: you're still young, and everything will settle into place when the timing is right.
What more do you want from us? It's not like you're trying to start a family right now...
placidotter8 placidotter8 NewcomerOP
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#12 ·
Someone mentioned that if I can't achieve this by the 15th—which is just over six months away—I should urgently see a doctor!?!?!?!
Scott Allen10 Scott Allen10 Regular
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joined Jun 2005
#13 ·
Alright, alright, alright... I think you finally got your answer... basically everything is looking good, so just stay persistent and you'll be shooting everywhere like a champ🙂...

Once you actually nail that first one, you definitely owe us all a round of drinks at the local pub so we can celebrate properly...🙂

I'm gonna wrap this thread up now before things get way too ridiculous and we all start acting like idiots...😉...

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