Frank Gonzalez6 said:Don't go... I love you, I've always loved you, and I will always love you... I know you'll read this... and realize that you are the only one 🙂
Even if she realizes she’s "the one," do you honestly think she’s coming back?
A few years ago, I told this girl, "I love you, I've always loved you, and I always will..." and honestly, today I can't even remember her name! Ha... so much for my eternal devotion.
Ugh... I’m completely out of inspiration here... what can I even say to you?... Just, please, stop fighting the inevitable... and start living your life... though I suppose that’s hard when you’re still crying your eyes out.
I had a girlfriend once... I truly thought I loved her... I acted like it, thought about it constantly, the whole bit...
She was cheating on me... and I knew it... well, subconsciously, at least... but consciously, I refused to admit it—didn't even want to process it—until I saw the proof with my own eyes. And then I just hated myself; I felt like such an idiot, thinking she was the only one... pouring all my love into her, only for her to treat me like that. Eventually, I found someone better, and after her, someone even better... until I finally met the woman I'm with now... the best one. Yet, even now, if I were still mourning that first girl, telling her "you're the only one... I love you"... where would I be today? I'd be absolutely screwed... totally lost.
But... I realized something... I am someone who gives love... I don't ask for anything extraordinary from a partner... nothing toxic or extreme... just that the love is reciprocated. If someone doesn't want to give that back... why bother giving it to them in the first place? Especially when it's a one-way street... forget it.
I know it hurts... but there is no "only one"... look... my current girlfriend tells me that if I ever left her, she'd kill herself... she really would... hell, I'd probably kill her myself before I let that happen... but seriously... if you aren't getting love in return, don't sit there weeping over it... wipe your tears away so you can actually see what's in front of you... because if you don't wipe those tears, you won't see anything at all.
God... I had this one girl... I adored her... I believe that even today, somewhere deep down, I love her. She didn't want to be with me, and why? An even more absurd reason: she loved me, but she didn't want to be tied down. Despite everything... I tried... I kept trying... and nothing... until finally... I told myself... if she doesn't want my love... fine, screw it... there will be others who will be overjoyed to receive it... so I started looking for them.
If I had kept crying over her... a few years from now, I'd be right here on this forum writing... "I love her... and I always will... I hope she reads this... and realizes she's the only one..."
Forget it... she isn't the only one... and there's nothing to "realize"... I realized she was the foolish one for refusing my love... and as much as that hurt... I moved on... searching for a heart... a heart I could love, cherish, cry with, and grieve with... and wouldn't you know it... I found it... but only after I stopped crying... and after I realized... SHE WASN'T THE ONLY ONE... the only one who was foolish enough to reject my love... in that sense... she's the only one. :-)
