I have to admit, I wasn't feeling even a tiny bit of negativity while I was typing that out. I just don't waste my emotional energy on people I don't know; I learned a long time ago that trying to do that over the internet is a pretty fool's errand.
William Gonzalez3 said:Sure, and now why don't you be a pal and explain to us exactly what constitutes philosophy and where its boundaries lie.
It seems like you weren't reading very closely again. You tend to interpret things however you want them to be—which I think everyone does to some extent, though you seem to have a real knack for it. How on earth am I supposed to tell anyone else what counts as philosophy or claim any kind of authority on the subject???! You’re basically handing me an authority that I simply don't possess, and honestly, I have no desire to hold it, because no one should be claiming that kind of status. Did you catch that part where Nietzsche wrote that a philosopher must constantly redefine what philosophy actually is? If you did, maybe it just didn't quite register in your brain, and therefore, it hasn't really reached you either.
William Gonzalez3 said:Regarding taking things out of context, I don't think all those emojis you posted change much of the situation.
Actually, if the topic just didn't align with your philosophical sensibilities, you could have just nicely said—this topic doesn't fit my philosophical sensibilities.
But you didn't say that, instead you claimed it wasn't "real" philosophy and that you felt like doing some actual philosophizing 😁 😉 (which feels insulting, demeaning, and patronizing no matter how many emojis you throw behind it or what tone you use)
so I'm asking you nicely—what is "real" philosophy and how does one actually philosophize?
Taking something out of context is taking something out of context, and once you strip away the surrounding meaning (and it wasn't just about the emojis here, but whatever), the meaning of what was taken changes fundamentally. Another thing is that I’m just a user here, just like you and everyone else; I just happen to have the ability to delete posts I find inappropriate. I have the privilege of clearing out a Viagra ad or moving a post that belongs more in Politics or Religion to the right section. I wrote that post as a regular user. If I were to go through and list all the nonsense you write and pull it out of context, I could probably make it sound like you're a pedophile or an arsonist or something, just by picking and choosing. If you were a moderator, would you deny your own constant chatting? Or would you realize that you're still just a user who can write whatever you want? My opinion isn't the final word on anything, but those who find issues with the things I write as a USER might find things in their own posts too, just like I find things in theirs. That's the whole point. The fact that you don't grasp certain things, or won't understand because you don't want to, or that you're bothered by a specific phrase because you're acting like a tough guy... that's not on me...
I'm not offended, and nobody can offend me unless I allow it. But if something turns my stomach, it's because someone isn't trying, when they take things out of context, or when they're generally being inconsistent—not because of my principles, but because they aren't putting in the effort to reach the truth. They care more about silly things like "authority," image, or what others think. Well, alright, considering we're dealing with someone who's clearly a fan of American teen movies, I guess I can't blame you.🙂.
William Gonzalez3 said:and I’d really prefer if you didn't just send me a private message about this, but instead posted it here where everyone can see. I honestly feel like all our members deserve to understand what constitutes a philosophical discussion, so they can use those same standards when starting new threads. That way, nobody ends up looking unphilosophical by posting topics that don't quite hit that mark.
It would also go a long way in improving the overall quality of the forum itself.
On my end, if you actually have an issue with me being "patronizing" or if you have something against me personally, I’d ask that you please approach me with some actual constructive criticism—which I’ll be happy to listen to if I find it helpful (assuming you truly care about improving how we communicate; otherwise, there isn't much point in us talking). Or, if you'd rather, you can just take your complaints about my "tone" straight to one of the administrators and let them handle it, while you continue playing the hero and defending this sub-forum against those incredibly dominant moderators who constantly push their own agendas (just look at their post counts).
William Gonzalez3 said:p.s. my opening post wasn't meant to be hostile in the slightest.
It felt more resigned and sad. [/COLOR]
I’d describe it more as pseudo-critical and unoriginaly cynical.
If you were feeling resigned because of THAT specific thing, well, that says more about your own personality than anything else. I don't know what kind of hang-ups you might be dealing with, and frankly, it's none of my business, but if you keep "criticizing" me this way by cherry-picking my words to suit your own narrative, we're going to have a problem. It feels like I have nothing better to do than spend my time justifying myself to someone who's basically just waiting for a gap in the conversation so they can head out for their weekly ritual of hitting the local pub every last Thursday of the month. I've made my position clear, and how things proceed from here is entirely up to you. And look, I don't have a personal vendetta against you—don't go making this into some huge psychological drama, especially since you seem pretty hypersensitive—but I definitely have an issue with this particular way of interacting. I'm not sure where the line for a "philosophical" debate is drawn, but I certainly know where my limit for tolerance lies 😉.