Partial credit?

Thanks in advance.

What on earth is happening here?
Everyone is bailing on the USA.

That’s exactly what I’m asking

And then there's this... when you take a subforum that’s supposed to be a level playing field where everyone actually gets a say, and turn it into some private little clique with untouchable sacred cows that just exist to lecture people...

The whole thing with the favoritism and the bans makes zero sense to me—honestly, if you can't handle the vibe, don't open the thread and just walk away. Maybe it should've been more of a statement... 🤔

I guess if you're only partially involved, Solo, there’s at least no urge to sit around watching who writes what.
I just don't get why administration still hasn't figured out where the issue lies, or why everyone is eventually migrating to Discord to escape the swamp that certain individuals, alongside Latite, have created.
A long time ago, more users moved over to Offtopic the moment that section was approved as its own little subforum—essentially a private playground where certain people get protected because, well, she "likes" them.
We knew back then exactly what would happen with that subforum, and what we're seeing today is the inevitable result. 🙂
But whatever, Anderlon basically signaled an era of niche subforums by appointing her as a moderator for the US, and he was active there for a bit, starting threads where people check in just because that's some trend on the Moderators board, so why not do it on the US too.
Yet, actually dealing with real problems or listening to the voices of those who were once active in that subforum? I doubt that will ever happen, because you can't negotiate with that. Whatever is suggested gets shot down just because it interferes with someone's agenda—especially Latitee's plan to let specific people do whatever they want without any consequences.

People don't want to stick around in a swamp because it's filthy and reeks, but apparently, it smells wonderful to moderator Latitee. Administration clearly doesn't mind, not even the fact that Ludica isn't even actively moderating the US anymore.
It's pathetic to watch a subforum that used to be a decent place—not perfect, but good enough for people to socialize and communicate with a bit of positivity. Now, it's just a private clique. It's sad.

Mhm. Just some private drama from one disturbed individual. If she wants to go around recommending snuff films, what are we supposed to do about it? Let her enjoy her little hobby, I guess.

The whole sub has just become a breeding ground for all this redpill and blackpill nonsense. It feels like these ideologies thrive specifically because they feed on people's insecurities and fears, which seems pretty counterproductive to me. I don't really see the point in tolerating that kind of rhetoric in a space that's supposed to help lonely people actually connect, hang out, and maybe find some kind of meaningful relationship with another human being. Instead, you've got people scrolling through posts about how their jawline shape is destiny, or how superficial and manipulative women are, and stuff like that. I guess... wouldn't it make more sense to encourage ideas that actually lower the paranoia and anxiety surrounding dating, rather than making it worse?

Just here to back my people up since my request got nuked by mistake. I’m definitely in for the partial 🙂

It's pointless. Everyone ends up opening new threads just to come back anyway.

Personally, I’m fine with Lata; I get along great with her. I actually dig her modern approach to moderation. This forum could really use a moderator like her.

Nicholas Grant20 said:The whole sub has just become a breeding ground for all this redpill and blackpill nonsense. It feels like these ideologies thrive specifically because they feed on people's insecurities and fears, which seems pretty counterproductive to me. I don't really see the point in tolerating that kind of rhetoric in a space that's supposed to help lonely people actually connect, hang out, and maybe find some kind of meaningful relationship with another human being. Instead, you've got people scrolling through posts about how their jawline shape is destiny, or how superficial and manipulative women are, and stuff like that. I guess... wouldn't it make more sense to encourage ideas that actually lower the paranoia and anxiety surrounding dating, rather than making it worse?

Exactly. I have zero desire to be standing around when someone decides to take their own life because they swallowed some toxic garbage they read on here.

