Laura Watson77 said:I’m dealing with a difficult situation. Someone very close to me is struggling with an F25 disorder, which points toward schizophrenia. They’ve been in treatment for five years now, but we aren't seeing any real progress. It’s been five different hospitalizations, and there was even a suicide attempt. They’ve cycled through various medications just to stay somewhat stable. The person is 24 and still trying to navigate college. Please, if you have any advice on what I should do—how can the family help pull them out of this state?🤷 Any advice at all would be appreciated. Thanks for understanding.
Hey...
A woman I know deals with the exact same disorder. She was a high-achieving student with a massive career ahead of her, but everything just fell apart in a single day...
It's the same pattern as your situation...
She went to treatment too, but nothing changed. She refuses to take her prescribed meds unless she feels like it, and that's when she becomes most dangerous—both to herself and everyone around her...
Her elderly parents just can't fight her anymore. They’ve essentially given up because no matter how much they talk, nothing sticks. Since this is rooted in her psyche, talking doesn't fix it...
One day things are fine, the next they aren't...
There are phases where she just locks herself in her room and studies, and studies, and studies...
She only needed two more exams before finishing her degree when this hit...
Now, for five years, she’s been trying to pass those same exams only to fail every time. She just ends up sitting there, aimless...
Her parents didn't tolerate it at first, but once she threatened suicide if they wouldn't let her take the tests, they ran out of ways to argue. Now they feel like paying for her exams is just throwing money down the drain...
The reality is... a person in that state is living entirely within their own head. They barely perceive the world around them...
They act whenever they feel like it. Most of the time—about 90% of it—they simply won't. In those moments, it's honestly better to just keep your distance...
I don't know how to help you specifically, but I wanted to share her story so you can see how someone can end up when they had so much potential... it shouldn't have been this way.😢