Nicholas Grant20 said:The whole sub has just become a breeding ground for all this redpill and blackpill nonsense. It feels like these ideologies thrive specifically because they feed on people's insecurities and fears, which seems pretty counterproductive to me. I don't really see the point in tolerating that kind of rhetoric in a space that's supposed to help lonely people actually connect, hang out, and maybe find some kind of meaningful relationship with another human being. Instead, you've got people scrolling through posts about how their jawline shape is destiny, or how superficial and manipulative women are, and stuff like that. I guess... wouldn't it make more sense to encourage ideas that actually lower the paranoia and anxiety surrounding dating, rather than making it worse?

I suppose this is a solid explanation for why better moderation is necessary. It isn't even about the constant arguing or the friction between users—that’s always going to happen. But I would argue that the USA still has enough of a sensitive audience where certain posts from random forum users, who are obsessed with internet theories about facial ratios and jawlines, can actually impact people and make them withdraw even further.

But obviously, it's in the interest of Latitei, since she thrives on the drama and gossip, especially the second kind which she wasn't even ashamed to admit.

mistyhound94 said:I suppose this is a solid explanation for why better moderation is necessary. It isn't even about the constant arguing or the friction between users—that’s always going to happen. But I would argue that the USA still has enough of a sensitive audience where certain posts from random forum users, who are obsessed with internet theories about facial ratios and jawlines, can actually impact people and make them withdraw even further.

But obviously, it's in the interest of Latitei, since she thrives on the drama and gossip, especially the second kind which she wasn't even ashamed to admit.

Honestly, this whole thing is a saga in itself. Just... yikes.

mistyhound94, why the complaining now?

First it was a Wiki issue, now it's Sylar... just give me a list of everyone bothering you and we'll ban them all so you can finally be happy here in the US. 😍

leteći, I have no idea where you came from, but honestly... just go away, you aren't even posting in the US.
Snuff films aren't really the topic at hand, but sure, if interpreting it that way makes you feel better.

Latite, do you even realize how bad of a moderator you are?

It’s almost impressive how little self-awareness you actually have.🤔.

So?

Go ahead and find me a moderator that everyone actually likes and agrees with.
It doesn't exist.

Based on how you handle moderation, I don't just feel dissatisfied—I feel disgusted.

That is perfectly fine.
You are entitled to your own opinion, certainly.

I just find it a bit of an enigma why you all decided to gather here now with these self-initiated factions.

You left, so goodbye... perhaps we will run into each other in other sections of the forum eventually. 🙂

There is a massive difference between ten percent of the community having an issue with the Moderators and ninety percent of them feeling the same way.
Arguing about how nothing is ever perfect just doesn't hold any weight in the real world.

Ashley Vaughn79 said:That is perfectly fine.
You are entitled to your own opinion, certainly.

I just find it a bit of an enigma why you all decided to gather here now with these self-initiated factions.

You left, so goodbye... perhaps we will run into each other in other sections of the forum eventually. 🙂

Well, we're still reading each other right here. And hopefully, we'll see you again once they finally move you out of that moderator seat.

And don't give me that "factions don't just disappear" line. You're clearly the one clearing them out 🤷.

restlesstiger49 said:There is a massive difference between ten percent of the community having an issue with the Moderators and ninety percent of them feeling the same way.
Arguing about how nothing is ever perfect just doesn't hold any weight in the real world.

Your main account is still banned for another 24 hours, yet here you are posting from an alt.
Usually, other mods would grant permissions to an alt and then extend the original ban by a week as punishment for using a secondary account.

I suppose it wouldn't be a good idea for me to do that again, right?

People tend to call for stricter moderation only when they think it won't affect them personally, assuming it will only target those they don't like.
That isn't how it works.

Adam Moore12 said:Well, we're still reading each other right here. And hopefully, we'll see you again once they finally move you out of that moderator seat.

And don't give me that "factions don't just disappear" line. You're clearly the one clearing them out 🤷.

It's true, partial removals don't just happen on their own. 😁

Even if requested, all active mods have to agree before anything is removed.
Who knows who will be stepping into my role one day.

I'm not planning on stepping down right now, but life is unpredictable.